Should I do anything at all about this? I have been best friends and oldest friends with a girl I grew up with. Thru weddings, cancer, divorces, kids, deaths and all in betweens we have always considered each other great friends. NOW - I think she ONLY uses me when she needs me...doesn't want to be good friends except when she wants a 'shoulder,' and is ignoring me for 'who knows what' reasons? Honestly - I am tired of this! I have e-mailed her lately and now she is not writing back. I tried to call - wouldn;t take my calls. I do NOT want to force myself on someone but I think that since I held her hand thru THICK and thin she should give me the courtesy of unconditional friendship - not just when SHE wants it. I traveled with her every year for 10 years and now she is no longer interested because she has a new husband (within the past year) - new house - new stepkids and etc. What should I do next to 'equalize' the friendship field? Or - is this friendship over? One sided?
2006-08-09
03:50:14
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