Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - October 2007

I need help, Im a Bi-Sexual. i really want to tell my parents because they think im gay. It's weird because i know im not gay, but i do get turned on by guys and girls. My parents arnt really the liberal. Mostly my dad. I dont know how to tell them, but i am tired of keeping it in and hiding it. The weird this is, is that i hate myself for being Bi, if there was a way to turn hetro, i would do anyting for it; but i know there is no possible way without killing another part of you, to turn hetro. So what I am really asking is, is it worth it to tell my parents and how should I brin g it up?

2007-10-06 14:37:18 · 8 answers · asked by Creefer S 2

my wife is bisexual and we cant find any good dating sites for her any suggestions as for were we can find good ones online

2007-10-06 14:33:44 · 3 answers · asked by thumper 1

2007-10-06 14:25:56 · 3 answers · asked by MS. DC 2

If a man has sex with another man, or if a woman has sex with another woman, then no one is hurt as long as they are both consenting adults. And if someone chooses to transition from male to female or from female to male, the act itself doesn't hurt anyone (though when the person is in a relationship, the partner can be hurt by it, but that's a different story). So why is it a sin?

2007-10-06 13:39:39 · 23 answers · asked by GirlInside 3

i told my family that i was bi and they freaked out...there were so mean to me..my twin told me that i am not his sister and my mom really didn't say anything but they way she looks at my says it all..im so upset..how do i go on living like this im only 15 so i can't move out...help......

2007-10-06 13:34:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-06 13:32:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I have been together for 21 weeks now. I love her dearly - I have never loved anyone like I love her, and I feel so incredibly blessed to have her in my life. However, recently things have been going down hill between us, and I know that she is contemplating ending our relationship. This is absolutely heartbreaking for me - I'm slowly coming out as bisexual to my friends (something I previously had absolutely no courage to do so). I'm contemplationg coming out to my family and was even considering asking how they would feel about me arranging to meet up with her (we're in an internet relationship). I was considering asking her for a deeper level of commitment - to this point, both of us have denied our feelings to those who don't know about our sexuality. I am wanting to let everyone know the truth - I've even gone so far as contemplating finding a method to publicly commit to her (not even given the laws here). Am I making the right decision or am I moving too fast?

2007-10-06 13:13:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's a family place. I don't think it's right. I even have several gay people as friends and the majority of them don't believe it's right. Some of them actually go though. When disney tried sending out letters of warning to families going to visit that week, gays tried suing disney. Why can't they do it somewhere that's not family oriented? You have to admit... even if you're gay... its really wrong.

2007-10-06 13:09:43 · 21 answers · asked by Answer me this 3

2007-10-06 13:08:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

urh.
thanks.

2007-10-06 12:58:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I've been having these "feelings" for as long as I can remember. I'm really attracted to females. I even love lesbian porn. But the thing is... I'm only attracted to females sexually. I wouldn't want a relationship with a female. I wouldn't want to date a female. I love men. I love having a boyfriend. What is this? Have you ever heard of this? Is something just wrong in my head or something

2007-10-06 12:41:20 · 5 answers · asked by Answer me this 3

my friend told me as far as he could remember,it was since he knew it since he was 5.he always masturbated though there's no semen coming out until he turned 14.

2007-10-06 12:35:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

DON'T worry too much about what you should say to people who are gay or lesbian. Just follow Jesus' advice when He said, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you". Treat them like you would anyone else.

DON'T talk or think about gay and lesbian people as though they were all the same. There are gay and lesbian Republicans, Democrats, and others who don't vote at all, just like in the heterosexual population. A few gay people are "radical" while most others are as mainstream as apple pie. Some gays and lesbians are alike, others are not alike at all.

DO spend some time to talk to gay and lesbian people. Drop your fear of them. At first, a simple "hello, how are you" may be your goal. Afterwards, you may want to get to know more gay and lesbian people personally and invite them into your life and home.

2007-10-06 11:56:29 · 11 answers · asked by Purple 1

Last week I walked into my daughter's room thinking she wasn't home and I caught her having sex with her best friend. Obviously her friend is also a girl or I wouldn't be here. They are both 16. If she's gay then that's ok with me; I love her no matter what.

If she were having sex with a guy at her age, I wouldn't allow it. I also feel like a hypocrite because I was fooling around with guys at her age. I'm realistic that if these two are emotionally involved that they'll find a way to be together if I forbid it.

They've been friends for years now and there's no way I could break up their friendship even if I wanted to. I'm not sure I do want them apart though, it's normal for her to date at this age and she'd hate me if I denied her that. I just can't give her the impression that I approve of her having sex with anyone at her age but I don't want her to think there's anything wrong with being gay.

2007-10-06 10:29:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-06 10:29:41 · 16 answers · asked by Sam 6

I'm in a small town in the middle of the bible belt, and I'm immensely curious about the bdsm culture. I think it would be right for me and very interesting, but I'm not totally sure as I've never been around it.

How would I gain experience with bdsm and have the freedom and *safety* to experiment? There are is one bdsm group in my city, but it's full of folks with years, often decades, of experience.

I feel that joining up while knowing next to nothing would be like a toddler joining a footrace. Am I wrong? Would they be fairly understanding of a complete greenhorn, or would this be like going back to high school with all the cliques?

Help!

2007-10-06 10:14:05 · 6 answers · asked by akblake1 3

I have a best friend who I think is straight and I'm madly in love with him, but he doesn't know I'm gay. Him and his family are huge Christians but I have to have him! Thats all I can think about!
How do I make a move on him, or how do I know he is bi or wants
me??? HELP!!!

2007-10-06 08:07:09 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm eating one later on... can't wait to bite into it, now that i've got my braces off i'm free to eat whatever I want

2007-10-06 08:03:31 · 12 answers · asked by ☼ kayla ☼ 5

Anyone care to join me?

2007-10-06 07:03:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

What non-bias reliable evidence do you have to support your claim? Baring in mind that anything which is religious based does not count, as it is going to be biased without any actual study.

The American Psychologigal Association have actually bothered to do several full studies concerning this, rather than just assuming that they were right without looking it to the situation properly, and they've determined that it is NOT a choice http://www.apa.org/topics/orientation.html . More qualified organisations , such as Boston University, South Bank University, ARS Technica etc have also come to the same conclusion. These and more all know what they're doing since they're the professionals. You are not. So, what makes you think that the world's main-stream qualified psychological and biological organisations are wrong, and you (with no study or evidence) are right?

Because in reality, you sound as dumb as someone who still refuses to except that the world is round, and not flat.

2007-10-06 06:29:35 · 11 answers · asked by Christian 3

.... excepting of my meowing when I had a picture of a cat?
And why do we make fun of people when we are despretly trying to be excepted? I know I'm guilty of it too.

Meow?

2007-10-06 05:56:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it good or bad? Do you know about Freemasonry or have experience with that organization?

2007-10-06 05:34:23 · 12 answers · asked by Author Al 4

2007-10-06 02:14:26 · 7 answers · asked by a s 1

2007-10-06 00:02:46 · 9 answers · asked by ifhusain 4

Another close friend who i actually think of as just a friend. We can be talking and all of a sudden she will stop and smile at me. She runs her fingers through my hair. I always keep her laughing and she is always bumping into me and pushing and playing.She even comes up with nicknames for me. I think she likes me. Or am i stupid and she is just being friendly.

2007-10-05 18:03:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-05 15:39:32 · 9 answers · asked by paul_hincity 1

2007-10-05 13:44:21 · 11 answers · asked by melissa c 2

I say they choose to be gay, because I've heard they claim they were born gay. If this is the case, that means there is a defective gene floating around in the gene pool of the human species. That being said, evolution says that defective genes are the cause of evolution, being that they evolve to something new. If gays were REALLY born gay, according to the Theory of Evolution, they'd be able to reproduce... wouldn't they?? Or they'd become a different species, but I haven't seen that happen yet, and homosexuality has been around since ancient Roman times supposedly... And since they don't copulate with those of the opposite gender, they don't reproduce, thus this defective gene isn't passed on.

Sorry.. but all evidence points to chosen lifestyle, not defective genetics.

So what are your thoughts, and additions, or rebuttals to my theory?

2007-10-05 12:58:58 · 19 answers · asked by Kristin B © 6

I went to a wedding this weekend with my girlfriend. Of course everyone knows we are together, so it's obvious we are lesbians. My girlfriend can DANCE... (you think you can... but til you see her... you'ld be jealous) So this straight girl give her the 'come here' finger, so my g/f goes to dance with her (which is okay with me) and then she pushes my g/f away like she is grossed out. Which makes all the guys laugh. Then the girl starts dancing with someother girl pretty 'naughty' like and the guys love it... but if my g/f and I dance... we get ridiculed.

Why is it ok for these straight girls to dance together LIKE they are lesbians, but not REAL lesbian?

2007-10-05 11:32:35 · 21 answers · asked by u_fas_n8me 4

2007-10-05 11:23:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous