My girlfriend and I have been together for 21 weeks now. I love her dearly - I have never loved anyone like I love her, and I feel so incredibly blessed to have her in my life. However, recently things have been going down hill between us, and I know that she is contemplating ending our relationship. This is absolutely heartbreaking for me - I'm slowly coming out as bisexual to my friends (something I previously had absolutely no courage to do so). I'm contemplationg coming out to my family and was even considering asking how they would feel about me arranging to meet up with her (we're in an internet relationship). I was considering asking her for a deeper level of commitment - to this point, both of us have denied our feelings to those who don't know about our sexuality. I am wanting to let everyone know the truth - I've even gone so far as contemplating finding a method to publicly commit to her (not even given the laws here). Am I making the right decision or am I moving too fast?
2007-10-06 13:13:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i think your doing good :]
you come out to your friends wen you feel is the right time too :] and depending on how you think your family will react to your comni out, then you can make the choice of having them meet. but you should now that if they dont accept they still love you and your doing what makes you happr and thats all that matters and eventually, theyll get over it. (my sisters bisexual) but to me i dont think your moving fast, i think your goin at a good rate :] lol
21 weeks is pretty long. even though i dont know you, you still have a friend to talk to here :]
good luck and i hope i answered your question .
2007-10-08 20:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Moving way to fast on this one.Tell everyone the truth so you can be happy and experiment a little bit about yourself. Then go from there and start on the right foot and proceed to greener pastures.Good luck.
2007-10-06 13:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by PJH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The decision needs to be made, but I think you need to move just a little slower on this and get everything in place
2007-10-06 13:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only YOU can make that decision. However, you SHOULD tell her exactly how you feel. Make that decision together.
2007-10-06 13:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋