My little brother is gay (he is 14) and he came out to the family and they freaked out they won't even look at him I'm 20 years old with my own house ext. should I let him move in with me? Cuz I'm 100% ok with it or is it better to let him stay there so they can try to work out there problems?
2007-10-03 19:30:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He really wants to move in with me he says he hates it at home.
2007-10-03 19:32:54 · update #1
My family does not care if he lives with me.
2007-10-03 19:38:22 · update #2
If I were you, I would let him move in with you. So you can have a bonding time together. What's the point of just leaving him if your parents aren't even speaking to him. They're not even proud of their own son's achievements. So let him move in with you.
2007-10-03 19:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by [[Rainbow]] 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No if they are ignoring him he doesnt deserve to be treated like that after going through one of the toughest problems in a persons life (coming out) so let him stay with you until the family cools down and then you can all sit down and talk it out.. he might take it the wrong way and think what he has done is wrong and it isnt so yeah take him in for a while that would be the best thing to do
2007-10-04 02:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
⥠Have you thought about sitting down & talking with your parents? Maybe they are super scared and just need some time to cope with this. Or maybe they hate that he's gay. Thats something that you need to find out. Either way right now he needs major love & support! Be there for him and let him come stay with you until things cool down at ya'lls parents house. Right now that love & support is so important especially at the tender age of 14 and you are ready & willing to provide that for him. Good Luck!
2007-10-04 10:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by NCIS ♥ Addict 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your family just needs time to adjust to the news. Sometimes, it just takes time for things to go back to neutral.
If they start talking crap to him or treating him badly then I would move him in with you. Does he know that you would offer for him to stay with you? I bet it'd be a big relief for him to know that you would be there for him.
2007-10-04 02:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by poopstaind 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he should get some love and support
and the only place where he can get that now is with you
2007-10-04 02:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
legally no once he turns 18 then he can go where ever Parents are still responsible for him
2007-10-04 02:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by kcracer1 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Take a bath.
2007-10-04 02:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 0⤊ 6⤋
please help him to be better person....so many girls waiting for him out there....
2007-10-04 02:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by death slnt 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋