Ok so I've been having these "feelings" for as long as I can remember. I'm really attracted to females. I even love lesbian porn. But the thing is... I'm only attracted to females sexually. I wouldn't want a relationship with a female. I wouldn't want to date a female. I love men. I love having a boyfriend. What is this? Have you ever heard of this? Is something just wrong in my head or something
2007-10-06 12:41:20 · 5 answers · asked by Answer me this 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I call your kind of woman the "bi when it's convient" woman. Its the sort of woman who only wants another woman when its convient and when their craving a woman's touch.
I think it is totally normal. (I speak from experience of lots of woman asking me for just sex, since I'm a lez) Being sexually but not emotional attracted to women makes sense to me. It is women who say they are bi, but are actually willing and want to date women that usually end up leaning towards lesbianism in the end.
2007-10-06 12:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by brittybutter2 2 · 7⤊ 2⤋
I actually have this same problem, although it has become less pronounced as I've gotten older. For me, it was actually an attraction to the male genitalia only. It had to look a certain way, as odd as that sounds. Some might say it comes from love of my own, but mine is straight as an arrow, and I'm sexually attracted to ones that have a visible bend upwards, so that's a no go. From what I understand, and I could be wrong, it's called "homo-erotica," although most would simply label it as bisexuality.
2007-10-06 12:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by voidedlives 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like a classic case of "fear". That is NORMAL and you are NOT alone! There is a lot of comfort in living as a heterosexual, even if you would prefer to have a sexual relationship with a woman. However, I strongly urge you date a few women quietly. You may find that you do indeed enjoy the relationship, but are just afraid of it. Most people are. You might also find that you really are only interested in the sex, and are actually bisexual.
2007-10-06 13:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and i went through that same thing. I found out that i wasnt gay like i thought. I am in my teen years (late teen years) and it drove my crazy. It is probably just a phase and just wait through it.
2007-10-06 12:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by redttam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight guy here 2 woman in action turn me on
2007-10-06 13:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋