my daugthers father is a drug user i was with him for 10 years, and was a drug user myself until i got pregnat. I quit for her and i expected him to do the same. But after 3 years of waiting and his drug use got worse, plus he threatened to hurt me in front of our daughter while high on drugs, i gave up and got custody papers written up where i have full custody, and he has to do 6 consecutive months of clean drug testing before he can see his daughter. I let him talk to her on the phone but that is it. Lately though she has been wanting to see him and i try to explain to her, but she is only 4 and dosnt understand why she cant see her dad. I am keeping her from her dad till he is clean, but its hurting her not to be able to see him at all, is this the right thing to do?
2006-06-26
08:30:57
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jo_leef
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