The guy i've been seeing has admitted to me in the past about being terrified of getting hurt, and even attached because he's had a hard past (romantically and otherwise), but last night we were talking and he said that since things were getting to be a little more serious between us he had to tell me that he CAN'T trust people, no one, ever and that between his insecurity and distrust he won't try much - towards anything.
So my question, as for right now I've got no problems with this, we still enjoy each others company and such but I know that the lack of trying and eventually the distrust will ware on me.. should I stay and hope he learns to trust me or keep myself at a distance now so as to not get hurt so badly - I care a great deal about him.
NOTE: we're both in early 20's and have similar pasts, just reacted total opposite from them, IE I give everything and gives little
2006-08-12
03:25:20
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attila
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Singles & Dating