Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - January 2007

I heard that many people who claim to be gay are actually bisexual.Is that true? I believe the community is even less accepting of bisexuals than Christians are of gay people. Therefore, many bisexuals do not admit to being so.What does the gay community offer that the rest of the world does, I mean the community itself?

2007-01-20 18:57:06 · 20 answers · asked by Wondering 1

ok so latly i havent been feeling good ive had no energy or feel like doing anything it changed a few weeks ago when i was out side and my friend cut his arm i was trying to gross him out so i like liked the cut till it stopped bleeding i felt so entergized that i didnt know what to do with myself and ever since then i kinda crave blood this has kinda been true for my intre life but i didnt say a thing cause my family is hardcore catholic and would stake me in the hart befor i finnished the next sentence i dont know what to do anymore please help !!!!

2007-01-20 18:45:33 · 20 answers · asked by courtney S 1

... that when you go to a gay club, it seems as if everyone there is already in a relationship. I mean, I went to a local gay club tonight, and wouldn't ya know... most everyone there was already involved in a relationship. How are we singles to come into a relationship if we have no where to meet other singles like us?????

2007-01-20 18:28:53 · 8 answers · asked by spotted_moofers 2

how can i recognize that the boy to whom i meet in travelling or in game or somewhere that he is gay. give me tips to recognize that he is gay and because some time i think that some body is not gay but he is gay and sometime i suppose that he is gay but he is not and i feel shy. Please give me main points and method that he is gay. may i touch my hand with him or by eyes contact or by any other method.

2007-01-20 18:17:45 · 2 answers · asked by john j 1

2007-01-20 18:14:57 · 16 answers · asked by countyinmate_323 1

but what about others? that are also totally free

2007-01-20 18:11:06 · 7 answers · asked by wdgrmusic 1

I'm 15 and I just found out yesterday one of my friends is a lesbian. I had a hint she might be but I didnt want to assume anything. yesterday she made a comment about her kissing her girlfriend so obviously i was sure. when we were just sitting there talking earlier and she kinda just reached over and stroked my face. I was totally weirded out and just kinda didnt do anything. Theres been a few other times too. I dont know what to say to her because i'm a little weirded out but i want to keep her as a friend. and i dont want ot lea her on or anything, im straight. What am i supposed to do/say????? I'm clueless. My friends have told me i should just act as if nothings happened.

2007-01-20 18:10:07 · 33 answers · asked by chitowngirl 1

Well heres the situation.
A few months a ago I kissed one of my friends, but she has a boyfriend, later on (the same night) She said she wanted to come over one night for some fun, so i thought it was just about sex, that didnt really bother me, i thought hey whats sex between friends, but i started to develop feelings for her which i was hoping would happen.
Anyway we had our little night of fun, and her boyfriend is still non the wiser, there has been other nights where she has come over, nothing really happened just kissing, 1 of the nights i was upset i told her i wish i could be with her but i knew i couldnt, she said the same to me. But i also get the feeling she is using me cos i'll will ask her about us and she doent really answer me

Also theres a few things 1: she has a boyfriend 2: she lives with her boyfriend 3: theres an age thing as well

2007-01-20 17:46:19 · 7 answers · asked by traven_blood 2

I read somewhere where someone mentioned...

"It's not the gays and lesbians producing all these unwanted kids!"

It's true... what does sexual orientation have to do with how a child is raised....? I won't be surprised if gay rights reach their height and make a breakthrough with the government...



BESIDES without gay couples.. we wouldn't have DOLCE AND GABANNA (and other things.. can't think of more examples haha)

2007-01-20 17:45:04 · 14 answers · asked by hi 1

I am trying to make an ultimate drag CD for a friend of mine that is dabbling in "somewhat amature" drag shows. I have some ideas, but am open to suggestions. Looking for upbeat, remixed, dance(ish) songs. Any help is great. I appreciate it. Since this is completely a subjective issue, the person with the most comprehensive list will be be given the golden "10." All you queens get your minds out of the gutter.

2007-01-20 17:37:12 · 8 answers · asked by James G 3

Would you go out with a guy who was physically weaker than you? Would you use that to your advantage?

2007-01-20 17:32:19 · 8 answers · asked by timmy h 2

My friend is converting for her seventh day guy but I feel that he is a hypocrite. He tells her to change all her "bad" ways, yet he is doing all kinds of things that are borderline, and claims to be a saint. He always hides behind his religion. How strict is Seventh Day and can one marry someone and NOT pressure them?

2007-01-20 17:29:34 · 8 answers · asked by RunsWithKnife 2

In short:
I think I may be a lesbian.
But I don't want to be a guy, and I'm very feminine.
I also attracted to some guys but I'm far far far more attracted to women.
I would rather sleep with girls than guys.
I don't seem like someone who's butchy or anything.

Do you think I'm gay???

2007-01-20 17:21:57 · 15 answers · asked by sams_town_is_my_town 1

2007-01-20 17:17:29 · 23 answers · asked by Amber s 1

we've known each other since 1st grade. she was my first 'girlfriend' and my 'first' kiss. we last saw each other over 10 years ago, and i pretty much knew she was lesbian, but she didn't say anything. now she lives in a different city, and i'd really like to contact her... only i'm pretty sure she's not comfortable in people knowing she's lesbian. i found her address and want to write to her. i'm thinking i'd not even address the issue and simply ask her the usual 'catching up' stuff (without asking about a boy or girlfriend). anyone have experience in this area who'd care to share their sage advice? thanks!

2007-01-20 17:16:02 · 3 answers · asked by drunkinpoet 4

2007-01-20 17:13:09 · 20 answers · asked by Amber s 1

Sometimes, we start thinking of sex very badly and we let go some other important things which require concentration. I want some nice easy ways of deviating of our mind when we start thinking of sex or over-masturbate.

2007-01-20 17:12:24 · 7 answers · asked by jam2school 2

I am completely grossed out..or maybe not exactly grossed out with the idea of having sex at all..truth is I've never been with anybody like that..but when my ex boyfriend asked asked me about it.I said ok..and then when the time came I couldnt do it because I felt extremely uncomfortable..I mean.some people might think that its was because it would of been my first time...but the truth is that I don't like the idea of having sex with a guy.and i always fantasize about doing it with one of my lesbian friends whom I joke around all day.I find myself looking at her and fantasizing.I can't do that when i'm looking at guys though...I find the act of doing it with a guy as disgusting...but when I imagine this with girls...I like it...the bad thing is that my friend sees me looking at her n asks me why I'm lookin at her like that...n i don't know wat to say..but somehow I think she knows what I'm thinking...I'm scared to say anything to her or anyone b/c my my family is catholic...help!!!

2007-01-20 16:38:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

about transgendered persons. you know the ones about surgically transformed. My question is this...is there a place to see the actual end result? Not to be preverted at all. I am curious to see the advances that the medical industry has made in this aspect. Offense meant to no one...just want a better understanding.

2007-01-20 16:32:55 · 4 answers · asked by outofmymind 4

my bestfriend and i are 16, and he told me that he was diagnosed with cancer, and that he was gay and that he loved me and that he had 3-4 months to live, and that he was telling me because he wanted me to know. And he asked me if i would sleep with him? Should I? And can a st8 guy have gay sex, can he think of a girl does that work, or just watch porn or something?

2007-01-20 16:30:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

that you are coming on to them. They seem to think that they are the most attractive thing around. AND do you think that this is related to the fact that straight men think that they personally,can make 'real women' out of lesbians? And that straight women are just dying to have sex with them? Is this an ego problem or what?

2007-01-20 16:27:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am not gay but i'm not what you call a ladies man and never went out with or talked to girls growing up (if i did i kept it private as thats what i felt it should be) and i'm the oldest and was supposed to be influence for him. now he is gay and has HIV and i feel responsible. should i have tried to "set him straight" before he ended up with aids?

2007-01-20 16:16:28 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 15 years old and im not sure if im bi. this past week it seems like there have been alot of fate-like coincedenses telling me im bi.here are some things to let you know about my personality.im an anime fan, serios gamer, computer geek, i like helping people, i am really open-minded, and i have quite a bit of friends(only about 10 real ones). i think i like my friend who im pretty sure is bisexual, but not sure cause i really like girls. now here are the problems. im fairly popular in school so word would get out pretty quick, my high school is super homophobic so your basically signing a deathwish if you have anything to do with it, so is my house, also my gf would freak.

i walk down the hallway and look at both sexes(girls more) and i wonder. i'm not depressed or suicidal about it, i just wanna know what i should do. please help(teens(well, adults can help too)).

P.S. sorry about the grammar errors T-T

2007-01-20 16:07:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Homosexuality is common in thousands of animals but what use would it have if it can' pass on it' genes
THEORY: Imagine this scenerio in a more primative species. The men all go out and hunt; the women tend to the children and home. Who protects the women? No animal would trust anyother man to stay with his wife everyday unless that man was gay.

Studies also show when there are brothers each newer one is more likely to be gay which serves as a balancer between protecter (gay) and hunter (straight) men.

Why are there still gay men, we don't need them: Humans have not had enough time to evolve, yet gay men will never be exstinct, the gene for making gay men is in straight women.

This is a true biological theory it however does not offer an explanation for Bi or Lesbians.

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

2007-01-20 16:04:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

no yank wasters need reply as i'm after serious replies only.

2007-01-20 15:44:29 · 22 answers · asked by dogma 1

2007-01-20 15:19:53 · 23 answers · asked by kevin 3

when i was young and dating my oldest daughters dad, we were having sex in the dark out in the goonies in his moms car and while he was enjoying me, licking me all over, and as i accidently begun my period and i /we did not know it until he said.. babe you are very wet i like it this way, it turns me on, and i touched myself and felt it was too much for me to be just wet, so i turned on the light & saw his face +mouth full of blood, i was very embarresed and did not know what to say, than he saw him self in the mirror and that was the end of that!

2007-01-20 15:14:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm curious about this. My father and I have a fairly unstable relationship since I told him I was gay, and while I hope for improvement, I've noticed that this tends to be a factor with other gay men that I know. I was wondering if it was exclusively with gay men, or does it differ between bisexuals and trans? And what about relationships between lesbians and their parents? Its something I'm really curious about.

2007-01-20 15:08:50 · 11 answers · asked by Ryuu C. S. 2

Basically, I'm curious as to how you all have done this if at all. Were you a) able to go to the same place of worship you always did, b) switch to a more GLBT-friendly one in your area, c) switch to another religion or d) give up on the idea of religion entirely?

By posting this question, I hereby declare that I will pass no judgement on anyone who answers. I am simply asking out of curiosity.

2007-01-20 15:01:35 · 19 answers · asked by Megosophy 2

I'm curious as to how diverse people's tastes are here. By the way, when I mean GLBT icon, I mean someone who fights for GLBT rights, not just an entertainer that is idolized yet doesn't give back to the community. However, they can be GLBT or straight.

For me it's Ian McKellen. Besides courageously fighting for GLBT rights in the UK during the height of the Thatcher era and currently, he just has an incredible mind and wit.

2007-01-20 14:50:58 · 15 answers · asked by Megosophy 2