I read my bible, I go to church, GOD is probably tired of my wishy washy self by now (i PRAY), and I'm cool --- just as long as i stay in the house and don't watch or listen to Keisha Cole, Donnell Jones, Avant, FLOETRY!!!! (they so suductive), I CAN'T EVEN LISTEN TO OLD SCHOOL MUSIC and it's suppose to be good all they talk about is SEX! I try not to think about sex or girls but ...... D*** I miss my ex. HELP, and don't say pray! I'm doing that already. IS ANYONE OUT THERE A DELIEVERED EX-LESBIAN?
2007-10-03 12:58:31 · 9 answers · asked by EssDee 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Remeber, it is God who made us who we are, not the Devil. The reality is, God gave us Desires, so we can procreate. If you are gay, God made you that way, don't ask why, and don't kill yourself psychologically trying to be what you are not. If you have desires, act on them, but do so knowing that God is the only person who can judge us, and NOT some conservative narrow minded asshole who has secret gay tendencies.
Remeber truth will set you free, be true to yourself, and God will shine on you. If you spend your life trying to do what you THINK is right, you will never enjoy the life God wants you to have.
there are a lot of God fearing (straight or gay) people out there who act out on their desires and can still stay on God's course. Just don't inflict pain on anyone, and be true to the person you want to be with.
2007-10-03 13:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by mitchellmmm 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are looking for answers in the wrong place. Being gay is not a sin or something that the church can change for you. Be happy with who you are and make the most of it. Be strong, church and religion is just another addiction that weak people use to be able to handle life and things that they are too weak to handle on their own. Enjoy who you are be proud of who you are.
2007-10-03 17:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by deelakelady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesbian desires do not magically go away just because you are a delivered Christian. The temptations will still be there. The seduction will still drive you crazy. You have to resist the temptations by focusing sexually on your spouse, once you get married.
2007-10-03 15:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun, you cannot lock yourself in a dark box to get away from the tv or music. Don't fight yourself. Just be you. If you want to love a woman, go right ahead. Do what you feels right for you.
2007-10-03 13:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by ravenrogue84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow Mitchell said it all...right on man!
I agree with all he said..god made us, and besides the bible was not written by god it was by man. If u believe in god and u feel u are living what god intended u to do then heaven awaits u. :)
2007-10-03 14:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't change who you innately are. God created us they way we are, and He loves us as much as everyone else. there is no such thing as being "ex-lesbian" or "ex-gay." those who claim you can be "cured" with reparative therapy at one of those "camps" is lying. all they are doing is trying to brain-wash people into lying to themselves and everyone else. they just want you to live a lie to make them happy....they don't care if you're miserable, as long as you pretend to be something you're not. there's nothing wrong with being lesbian. don't listen to the haters.....learn to accept and love yourself for who you are.
2007-10-03 15:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't fight what's inside you...just let it happen the way it is supposed to.....whatever happens, happens......don't fight it!
2007-10-03 15:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could go to one of those camps that "turn" you straight.
2007-10-03 14:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
that's hot. don't hide your true lesbo. let it out!
2007-10-03 13:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by i'mbeingseriuos 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋