Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - October 2007

and what are the various ways in which we keep it under control.

2007-10-04 06:06:55 · 15 answers · asked by richmorecockagainandagain 3

2007-10-04 06:06:05 · 23 answers · asked by old fashioned 1

I often advocate that GLBT should find their way out of the closet and onto the streets and busses and subways to whatever arena they are involved in, as pround and honest GLBT…but I must admit that I am in the “Closet.”

Secrets and Lies…I have two that I keep.
One is mine and almost exclusively mine alone, so don’t bother, I ain’t telling.
The other is less mysterious, but no less a secret to the vast majority of my friends and family.

I still smoke…not as much as I did between 16 and 30, but still, when the stress hits or the party starts or I’m just plain bored…I smoke!
PLEASE, do not tell my children! I don’t ever smoke in the house or around them, so they will never know…famous last words!

It’s not that I want to stop either. I like to smoke! Sorry. I enjoy an occasional cigarette…but I have the shame that comes with hiding it from my friends and family!

What are your dirty little secrets?

What do you keep in your closet?
…not the clothing :-)

2007-10-04 05:48:51 · 6 answers · asked by Glenn P 4

2007-10-04 05:36:49 · 4 answers · asked by Sonia K 2

2007-10-04 05:35:38 · 2 answers · asked by shrikant s 1

WHY SOME PERSON USED TO HURT THE FEELINGS OF SOMEONE THEY LOVE?

2007-10-04 04:28:27 · 5 answers · asked by someone used 1

I'm curious.

2007-10-04 04:13:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just answered a disturbing question from another member who says that her parents found out she was sexually active and ordered her a chastity belt. She did not mention her religion and
she implied that she did not know whether chastity belts are common or not. Until now, I did not know that chastity belts were still being made, except for the purposes of sadomasochism. Do you support the use of chastisty belts? Were chastity belts extremely common in the 19th century or were they merely used in "extreme" cases, such as at girls correctional schools? Is there a website that sells chastity belts specifically for young girls, and not for adult "play"? Finally, is anyone else as disturbed by her question as I am?

2007-10-04 03:42:47 · 6 answers · asked by plushpenguin 3

I've answered quesions to countless people and many of them chose the best answer as what they want to hear.

For example, if a person asks, "would you date a super fat guy with a great peronallity?" Many peaople will respond, "Sure" or "yeah" But in reallity you know as well as i know, they wouln't.

That was just an example, however i tell the truth, and not in a cruel and morbid way. I just simply lay it out they way life ad the world views their problems.

2007-10-04 02:18:00 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm talking about my girlfriend. we've been living together for 2 years already. I know she loves me,but still she doesn't trust me. lately she's been telling me some painfull things,when I was seeing my best friend (girl).. I trust her fully, but she doesn't trust me. I don't know if this ever changes.. what's worse I've never ever gave her reason to not trust me..

2007-10-04 00:43:07 · 16 answers · asked by bara_no_seido 3

There are a couple schools of thought on the subject. 1) people choose their orientation, 2) people are born gay. To say that you are born gay seems as though it is a natural occurance. If you believe in evelution wouldn't it make sense that the "gay" gene would have worked it's way out of human evelution by now due to lack of reproduction by homosexuals?

Or is it choice? Maybe not directly choice, but an emotional response to their experiances?

2007-10-03 22:50:37 · 13 answers · asked by jeremycross777 2

this is bizzare, this is a true thing, I know somoene like that, not judging him or something
but it goes beyond transexual,gay,lesbian and stuff like that, is there some kinda reversal sexual thing in the brain ?

2007-10-03 21:44:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every single time I go out you always have people walking into me and not give a damn!! Not only that prams are dangerous!!!

Have everyone really forgetton their manners?

2007-10-03 21:11:58 · 16 answers · asked by purplerain898 1

My little brother is gay (he is 14) and he came out to the family and they freaked out they won't even look at him I'm 20 years old with my own house ext. should I let him move in with me? Cuz I'm 100% ok with it or is it better to let him stay there so they can try to work out there problems?

2007-10-03 19:30:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my opinion good education is very important, but recently i have been thinking about trying to get a job as a dancer in the night club. My problem that i hav a moral issue with it. To me dancing is another form of art, but dancing in the night will give me an image of slut... Help guys , have anyone ever worked as nigh dancer , or a stripper , Please share alll your experiences........ THanks a lot

2007-10-03 18:15:06 · 17 answers · asked by vlada l 2

Im asking the LGBT community, i feel your advice is more helpful. So i think im falling for my organic chemistry professor. Im 19 and hes about 35. I cant help these feelings. Everytime I see him, I get all nervous and i can feel my heart beating faster. I cant stop thinking about him. Im starting to go to his office to talk to him. I think about him all the time. What can i do to stop these feelings!!!

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He makes eye contact w/ me all the time, and asks me to visit him.

hes not married. Seems to me like hes flirting back

I have him for 2 years (3 more semesters!)

2007-10-03 16:48:11 · 4 answers · asked by lost_in_afantasy 2

2007-10-03 16:14:09 · 14 answers · asked by BOSCO 1

I am a transsexual and I want to start transitioning from female to male. While it is not going to be a matter of real transition just yet (only baby steps like binding and packing), I want to come out because I am very sick of hiding in the closet.

The problem is that I live in a college dorm and though it is a co-ed house, the suite and room are single-sex. That is, my roommate and suitemate are both female, but I am male. I do not know if this will cause problems either socially or administratively -- is it possible that I might have to move out if I come out?

2007-10-03 16:00:39 · 6 answers · asked by Rat 7

ever been so smitten and lovesick that you actually feel nauseous in the presence of your crush?

2007-10-03 15:37:50 · 5 answers · asked by hannah 3

I can't figure out his reasoning. Every country has to have some gay people. Does he really believe this or is he just making some political statement?

2007-10-03 15:34:16 · 16 answers · asked by Robin Runesinger 5

ok so, i'm a lesbian and I like all girls no matter how they dress...I mean usually masculine girls like femmes but I dress in guys clothes but I like girls that do too.

2007-10-03 14:58:42 · 5 answers · asked by hockeymonterser 1

just wondering....it might sound pervy but I ask only in the interest of knowledge

2007-10-03 14:21:05 · 16 answers · asked by MathieuLePrince 3

What is the cause of hatred towards effeminate or flamboyant men? Why are they called "sissies", "fairies", "*******", etc.?

2007-10-03 13:47:03 · 16 answers · asked by bree 2

I read my bible, I go to church, GOD is probably tired of my wishy washy self by now (i PRAY), and I'm cool --- just as long as i stay in the house and don't watch or listen to Keisha Cole, Donnell Jones, Avant, FLOETRY!!!! (they so suductive), I CAN'T EVEN LISTEN TO OLD SCHOOL MUSIC and it's suppose to be good all they talk about is SEX! I try not to think about sex or girls but ...... D*** I miss my ex. HELP, and don't say pray! I'm doing that already. IS ANYONE OUT THERE A DELIEVERED EX-LESBIAN?

2007-10-03 12:58:31 · 9 answers · asked by EssDee 1

please tell me how u find out and what it was like. did it change ur thoughts about gay men by seeing that this guy wasnt the stereotypical gay man?
thanks!

2007-10-03 12:53:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm really falling for my girlfriend and i don't know how to tell her without creeping her out. i've known her for 3 months and i just asked her out yesterday and so we are going out. i just don't know how to tell her i love her and want everything to be all right with us. do you think it's too soon to tell her that stuff?

2007-10-03 12:52:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I LOVE WOMEN! THEY ARE SO BEAUTIFUL in SO many ways. I want to stop wanting women BUT then I see another one I want. It woul dbe easier if they didn't want me BUT THEY DO! I really want to be straight (religous purposes) but guys do nothing for me. I don't want to be lonly forever and laying next to a guy is just ........... I don't know about that. HELP, HOW DO I GET WOMEN OUT OF MY SYSTEM?

2007-10-03 12:47:10 · 18 answers · asked by EssDee 1

2007-10-03 12:26:14 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

but what if you love the sin and hate people like the ever ignorant and immature "whitemaster"

2007-10-03 12:09:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in a line of work where it could be lucrative to go gay, well, at least part of the time. Also, it seems like gay guys are easier than women, so my chances of scoring would go way up if I was gay. Finally, I wouldn't need to deal with some guy bugging me to get married if I was gay, since that's just not done.

Yet I'm not gay. Has kind of a uck factor for me.

Nonetheless, I hear about these programs to make the gay go away. Seems like if those programs work, then heterosexuality can be cured too.

2007-10-03 11:49:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous