I was involved in what most people would call a "fling", but to me it was more than that. We shared some very intimate moments, spent lots of time together, never had a single bad moment, and it ended abruptly and unexpectedly. I wasn't looking to get married or anything like that, but I did take the relationship a little more serious than I would a friendship. Then one day, she told me that she "didn't want a real relationship". Each of us made several attempts to contact eachother after we had taken some time apart after "the talk", but we never actually spoke (only through messages). I haven't spoken to her since, but for some reason, I still think about her, and whenever I do I get really upset. I'm sure my feelings for her were stronger than her feelings for me, but you would think after 3 months of no contact, I would have moved on. Do I need to contact her to get some sort of closure, or is this normal when you basically get dumped?
2006-06-12
12:39:11
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