Well heres the situation.
A few months a ago I kissed one of my friends, but she has a boyfriend, later on (the same night) She said she wanted to come over one night for some fun, so i thought it was just about sex, that didnt really bother me, i thought hey whats sex between friends, but i started to develop feelings for her which i was hoping would happen.
Anyway we had our little night of fun, and her boyfriend is still non the wiser, there has been other nights where she has come over, nothing really happened just kissing, 1 of the nights i was upset i told her i wish i could be with her but i knew i couldnt, she said the same to me. But i also get the feeling she is using me cos i'll will ask her about us and she doent really answer me
Also theres a few things 1: she has a boyfriend 2: she lives with her boyfriend 3: theres an age thing as well
2007-01-20 17:46:19 · 7 answers · asked by traven_blood 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think both of you wanted the sex out of it, now you have developed feelings and she is scared of getting to that level with you, for obvious reasons, she is in a relationship and being with the same sex is not easy. I am not sure who is older, but you need to be careful when you wear your heart on your sleeve like that, I believe she was after her own curious things. Good Luck finding the right one for you
2007-01-20 17:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Naughty Girl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Enjoy it whilst the going is good but enjoy it in the spirit of sex only. What is the age thing? As for the boyfriend finding out ,why don't you pre-empt things and suggest to your lover the three of you get together for some fun. That way everyone's fantasy & needs are met & you can still see your female friend on the side.
2007-01-21 01:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Flab 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Have you tried talking to her? Try to corner in on her and kind of get a firm answer on her stance between what you two are. A relationship? Sex buddies? Or just still friends. This is something you can really only figure out on your own
2007-01-21 01:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by Love Panda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She might love you. She's cheating on her boyfriend with you.When you become girl friend/girl friend with her,what makes you think she's going to be true to you ? Why do you want to be with someone Else's girl friend? you cant find a single girl? or do you go for the unfaithful type?
Thanks for the 2 points
2007-01-21 01:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by boatworker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it up.
2007-01-21 01:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by robert m 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no she does not love you.
2007-01-21 03:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HER.
2007-01-21 01:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋