Had her out of my mind and life untill the other day, what do I do? can't stop thinking about her,
2006-08-09 03:51:32 · 8 answers · asked by the bird 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry being married is not problem, problem is that I shouldnt feel this way, I love my wife, just curious if anyone else ever ran into this situation before, not a cheat.
2006-08-09 04:27:31 · update #1
To tell ya the truth ... there is no problem. You are married! These things happen it is the Devil testing you with temptation. But you know you are better than that and you dont want to hurt your family. What is more important the EX or your FAMILY...... also there shouldn't any reason for you to be alone with your EX. Oh and also, you are not goin to listen to any of the comments that are made here...... you are the one that is goin to make a decision. We can talk and talk BUT it doesn't matter. Hope you be a man and make the right decision. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-08-09 04:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude i take it youre middle aged, and since youre married, its natural to fantisise about other women etc, because contrary to current attitudes, men are not made for monogomy, but i digress. It's a crush, probably because youre bored with the relationship you are in now, and looking for that rarrrrrr excitement of the earlier times.
Just remember what my dad said to me: Its okay to get your appetite out, as long as you go home to eat.
Seriously, gawk and obsess all you want, but dont act on it, or youll be a scumbag.
2006-08-09 10:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Andy!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st of all UR MARRIED!2nd of all if u have children, then u hav children 3rd of all if she gets all "ive been thinking about u so much," dont believe that crap! if shes in ur bedroom with u and starts getting all like that and on top of u PUSH HER OFF!its a disaster waiting to happen!then if ur wife comes in and shes been doin laundry or somethin ur screwed dude!
2006-08-09 11:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Cate S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Big Problem and Question is this...
How much do you REALLY LOVE YOUR Wife??
2006-08-09 11:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by Hotlips_G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the right thing....... be a man and be a husband. your wife deserves the best you can offer. there is a reason why you and the ex are not together......
2006-08-09 10:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean what do you do. your married. you do nothing suck it up and love your wife.
2006-08-09 10:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by fawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage shouldn't be viewed as a problem. it should be viewed as the solution.
2006-08-09 11:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get grip and stay away
2006-08-09 10:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋