I LOVE WOMEN! THEY ARE SO BEAUTIFUL in SO many ways. I want to stop wanting women BUT then I see another one I want. It woul dbe easier if they didn't want me BUT THEY DO! I really want to be straight (religous purposes) but guys do nothing for me. I don't want to be lonly forever and laying next to a guy is just ........... I don't know about that. HELP, HOW DO I GET WOMEN OUT OF MY SYSTEM?
2007-10-03 12:47:10 · 18 answers · asked by EssDee 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You can't go against your heart and be a happy person. Accept yourself as you are. It's sad your religion has put such guilt in you. It will be easier to break with your religion than to change your sexual preference which is impossible.
2007-10-03 12:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Michael da Man 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
THE MAN has it correct. The reason you feel anxiety is because you are pursuing women. This gives them power. The power to reject you. The power to say "yes" or "no" depending upon thousands of contradictory factors that change constantly. Only women say things like "I just don't know what I want right now." DO NOT attempt to figure women out. It can't be done. Even other women can't do it. A prime example of this is a mother teaching her son to be nice to girls and let them have their way and to never hit them back and to "treat them right." (whatever that means) MOTHERS teach their own sons to be unsuccessful with women. In truth, women desire 1)power 2) social status 3) money and not necesssarily in that order. A man just wants a hot chick to bang. Notice of the two categories which one requires an incredible amount of work and sacrifice to attain. So THE MAN has it spot on. Do things that PAY for YOU and only you. Women will flock to YOU then. This is truly how the world works. Stop pursuing and be pursued. This does not happen instantly. It takes many months to many years of success. But the fact of the matter is that you are getting paid to succeed. If you throw your resources at women, they will greedily gobble them up until you have none and then discard you for someone who isn't so stupid. Donald Trump, Hugh Hefner, every damn male politician in existence, and every guy who plays in a band will always have scores of beautiful women. There is no magic in figuring out why. These guys are (as a group) butt-ugly. Women treat men as "Success-objects" and truly judge you by the size of your wallet. There are always wonderful beautiful exceptions to this, but feminism has made it a personal goal to destroy the noble female and replace her with self-centered idiocy. You must discipline yourself to see the big picture. If you give in to your wants, you will never get what you actually *need*. You cannot stop wanting women. You can only control how you act. If you have a goal, be willing to work towards it, but only if it benefits you personally. Chasing women makes you their slaves. Go your own way.
2016-04-07 02:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for saying women are beautiful. I don't think you should fight yourself, even though you have religious obligations. You should be you. LOVE THE WOMEN! While it sounds easy to get the women out of your system, it would be hard to do so. You don't want to lay with a guy and always be repulsed.
Good luck though!
2007-10-03 12:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by ravenrogue84 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sorry but you don't "get women out of your system"...it's not a drug or a simple thing that you want....you have no choice if you're a lesbian be happy that you're a lesbian. Accept yourself and find an open and affirming church in your area that won't make you feel like you're going to hell for who you are.
p.s. call me ;)....just kidding
2007-10-03 12:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, never fight who you are. If wanting women is something that is apart of you, then let it be. I understand you want to be straight for "religious" reasons, but will you be happy? Yes we are damn good looking species I must say!!! I know it's hard to resist,. But seriously, if that is who you are then that's who you are. No hiding or running from it. just be who you are, do you and live your life the best way you know how.
2007-10-03 12:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by Paradise 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well>>> The way I see this is like this...You might as well save yourself the long life or heart ace and incompleteness...You are attracted to women...Men don't do it for you..Why change who you are. or.What you like...You must except who you are..No one can change the way you feel about this....Or give you ideas on how to change it...I can only encourage you to follow the path in life that makes you most happy....
2007-10-03 12:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by getagrip 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get real, you can't be what you are not. If you like the same sex your gay. Hellooo!! What should religion have to do with it anyway. If you believe in religion then you have to believe that god made you who you are.
2007-10-03 17:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by deelakelady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn,guess if I'd been born a woman I would of been gay,because I'm the same way,Oh well!!!
2007-10-03 14:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by Butch46 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to pray & ask God to give you sexual desires for your husband, every time you are making love with him, once you get married.
2007-10-03 15:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in this same situation, and for religious purposes,i have no idea, maybe u can help me
2007-10-03 12:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by drummergirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋