Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - June 2007

2007-06-15 14:23:30 · 12 answers · asked by TRACER ™ 6

I posted a question an hour ago about why kids grow up straight if they are brought up right. It was in response to a reverse question as to why kids grow up gay if they are brought up right. A question raised by someone else, which I thought was really stupid, so I asked mine to make a point. But the responses I got showed that the people didn't read the entire question and thought I was being against gay people, which would be rather odd since I'm gay myself.

2007-06-15 12:16:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

"Age is the last closet you come out of in the gay world,"(he said)"There are such gloomy visions of gay men aging. But if you worship beauty above all else, you're in trouble. If you're not working on your heart every second, you are going to have a very sad old age"
Personally, I think this is pretty accurate. I especially like age being the last closet that you come out of. I think that is maybe why so many gay men (especially) have trouble with long term relationships. There is always one more beautiful than the next. So, what's your take on this if any?

2007-06-15 11:46:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-15 11:40:30 · 14 answers · asked by h3!!0 1

And I won't allow answers like, "they are just born that way." That's a cop out. Actually this question is in response to another previous question asking why kids turn gay?

2007-06-15 10:44:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wonderin since my friend is doin a survay

2007-06-15 10:40:04 · 24 answers · asked by Raigin 1

My guy (whose history I was aware of prior to us becoming serious) is attracted to/has dated pre-op transgender "woman". He thinks he is straight because they live as "woman" everyday and he has no desire to be with a biological man. I am a biological woman. He says he doesn't discriminate. Is he bi or straight?

2007-06-15 10:04:31 · 13 answers · asked by nappyhdfatgrl 3

For thos who are againts homosexuality......

......Love is not defined by color, creed, or gender.


I am the boy who never finished high school, because I got called a fag everyday

I am the girl kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother that I am a lesbian.

I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody will hire a transsexual woman.

I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled nights.

We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.

I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.

I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt me.

I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear.

We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on

2007-06-15 09:20:24 · 21 answers · asked by blank 1

2007-06-15 08:42:50 · 19 answers · asked by DEIDRESWEET2006 1

I just asked a similar question and felt the need to clarify some things...I said in my previous question that it was transexual porn but it's shemale..sorry..I looked at my boyfriend's history on the computer and found out that he has been looking at shemale porn. I do have trust issues because of some things in the past which is why I was looking at his history..anyways, I dont understand why any straight guy would want to look at shemale porn which is why I'm very confused on this whole thing. I do everything to make sure he is satisfied and now I find out this. It would'nt bother me so much if it was straight porn but shemales! Yeah it bothers me..Thanks so much to everyone who replies, everything helps!

2007-06-15 08:25:07 · 18 answers · asked by Celica00 1

2007-06-15 07:46:28 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

That all that homosexuals do is have sex??? Which is simply not true, we have an emotionl connection(maybe even stronger than alot of heterosexuals out there) with our partners, we don't stay in bed 24-7 having sexual intercourse.

2007-06-15 07:41:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is all transexual women girly? Into hair, make-up, fasion?

2007-06-15 07:23:08 · 13 answers · asked by nettles 2

2007-06-15 07:03:29 · 14 answers · asked by jasmin_carson 2

well... i am 17 and i am gay! its streesing me out coz lately i feel so depressed and helpless. i have accepted my sexual orientation, but now i have realised how difficult it is to be gay! my friends r having a much nicer life than me coz they r str8 i guess! they just get anyguy they want, they get kissed at anytime they want to by str8 boys who i also fancy! i just wonder if i was a girl and i could have all those boys! or maybe if i was not gay then i would not have to go through all this! i feel like being gay is a punishment sometimes(most times) i always think about my sexual orientation, no day goes by without me having to think that i am gay! some guys dont even talk to me coz i am gay and they know that i have the hots 4 them! oh... and just to ask, is it okay to have a sex change? ( but i am not considering having one)

2007-06-15 06:55:24 · 13 answers · asked by lonelyfinger 2

i honestly couldn't put it any other way so i'm sorry if i offended... but i wanna get some info into how bein born gay is possible when only heterosexuals can concieve?

I always figured it was nature vs nurture and a psychological thing.

so any insight would be appreciated.

2007-06-15 06:53:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before my transition, I was a depressed, miserable person because I was seen through a body that I didn't identify with.

Now, since my transition, I've seen the world through a different perspective. I"ve seen the discrimination, the hate, the ignorance, and the things people take for granted, like walking into a public restroom. Transition was supposed to make me happy, and I am happy in the fact that I am finally who I was meant to be, but I've also become jaded, bitter, angry and frustrated with society and the closemindedness I see around me.
Part of me just wants to be "stealth" and live my live as a guy, and be an "average Joe", but part of me wants to be out and educate people about these things, so as to stop the ignorance, but that means putting myself at risk and exposure.

How do I get rid of this anger inside me?

2007-06-15 06:50:40 · 18 answers · asked by I_color_outside_the_lines 4

Even if we DID choose to be gay (which I don't believe I or any one else did) and there was no genetic or scientific evidence to say that it was not a choice (yet there is), why does it matter?

If you chose it, would it make it any less valid in the eyes of the law? Don't people also CHOOSE to be religious (be it Buddhist, Muslim or Christian)? Don't they CHOOSE their sexual/marriage partners?

I honestly want to know. Why would CHOOSING to be gay be so awful in comparison to being BORN gay?

2007-06-15 06:38:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-15 05:55:43 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4

2007-06-15 05:54:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

They usually have WAITING LINE. Please ladies answer wy take to long if have planty toilets?

2007-06-15 05:48:00 · 10 answers · asked by Rebekha 3

What would you do if you were transgendered/transsexual and had a gay or lesbian friend (who was sometimes more) and this "friend" came to you for sexual favors when they couldn't find anyone else, or they were drunk, or..in my case, last weekend, she went to Pride and saw a lot of "hot" lesbians and since she couldn't get any of them, she came back to ME, to provide sexual services for her.
Yet, this "friend" will turn around and tell you that they can't be WITH you because they are gay or lesbian, and can't see themselves dating someone transgendered because they are gay or lesbian, and so can't date a FTM (if this friend is a lesbian) or can't date a MTF (if this friend is a gay man) because it messes with their identity and is out of their "realm".

It's like I'm good enough to sleep with, but not good enough to be in a relationship with. It's all ok, if it's behind closed doors. How would this make you feel and what would you do?

2007-06-15 05:47:45 · 15 answers · asked by I_color_outside_the_lines 4

Nobody questions hetrosexuality, so why do people question us on something that is equally unchanganle and unimportant?

2007-06-15 04:18:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so i have been attracted to women for a while now um lets say 1year and whenever i see like a hot girl pass by im like she's hot!But i dont know since im still attracted to guys and well i have a boy friend but not attracted to him as much as some women and the freaky thing is i had a dream last night that i was kissing a girl and seriously i felt happy in that dream but also freaked out when I woke up!!IIts like i feel that i like men but i like women more.

Please help im really confusd over here!!!

2007-06-15 03:06:38 · 14 answers · asked by jennifer 5

my hersband(yes, u read it right. we're lesbians) were watching a documentary at my parent's house called Nazis in America, a Secret History. my dad came into the house, saw what we were watching, and made a very racist comment. i was offended, and told him so. well, my mom was in the kitchen, and he said something to her, n she yelled at him saying that he didn't pay attn to what he was saying(he's hard of hearing). we walked to the island bar in kitchen, and i remarked how racist my dad was. n my mom, who to this point had said nothing to either of us said "well, i can't help what he is, and ic an't help what you are, but i don't wanna listen to either of you". my mom is veriently anti gay, but we thought we'd made some headway about it. my hersband and i are planning on starting a family soon, but after that, i wonder if i should let them see their grandma. my mom said she didn't know if she'd show up for it ne way(i'm giving birth). what do u think? p.s. we left immediately.

2007-06-15 02:44:00 · 18 answers · asked by kelleygaither2000 1

He is Black and adopted into a white family and he has always been okay with that. I have tried to explain to him that not all people feel like we do. Now he wants to date a Lebaneze girl and her parents forbid it they are not even allowed to talk to each other. I asked the girl what the problem was and she said her parents don't like it because they are of different races. My son said they can't be prejudice they aren't white.
how do I explain to him that it is not always a black, white thing. That prejudice come in all shapes, colors, and sizes.

2007-06-15 01:51:53 · 12 answers · asked by Mary B 5

2007-06-15 01:40:38 · 20 answers · asked by man 2

I have thought that it will spare me of time-wasting pursuits that I am to avoid going into areas where men, either gay or bi have stared or looked at me with the assertive look. For example, there is several roads near where I live that a few men live and I would like to avoid them, thus avoiding being tempted into the lust and wickedness of the flesh and to protect myself. I am very sensitive and it is easy for me to give in- but this kind of activity cannot continue, for I wish to follow along with my studies and one day be a Manichaean Gnoctis priest, but such impurity of the flesh does not mix well with the search for Gnosis.

I am not spreading hate or being wicked but I am merely helping myself out of my own mistakes.

Seeker of God Most High
A Nazorean Gnostic and Manichaean Probationer

2007-06-15 00:58:00 · 10 answers · asked by don't ask me while I'm t 4

i once told my friend that i need more gay friends and maybe the right one. so, here came the friday night, he kept buzzing me to go gay club with him. i aint very in mood to go and i personally not very into clubbing. when saying no a few times, he seems a bit unhappy. and a question came in my mind. is that true like what he said, the only place i can meet more gay friends or love one is to go clubbing.... ? and honestly he is the only gay friend i know and this place is too new to me. ... life aint easy here.

and is that normal @ age 24 and still never dated before?

2007-06-15 00:52:38 · 8 answers · asked by ricardochy 1

The bible says do not yoke your selves with unbelievers ,
so should one have gay friends

2007-06-15 00:40:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous