Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - October 2007

My brother-in-law is a widower with 2 grown kids and a new girlfriend, who is a ex-nun. He loves baking, decorating, shopping for clothes and shoes, going to wedding and baby showers, and most things feminine. He has had his gay friend spend the night (in his bed) although he acts grossed out if you tease him about anything having happened. He has gone to gay parades and gay bars. His gay friends have teased him that he needs to come out of the closet. His gay son found gay porn in hidden in his bedroom. The most straight thing he does is his monthly poker party with the guys. I honestly believe he may be , but is in denial. He keeps his girlfriend at a safe distance, although she still doesn't seem to get it. I think she may be too in love with him and in denial, too. I wish he'd come out of the closet. He is always so stressed and conflicted over everything. He can't take a stand on anything either. Is there any way to help him?

2007-10-10 16:48:19 · 4 answers · asked by luvbug 1

ok ok so even if it was on the cheek it was still a kiss and she does know i'm bi though. So what should i say and what does it mean? is it normal for two bff's to kiss eachother on the cheek and we are not italians btw

2007-10-10 16:30:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not trying to stir up trouble or be ignorant. I just have a lesbian friend who admits that she made a conscious choice to be a lesbian.

Is there anyone else willing to say that they made a choice to be a homosexual?

*Please be respectful* Thank you in advance.

2007-10-10 15:57:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

So recently I have noticed that our nation's 1st Ammendment rights are being used to the maxim, but most importantly by the homophobes that troll the 'GLBT' section of Yahoo! Answers. I have to ask, what is their real reasoning behind the stupid questions. Are people really that ignorant? Or are they doing it just for a rise in the others that sincerely are here? Apart from that - what are the worst questions that you have seen raised here by homophobes?

2007-10-10 15:47:23 · 9 answers · asked by Alexi 4

I like women and then I turn around and want to date a guy Am I bisexual, bicurious, or just plain confused? I wish I could figure this out because I would be willing to have a girlfriend but I don't know if I would be able to handle it...I hate being this way...I need some kind of advice...Actually I want to go on a date with a girl. Do you think that this would help?

2007-10-10 15:45:32 · 8 answers · asked by poetchicka2 2

i was in the alltell office and was paying my bill, and the salesperson was very rude to me, and this is the third time he was rude to me. I can't go to the manager, cause there was only two ppl working there, and he was one of them, and yes, he is gay. I have no plroblem with gays, ( dad was one) but his behavior was deplorable, and all I did was go in and pay my bill with my usual money order. I do this every month, and for the last three times, he has been rude. He knows I am str8. How do i tactfully handle this ??

2007-10-10 15:28:06 · 14 answers · asked by Dragonflygirl 7

I am 16 years old and I thinks about sex alot, and I am a virgin, I am gay, I have never had a girlfriend or boyfriend never been kissed.
I worry alot about you know will I ever loose my virginity?
Will I ever be able to be in a realationship with a girl?
I watch porn and sex alot on my movie channels and I just can't stop thinking about this!
I have a really high sex drive and it is driving me crazy!
What should I do?

2007-10-10 15:23:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in love with my best friend, but shes straight. I'm mostly straight and shes the only one who even knows i've been questioning. when we went on vacation this summer we cuddled every night. we would whisper i love you and kiss (like on the cheek, never lips) i've never told her how i feel because I'm afraid she'll act differently around me. I couldn't' handle not being around her, shes my best friend and i wouldn't' be able to survive without her. i know she has been questioning before, but decided she was straight. right now as far a love goes shes sick of liking people who don't like her back. idk if i should go for her or not. please HELP!

2007-10-10 15:13:28 · 5 answers · asked by Jessie 1

I know I am. Sometimes I can understand it going to a vote, but usually it seems that the asker just couldn't be arsed.

2007-10-10 14:45:16 · 11 answers · asked by April K 2

Ok, im pretty damn sure im bi, i am attracted to both and i love my boyfriend. Honestly i dont think id ever date a girl, i mean i really love my bf and girls seem to love drama. But, im more attracted to girls, they turn me on more. My boyfriend loves the idea of me and another chick together just how do i tell him that im bi? I mean i dont think he will mind one bit well i know he will like it, its just i dont know how to tell him. It just seems really hard to get it into words.

2007-10-10 13:31:39 · 27 answers · asked by Katherine S 2

Only to have your wish come true and regretted it.

Like, you wished on a star that you could be like someone you admired, then once you acquired their traits and personality, you regretted it?

2007-10-10 12:09:41 · 9 answers · asked by [192882] 5

2007-10-10 11:41:25 · 3 answers · asked by Kyle 4 Ty (Sparkles can watch) 2

I am really unsure if I should wear this shirt or not. Me and my GSA are sponsering ncod (national coming out day) at my school, we put up posters and are handing out ribbons and information, and stickers. I'm really excited about it, going all out of my way to paint my nails rainbow, and right NCOD on my forehead to support those still in the closet. I'm a lesbian, and I'm out of the closet, and I have this shirt I made that says I love girls. Would it totally go against everything if I wore it? I'm kind of uncomfortable at the idea of wearing it, of course I'd bring a sweater jacket as well, but I'm not sure if I should wear it or not. It just seems like a big decision. I made it myself, it's just marker on a tang top. What do you think? No rude/bigotish answers please. And happy NCOD! Can I say that lol?

2007-10-10 10:51:36 · 6 answers · asked by curiosityreincarnated 3

Should I be worried that he's coming on to me?
He's kinda friendly anyway and hugs me all the time so I'm thinking it was just innocent, but what I've heard about his past relationships makes me think he might try and fool around on her, possibly with a guy if he's thinking of trying something new.
Please note I said blowback, and not *******... (I wish...)

2007-10-10 10:34:57 · 6 answers · asked by Sam S 2

2007-10-10 10:27:45 · 18 answers · asked by Kyle 4 Ty (Sparkles can watch) 2

I talked to him one day about his feminity and he said that he is not ashamed because men and women both have masculine and feminine qualities. He says that he is confident as a man and he is well aware that he has feminine qualities and feels fine about it. He says just because a man has feminine qualities does not mean he is gay.

But, I still wonder and I can't help but be suspicious because from time to time he talks like a woman and thinks like a woman and loves to decorate the house, and sometimes he's very girly, more than me. I don't want a girl-friend as a husband, I want a manly man as a husband.

I'm still suspicious, what is your advice and experience.

When ever he acts feminine, I get turned off.

I really love him but I am not sure if he is straight. If he is straight, I not sure if I can continue to live with this. What should I do?

2007-10-10 09:14:03 · 8 answers · asked by inalignmentwithlife 2

and have you met many of each?

2007-10-10 08:52:50 · 21 answers · asked by ally 2

(Please do not create someone you know personally. I am talking about in the ideal world. If you do create someone you know, please state this!)

1. What is his/her body shape/build?
2. What is his/her race?
3. Is it male or female? (I don't want to make assumptions!)
4. What is his/her religion?

2007-10-10 08:45:22 · 27 answers · asked by Yuka 4

what do people mean by 'wet dreams'? im really confused

2007-10-10 08:38:30 · 8 answers · asked by »-(¯`v´¯)-» Petal »-(¯`v´¯)-» 2

2007-10-10 08:36:16 · 19 answers · asked by doodle_bug 2

british columbia for me... I love it there, it's so beautiful. especially vancouver

2007-10-10 08:34:17 · 25 answers · asked by ☼ kayla ☼ 5

........and where?

2007-10-10 08:06:44 · 33 answers · asked by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 5

check out this email I got from "smegma" ... he sent me the leviticus "man shall not lay with man" thing... so I sent him back the OTHER leviticus stuff about shellfish, slaves, pig skin, cotton blends.. ALL "abominations" and asked If he would stone them TOO?... and when does it end... here's his response...

Subject: Re: Re:homo

Message: try to defend yourself all you want.
but what about the helpless gerbil in your ***?
who defends the gerbil?
I'm sure your mom and dad are real proud of their **** sucking son.
you are a freak of nature & a sin against mankind.
so back back in the closet.
or to the circus side show where you belong.
if AIDS dosnt kill you first.
THATS a gift from God to you.




sounds intelligent doesn't he... If these are the people making decisions I'd say that's pretty scary... wouldn't you?

2007-10-10 07:42:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a young, gay female (21) and I have a serous problem.
When I was about 15 I went to a new school. I was in the last year and so we had to see a career's advisor. She came once a week, and the first time I saw her I felt perfectly normal, but there was something 'close' about her body language. She would often look me right in the eye, and smile- just in a way that made me think- do I fancy her? She didn't seem attractive to me at all- in fact I found her unttractive physically. But there was something charming about her.
As time went on, I came to admit to myself I had a crush on her, and it grew slowly until I was excited to see her every week. I tried not to let it show, but my embarrassment in front of her might have let her know- she seems a very clever woman. I think she must have known.
-. I am running out of characters to explain, so I will I will find a way t continue the story below somehow.

2007-10-10 07:16:17 · 8 answers · asked by skyespirit86 3

2007-10-10 07:09:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-10 07:03:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it learned in the upbringing (comes naturally), or as a submissive to an older dominatrice, or does not come as a choice of behaviour?

What is the pay like? I assume that the most call is for the females, but who knows?

2007-10-10 06:30:59 · 9 answers · asked by Perseus 3

My sissy/bf has been in training for about four months now. My family knows of my domme/bdsm tendancies. When they are over I allow "Paige" to dress in men's clothes. However I am tired of the cirade and would like to display my maid. How should I approach both parties in this matter? If there any sissys or dommes who had experience in this matter please contact me.

2007-10-10 06:16:21 · 13 answers · asked by Curious type 1

2007-10-10 05:42:28 · 28 answers · asked by KRITHIA W 2

My friend is a lesbian and she thinks people have varying degrees of sexuality (like kinsey). Like someone is 99% attracted to girls and 1% attracted to boys or 45% attracted to girls 55% attracted to boys. She thinks that people who are closest to the 50% (meaning bisexuals) have a hard time finding happiness. She feels because they like both sex's they will never be able to settle for just one without missing something from the other sex. Whats your view on it?

2007-10-10 05:01:05 · 12 answers · asked by lovelylady 5