There is no real answer to this question but what I have learned of what love is to me is...
(L)isten: and Validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.
2006-06-29 04:15:24
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answer #1
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answered by Wolfie 7
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Let us explore two types today!
“in love” verses “pure love”
Pure: unfiltered, unconditional, comes with acceptance, caring, and non-judgmental. It comes to you from the giver without strings. Never wanting or needing anything in return. It is not a love that is craved, or lusted for. It is gentle, soft, always there. When this love exist between two people, they can be apart for days, months, or even years and be as connected as they had never been apart.
It’s warm, calm, happy, joyful, with feelings of inner peace.
“in love” : A temporary state of love. Can last up to 1 ½ years, but usually shorter. It is based on thirst of love, a constant need to be satisfied, but never is. Someone “in love” can never get enough and wants to be near the one they are in love with 24/7. It is a clouded state of mind.
As they say, “love is blind” the person “in love” will make decisions to please the one they are in love with even if it hurts them. At the time they do not even realize they are doing so. Only after the “in love” period is gone do they see what they have done. They do this due to the fear of losing the person and fearing losing the feelings they get while being with this person.
2006-06-26 08:34:12
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answer #2
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answered by Life Coach 4
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Love means never having to say it, just feeling it. Love means not thinking twice about giving your life for theirs. Love is going cold or hungry to make someone else comfortable. Love is my kids.
2006-06-26 08:34:01
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answered by Pimp_Slapper 5
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Love means to me,, things that i care for and or loved.
2006-07-01 12:38:01
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answered by quickdolphins 1
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To me, love is where you will do anything for a person without expecting anything in return. Just being there for them and helping them because you want them to be happy. It is unconditional. Those are my feelings on it anyway.
2006-06-26 08:34:05
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answered by BillyBoy 2
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Love to me means that you are willing to do anything for that person.
2006-06-26 08:41:48
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answered by SweetPea 5
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Love means completeness to me--that my life is complete or fulfilled.
2006-07-01 13:32:05
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answered by Mindee 2
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love mean love someone thats so speacial to you and you dont wanna let him go love is a feelin that u get when u see that special person
2006-06-29 10:50:30
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answer #8
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answered by Anonymous
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"standing in love" with somebody not "falling in love". Then there is the unconditional love that one has for ther children or parent.
2006-06-26 08:35:21
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answered by walkingbumblebee 1
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love is life , without love life cant go on ..
2006-07-03 17:26:59
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answered by Anonymous
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