All categories - 9 August 2006

Through a discussion with someone, I recently learned that my husband of 3.5 years has been lying to me over the course of our 5 year relationship about MAJOR issues. He lied about his college and graduate education -- turns out he has neither and worse he has a child that he did not tell me about. We have an 18 month old but I cannot trust him and I don't believe we will have a marriage after my learning about these lies. He has asked for forgiveness but I honestly don't think I can do it. I am highly educated and he knew that I sought an educated partner before we married. It's not him and worse he lied about it. I think the lying warrants a divorce but I'm torn?

2006-08-09 19:21:16 · 60 answers · asked by zerocreativity_72 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why does it my boyfriend see it as a pressure on him when....?
I tell him that I am afraid of loosing him if he goes to work abroad? He said he hasn't got the job yet and I already see it as a problem. He got upset with me because he thinks I want to influence his decision but that's not the case. I just worry about loosing him? Why do men see it so differently? He said that he regrets he told me all about it. I feel bad now. I never meant to come across as a selfish girlfriend but I wanted to find out if he actually considers me? He said I pressure him about it? I am 28. He is 26. We are both living in Europe in 2 different countries already. He would like to go to New York City just to work for a while to see how it is there like. I live alone in my country, he lives in his.. we visit each other once a month.Nothing is for sure but I have noticed that he talks about it a lot. He got angry with me last night for telling him that I worry about loosing him. What should I do now?

2006-08-09 19:21:03 · 10 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 19:20:59 · 23 answers · asked by dalen c 2 in History

2006-08-09 19:20:57 · 19 answers · asked by ☆Princess NonO☆ 4 in Polls & Surveys

2006-08-09 19:20:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

I just want to know , being a full figured woman Ive been told that big girls have more cushion for the pushin , if you know what I mean .

2006-08-09 19:20:49 · 11 answers · asked by godsbird2006 4 in Polls & Surveys

2006-08-09 19:20:48 · 7 answers · asked by Matthew M 2 in Motorcycles

I was Watching Trainspotting ( for like the 10 time) and i was Showing it to a Friend and She said That "Heroin turns your eyes blue...I am pretty sure It's True because I have Never met and Heroin addict with any other color eyes"

WELL, I never Met one ... I Know I want to know if that's True or not

2006-08-09 19:20:47 · 4 answers · asked by Josie 1 in Other - Health

Do you notice that the 24hours retail shop has this special naming?

2006-08-09 19:20:46 · 11 answers · asked by Andrew Teoh 1 in Other - Food & Drink

wut can i do 2 help me stay awake all night 2night and not b tired? push ups?sit ups? eat sumthing? ne thing??
p.s
im not drinking coffee thats blech! lol and im only 12 so dont say like alchohal

2006-08-09 19:20:40 · 11 answers · asked by Krista H. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 19:20:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 19:20:36 · 3 answers · asked by Jodygirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There was a terrosist plot thwarted to hijack 20 airplanes and blow them....originated in Britain and some coming to US.

2006-08-09 19:20:21 · 12 answers · asked by gracefully_saved 5 in Religion & Spirituality

I'm curious. Who Are Your Top 3 Favorite Bands or Singers of all time?

2006-08-09 19:20:10 · 6 answers · asked by drumlove56 2 in Music

(latin/tejano music) If so, which groups do listen to?

2006-08-09 19:20:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Music

Do you think I'm overweight?

I'm 14, about 5'3", and weigh 133. Is this too much? I think it is. I think I need to lose about 20 pounds- I weigh as much as my mother! Problem is, I always have trouble sticking with a diet and exercise routine. HELP!!!

2006-08-09 19:20:05 · 17 answers · asked by acct4em 3 in Diet & Fitness

Three contractors are bidding to fix the White House fence. One from New Jersey, another from Tennessee and the third, Florida. They go with a White House official to examine the fence.

The Florida contractor takes out a tape measure and does some measuring, then works some figures with a pencil. "Well," he says. "I figure the job will run about $900: $400 for materials, $400 for my crew and $100 profit for me."

The Tennessee contractor also does some measuring and figuring, then says, "I can do this job for $700: $300 for materials, $300 for my crew and $100 profit for me."

The New Jersey contractor doesn't measure or figure, but leans over to the White House official and whispers: "$2,700."

The official, incredulous, says, "You didn't even measure like the other guys! How did you come up with such a high figure?"

"Easy," the Jerseyan explains, "$1,000 for you, $1,000 for me and we hire the guy from Tennessee."

2006-08-09 19:20:03 · 7 answers · asked by Dew Drop 3 in Jokes & Riddles

hey guys do u prefer somker or non-smoker girls? drinker or non-drinker girls? virgin or unvirgin ones??? i'm curious to know :) and tell me why?

2006-08-09 19:19:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please refer to the question below, to urbanbulldogge's answer:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak6YXnckL_Row6yjXQv0GqTsy6IX?qid=20060808200843AA3K1D1

"Now, as this fetus cannot survive outside of the womb independantly it is not considered human - it is a POTENTIAL human... to remove a fetus that cannot survive on tis own is not murder. "

Question: If a human fetus is not considered human because it cannot live independently from its parent, and therefore is not murder to kill it, what's to stop anyone else from making the decision to abort a fetus (husband, boyfriend, doctor, government, some dude on the street, etc), since it is not classified as human?

Is abortion a case of creating a law to remove guilt over removing unwanted children by murder?

2006-08-09 19:19:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Anthropology

2006-08-09 19:19:53 · 2 answers · asked by ammeg 1 in Other - Society & Culture

My sister (she's a year and a half older than me) beats me at everything in every way. She's smarter, my mom and dad love her more, she's really popular, etc. She over shadows me in every aspect of what I do. She know's she's better than me, and it's horrible. She hawks over her wisdom all the time, laughs when I can't do something or say something stupid, and she just rubs it in every day! What should I do?

2006-08-09 19:19:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am looking for a friend cause this is my first time there .!so i dont know any places for this matter ..i need a friend who s there at the moment and he /she is familar with city and who has time for a new friend ?!:)

2006-08-09 19:19:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Frankfurt

I want to get married to someone. He is the son of our family friends.My parents know that we are dating.But as a family we are not preapred for my marriage. i am old enough to be married. i just need to tell them.

2006-08-09 19:19:45 · 7 answers · asked by shubika r 1 in Weddings

my stepson's birthday is coming up next week does anybody know any restraunts that honor free birthday meals,not that i'm cheap just on a short budget at this time.i live in san jose ca if you know of a nice restraunt in this city.

2006-08-09 19:19:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertaining

I was wondering if Israel is keeping palestinians occupied because they are paradoid about being pushed into the sea! Is this paranoia a holocaust hangover? Is this why they want to occupy bufferzones into other countries?

Is this policy counter-productive being the only reason Israel is hated so much in the East apart from its being a colonial graft? People of the Middle East do not see Israel as merely a Jewish home meaning to live as a friendly neighbour... but a Western conspiracy to undermine Arab an Muslim autonomy. It is seen as the last colonial garrison in the region. I think the way out is only in understanding the fears and vulnerabilities of parties in the conflict and ensuring that these are sincerely addressed. Do you think i am making sense?

2006-08-09 19:19:14 · 14 answers · asked by boogie man 4 in Politics

Some kids at my school have recently began pitting the handicapped students against in each other in cruel war-like games. We are in summer school so there is less supervision. They will do things like getting the students really excited then guiding them on how to throw their feces on each other. Is this wrong? Or is this how you are supposed to treat people who are different?

2006-08-09 19:19:07 · 12 answers · asked by Imightbewrong 1 in Etiquette

what i mean is who has the most potential to be the best team in both conferences.

2006-08-09 19:18:52 · 14 answers · asked by notyouraveragesportfan 4 in Hockey

2006-08-09 19:18:48 · 1 answers · asked by McPhace 1 in Television

And is it hard?

2006-08-09 19:18:19 · 3 answers · asked by hammersfan_23 2 in Careers & Employment

I know campy and age old but still good.

2006-08-09 19:18:05 · 10 answers · asked by erichovstad 2 in Philosophy