i'm really falling for my girlfriend and i don't know how to tell her without creeping her out. i've known her for 3 months and i just asked her out yesterday and so we are going out. i just don't know how to tell her i love her and want everything to be all right with us. do you think it's too soon to tell her that stuff?
2007-10-03 12:52:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
since you haven't actually gone out-too soon - wait and see if she winds up liking you too - the L word should wait a few months
2007-10-03 12:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore everyone telling you it is too soon to be in love - while lust is often a factor in love (especially love that has come within such a short time of starting a relationship), it is possible to love someone. Tell her how you feel, but only if you suspect she feels the same way - there is nothing worse than saying "I love you" and not hearing it back. You may find she loves you too and simply is as confused as you are. From my own experience, this is often the case: the minute I told my girlfriend I loved her, she told me she loved me too (and let me tell you: best feeling in the world!). However, do assure you're IN love, and it isn't the sort of love you feel for your friends.
Best wishes and hope the pessism isn't getting you down.
2007-10-03 20:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOVE? Whoa hold on! Wait till you go out with her for a little longer or else you might scare her. You don't want to rush things and scare her off.
2007-10-03 21:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey... stop. Really. Seriously.
Youre in LIKE! Maybe even LUST! Both are logical assumptions but youre not in love.
Is this girl even gay? Do you know? How old are you two anyway??
Is it too soon to tell her that stuff?? YOU DAMN SKIPPY!!!!
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2007-10-03 20:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Danger OReilly 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her you love her on the first date u goof.......you will scare her the freak off.....just enjoy your time together, laugh..just have a good time.
2007-10-03 22:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by dutchyinfla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let her know in little warm gestures and looks . if you tell her know right away it might scare her off . but its up to you .
2007-10-03 21:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to soon to say i love you. if she isn't gay/bi you really will freak her out. give yourself some more time to sort out your feelings.
2007-10-03 20:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋