I've answered quesions to countless people and many of them chose the best answer as what they want to hear.
For example, if a person asks, "would you date a super fat guy with a great peronallity?" Many peaople will respond, "Sure" or "yeah" But in reallity you know as well as i know, they wouln't.
That was just an example, however i tell the truth, and not in a cruel and morbid way. I just simply lay it out they way life ad the world views their problems.
2007-10-04 02:18:00 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think people answering here give questions more thought than in real life. Using your example, my first thought is no, I wouldn't date a super fat guy, what would we do if he's so big he can't get around?! Then I think, If he has a great personality, we could have a great time together just playing a board game while we talk or watching a movie. So I think people are being honest. They just think about it more here. As for your way of telling it like it is. I believe that is your right. We need ying and yang, to see both sides of an issue. Keep telling it as you see it, your eyes aren't my eyes, that's what makes life experiences learning lessons. ; )
2007-10-04 02:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by DB 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would I date a super fat guy with a great personality? Probably not unless in the time it took to get to know him I no longer cared that he might not be the type I'm sexually attracted to but I honestly don't think I would ever get passed it.
I think that people say "yeah" and "sure" to questions like that because first they may not want to admit they are that shallow and second somewhere within themselves they want to believe that they could look past the physical to reach what truly makes a person worthwhile and unique.
I do think that there are people who exist that can move beyond the physical attraction and find true love in someone that may not be pleasing to the eye at first glance but I'm just not one of those people.
2007-10-04 02:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by That Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it so much to heart hun. Many people just don't take it as seriously as you. For many people the internet is a way for them to act out in a way that they know would not be able to in the "real world". I answer a question I never respond with a simple "sure" or "yeah". I write what I would do in a given situation and back it up with reasons. So that person can take those reasons into consideration while making their decision.
2007-10-04 02:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kristian K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because the entire tale turns out enormously unbelievable. And the best way i see faith on this international in these days is that's a method for others to manage the bulk, and it reasons not anything however conflict! That strike you as well ?......It dont me! So accordingly that brings into query the ethics that govern faith. As i see it there aren't any ethics there anymore now not that there ever have been both. The public has been USED and ABUSED via faith for donkeys years, we want evidence that you simply talk the reality! Seeing your god might probably persuade us of his fact. As for any good judgment in faith that im afraid for me could be very missing certainly.! The church buildings my buddy have had their day. That practical! They are themselves responsible for peoples disillusionment, If they hadnt lied, used,and brought, taken, taken, for all of those years it can be special however they havent and accordingly it isnt! You additionally point out the evil of the crusades. Do you overlook approximately the nine,000,000 females and their offspring that have been burned alive within the title of Christ additionally then?( Namely the Inquisitions) Know the reaction i am getting from christians every time i convey that up........... Oh it occurred so a long time in the past its now not major.... yeah, yeah, yeah! Know what? so did christ reside many a long time in the past however hees certain major to you and your like aint he?
2016-09-05 17:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your avatar has Christ under it.That is a sure sign that most anything you say will be from Christian influence.It is well known that Christians find homosexuality to be an abomination and against the so called "will of God".We are tired of that hatred and rubbish.To even associate yourself with a sect of society that hates and oppresses is surely reason enough to have people in the gay community not care to give you any points.It's not lying,it is refusing to give hateful religious zealots any points here on the LBGT site.YOU may be a nice person,but your religion is not nice to gay people.Try changing your call sign.Maybe that will help.
That's as honest as it gets.Hugs!
2007-10-04 02:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by Rick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. I was just watching this show where random people were being asked "what is the most important component to get you to date some one; money, personality or looks. Most people responded personality. I know that they were all full of crap!!! First of all, there has to me some sort of physical chemistry, second of all money can make or break a relationship. You can have a sparkling personality but if you don't have bank that adds alot of stress to a relationship. So it all boils down to money. Love and all the other crap somes later!
2007-10-04 02:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by LDS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for that question I have no idea why people would want to lie, but in real life, in order to survive you have to lie. This isn't the world where everything is fluffy and powder colored like the carebear world.
This is where you have to eliminate competion, meaning you have to lie and scheme against people. The world is cruel and won't stop for anyone, so if yo're a bit slower, you're gone. Its purely survival of the fittest, theres nothing wrong in doing things like that.
2007-10-04 02:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by Yoshi Marc Levi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do date a "fat guy with a great personality". And have for 18 years. He was overweight when I asked him out. And I consider myself lucky to be with him.
2007-10-04 02:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by Robin W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey being honest is a great quailty so people do have the heart to be. while othres do people just want to gain points and for what there is no winner here on answer. So be you and tell the truth(^_^)kayb
2007-10-04 03:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by kay b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly say that I wouldn't date a fat guy, or any guy for that matter.
What you have observed is a part of human nature, people often need some form of reassurance.
2007-10-04 02:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋