My boyfriend is acting very weird lately...he never hugs me anymore and avoids me. Should I break up?
2006-06-26 08:30:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. He probably feels guilty because he is cheating. Or he is losing interest because he is cheating. Dump him.
2006-06-26 08:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by teena9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOAH! Slow down hun, try talking to him first. Ask him if he is feeling ok, or if there is something wrong, now make sure you don't badger him with questions, because that'll just make him not want to tell you. Just take him someplace where you 2 can be alone to talk, and just ask him if there is something wrong that he needs or wants to talk about. If he says no, then leave him alone don't ask anymore, just tell him that if he does need or want to tell you anything that you are there if he needs you. That's the best you can do for him.
2006-06-26 15:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no not really. My boyfriend has acted like that a lot of times. He might have something on his mind so you should find out first before making any rash decisions.
2006-06-26 15:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by EIliot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may as well dump him before it comes out in the open that he's cheating or is in love with someone else. This would keep him from making a fool of you. Women don't ever have to ask this question, honestly. They pay more attention to men than men do to in catching them in cheating.
2006-06-26 15:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLLL yea! dump that igga like a bad habit. Wait... beefore all that, sit and talk to him come to come kind of a mutual aggrement for the two if now. Tell " The same door you came through is the same door you better walk right out now and don't let it hit ya".
2006-06-26 15:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ke Ke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not without asking him why he's acting the way he is. At least if you don't like the answer, you will at least be able to break up without questioning whether you made the right decision.
2006-06-26 15:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me when I say don't be paranoid. First check with him - ask him why is he acting like that. If he gives you an aloof answer, then consider it. But try to work things out first if you feel that its worth the time and effort.
2006-06-26 15:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by myoddthoughtss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through this myself...and it turned out he was cheating on me...be SURE he is what you want...make sure the guy you're with treats you with respect and puts you on his priority list because you deserve to FEEL wanted not shunned...I stayed in this kinda of relationship for over 10 years...NOW I know what a relationship is all about...I've got a man that shows me ALL of that!!! Good luck sweetheart
2006-06-26 15:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by candi c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask him whats going on and after you guys talks if he still acts wired. he is probably cheating and you should break up.
2006-06-26 15:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, it's possible... those are good signs that things aren't working out. Sometimes when people are cheating they push themselves away from the person they know they are hurting... I don't mean to worry you, but it's worth a talk.
2006-06-26 15:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course,why not.If you think about it it's like your not even going out with him,figure out if he is cheating on you then you will know.Still break up with him if he continues.Also if you are the one that did something wrong try to talk it out with him.
2006-06-26 15:35:53 · answer #11 · answered by rami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋