i told my family that i was bi and they freaked out...there were so mean to me..my twin told me that i am not his sister and my mom really didn't say anything but they way she looks at my says it all..im so upset..how do i go on living like this im only 15 so i can't move out...help......
2007-10-06 13:34:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's so sad that your family mistreated you when they were supposed to be supportive. But that's already told and they have to realize that you make part of the family as well. I know it's hurting when we find prejudice at our own home, but you could look for support in LGBT groups. Also it is important to have someone who you can trust in just to give you help if you need.
2007-10-06 13:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop the subject with your family . They are too close to you to be rational about your statement at this time .
Are you aware that many teenagers feel this way at one time or another or at least wonder if they are .
Give your self some time to think on this without interference from ANY ONE for a while.
Try not to let yourself be swayed one way or another by any other person -gay or straight- until you have given yourself a full opportunity to get a grasp on who you really are.
This is not a' decision 'or 'choice ' if it is for real.
The choices come when you decide 'what to do about it '
Then you choose what kind of a life you will live just like any other person does.
2007-10-06 13:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by Bemo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15 u can't decide that u 're bi or gay. So it was 2 hasty for u 2 go tell mum. So it's already bad, but don't be upset or something. Try 2 understand them. They love u and they see things ahead, which u can't see @ 15. So get right back 2 them and find ways 2 make ammends.
2007-10-06 13:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by Nolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do a little research and seek out a support group. That way you can compare these kinds of issues with other's who are going through the same thing and may be able to offer something for your family to cope with. And dont worry about them, you just continue to be the way you are and they will eventually have to accept you. There is nothing wrong with the way you choose to be. :-) Good luck!
2007-10-06 13:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by Dark ~ Dreamer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When did you tell them? It is shocking at first but they will get used to it. Your twin should have known better to say something so mean to you. You need to just sit them down one by one and talk to them individually and explain how you feel. I know it is a hard thing to go through, but you need to stick to your guns honey. You know who you are and that is what important. If you need a friend just let me know. I can put you in touch with a young lady around 17 who just went through all this and can help you maybe. good luck honey.
2007-10-06 13:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by soulmate_n_nc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you havent tryed it with another girl yet,then you really dont know if your bi.So tell your parents it was a joke.An dont say anything to anybody till your sure.People can be so mean an most str8 ppl dont understand
2007-10-06 14:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by april j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and hang in there. Give your family some time to take what you told them about you and process it. They may be angry and feel like they never knew you, but give them time they will come around. Hang in there.
2007-10-06 13:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by River 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is live your life the way you want to.
I wouldn't be flaunting it in front of them. Remember,You won't be 15 for ever.It might help to talk to a family member,priest,psycologist,someone who would just listen and not be judgemental.
2007-10-06 13:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let the anishel shock come off first then wait the storm out
2007-10-06 14:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I thought about it once. Well it is ur choice if u want to become a bi, Not theirs. Or u could lie and say u were kidding.
2007-10-06 13:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by Baby 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋