I'm 15 years old and im not sure if im bi. this past week it seems like there have been alot of fate-like coincedenses telling me im bi.here are some things to let you know about my personality.im an anime fan, serios gamer, computer geek, i like helping people, i am really open-minded, and i have quite a bit of friends(only about 10 real ones). i think i like my friend who im pretty sure is bisexual, but not sure cause i really like girls. now here are the problems. im fairly popular in school so word would get out pretty quick, my high school is super homophobic so your basically signing a deathwish if you have anything to do with it, so is my house, also my gf would freak.
i walk down the hallway and look at both sexes(girls more) and i wonder. i'm not depressed or suicidal about it, i just wanna know what i should do. please help(teens(well, adults can help too)).
P.S. sorry about the grammar errors T-T
2007-01-20 16:07:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm 15 years old and im not sure if im bi. this past week it seems like there have been alot of fate-like coincedenses telling me im bi.here are some things to let you know about my personality.im an anime fan, serios gamer, computer geek, i like helping people, i am really open-minded, and i have quite a bit of friends(only about 10 real ones). i think i like my friend who im pretty sure is bisexual. But not sure cause i really like girls. now here are the problems. im fairly popular in school so word would get out pretty quick, my high school is super homophobic so your basically signing a deathwish if you have anything to do with it, so is my house, also my gf would freak.
i walk down the hallway and look at both sexes(girls more) and i wonder. i'm not depressed or suicidal about it, i just wanna know what i should do. please help(teens(well, adults can help too)).
P.S. sorry about the grammar errors T-T
2007-01-20 19:12:03 · update #1
Don't worry about it. There is no reason to 'come out' at your age. It is possible to find other guys attractive and not be gay or bisexual. Maybe you are just able to appreciate the beauty of the male body. Just get through high school. You can wait to explore your sexual orientation when you get a bit older. Good luck.
2007-01-28 05:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no disgrace in being bisexual, as some of the biggest names in entertainment, politics, art and nearly every profession or realm.are. I had same-gender experiences with males before girls, and while I did have to conceal that from classmates and neighbors, I wasn't ashamed of it. I became as enamored of the penis as any gay or a female could be. It's my guess that you'll sort it all out. Upon telling friends I'd kept that news from, a third severed ties with me, but I gained others. My family chided me, but for NOT telling them.
2007-01-20 16:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by 21FRANK D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not.
Puberty makes you think stupid things.
Bottom line its not something your born with.
Sociaty says its ok, but honestly, its not.
Whats wrong with it?
Alot.
God made man to be with women. But man changed his mind on what God made and chose to be with other men and women the same with other women. The bible says in it clearly that no sin can be where God is, and a lifestyle of sin isnt pleasing to God and he cant bless it, or anything about it.
We were given a choice.
God has blessings for those that follow the Bible and he warns the people that dont with love many times. God dosent want people to have sin, he wants them to be free.
Just pray that God will renew your mind and he will as you follow after him.
2007-01-20 16:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by robertt223 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, young man, don't freak out. Just keep on with your routines and so on that you do. Just kind of keep noticing your clues and your cues. Try to see if you find some patterns to your desires and your behaviors. At your age, you are likely to feel many desires that you simply will not continue to feel in a couple of years. So take it easy, and don't be in a hurry to make up your mind one way or another.
2007-01-20 16:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by fall2005buseng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do no longer pay attention to Kayla. i understand you're no longer in love, using fact love is a lots greater acceptable emotion than you additionally can draw close top now, and it takes lots greater advantageous than in basic terms seeing somebody and relatively certainly liking them. yet pay attention up, nonetheless - in basic terms on the grounds which you're no longer in love with somebody does no longer recommend your thoughts are not valid. relatively some young little ones confuse themselves by using thinking that their thoughts are not as real as they sense in basic terms using fact it ain't love. you could like somebody lots and nevertheless have very lots of emotion in the back of that. I used to get those abdomen drop thoughts and coronary heart bypass a beat thoughts as quickly as I lusted after boys in H.S. yet enable me in basic terms say something - there is relatively some young little ones accessible top now that are in basic terms 'turning out to be' bisexual for the incorrect motives. the two they like being that style of outcast style of freak youngster and the image it relatively is linked with it - they like being the single that all and sundry talks approximately, etc. or additionally they do it to slot in, using fact it relatively is the hip new factor now. have confidence me, ladies did it while i replaced into in H.S. (that replaced into purely like six years in the past) and that i'm confident boys probable do it now too. Be bisexual given which you relatively recommend it. additionally, if he looks enormously quickly, be relatively careful in case you do decide for to enable him understand the way you sense. you recognize how human beings could nicely be.
2016-10-31 21:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. At your age that is a common feeling. Your hormones are boiling over, and you're just curious. Just take it in stride and be happy.
2007-01-20 17:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by Braddock52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you are then you probably are.its a shame and im sure your parents feel the same way.
2007-01-27 04:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by norb4423 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bend over take one for the team and then decide which is right for you
2007-01-28 10:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by wade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey....most likely you're bi-curious....but do watever makes u happy n do it only if you're up to the challenge of facing your obstacles at scholl ans stuff..g-luck!!
2007-01-20 16:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont worry abotu it your too young. and you dont have to tell ppl if you dont want to. comming out is so 80's
2007-01-20 16:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋