I divorced her dad when she was 11 mo old, so she really never lived with him or knew him well. When she was about 10 yrs old she told a big lie which nearly landed me in jail, a huge legal mess came out of it and I spent thousands on attorneys. To make a long story short. she lived with him for about 4 yrs. Her big brother stayed with me. I was reluctant, but I allowed her to move back home to live about 4 yrs ago and deeply and honestly, its been a mess. She manipulates and lies. I have spent more than I could afford on counseling for her and I am just heartbroken. She is 18 now and I see so much of her dad in her it makes me sick. She just graduated high school & has no job, no car, no money, no nothing. She lives with a guy who has no teeth, a little girl and no ambition. He is so much like my daughters dad its crazy.
I havent spoken to her because she has no phone and it makes me sick to see her wasting her life. For my sanity, I need to cut her off for now. Suggestions?
2006-07-05
17:24:20
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