In short:
I think I may be a lesbian.
But I don't want to be a guy, and I'm very feminine.
I also attracted to some guys but I'm far far far more attracted to women.
I would rather sleep with girls than guys.
I don't seem like someone who's butchy or anything.
Do you think I'm gay???
2007-01-20 17:21:57 · 15 answers · asked by sams_town_is_my_town 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds like you're bisexual, since you are attracted to both men and women. Doesn't matter who you like more- if you like men in the least, even if it's 99% women and 1% men, you're still bisexual. That's fine- celebrate it!
By the way- remember that lesbians don't want to be men, even if they're butch and masculine, and there are many feminine lesbians as well. Try not to stereotype.
2007-01-20 17:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of attraction you feel for a guy. If its not sexual then you are a lesbian, because you want to sleep with girls rather than guys. If you want both then you are bisexual. Not all lesbians are butches. There are different kinds. There are some girls also who like girls when they are young but get over this feeling when they grow up.
2007-01-20 19:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kroner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to analyze it so much, I believe women were put here to be attractive and there are some women who are straight and find other women attractive. Now to say that, if you would rather sleep with females I have one question for you, Have you done that yet? And you are attracted to feminine women, everyone has their own preference. Just try not to put a label on it. Good Luck finding yourself.
2007-01-20 17:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Naughty Girl 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's how I am also, and I just recently have accepted that I am in fact gay. I wasn't sure because I do have that little attraction to men, but I realized it's not anything I would ever want to act on so, yep. That's all. Good night.
2007-01-20 20:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by T 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you are gay or not, only you will be able to answer that question.
However lesbians come in all shapes and sizes and fashion. My g/f and I are not partial to masculine clothing or dress. We wear makeup, our hair is stylish and feminine, we wear skirts and thigh highs and stiletto's. Shopping is an art form for us.
You can dress any way you want and find a partner that is as feminine as you are, its all up to you.
2007-01-20 17:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Not all of us lesbians are butch you know. I'm feminine and I am mainly attracted to other femmes.
Now, if you are attracted to some guys, you might be slightly bisexual. (Nothing wrong with that.)
2007-01-20 17:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it
But what sort of attraction do you have to guys?
Do you just find them good looking, or is it somewhat sexual?
2007-01-20 17:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by traven_blood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your attracte to women and want to sleep with them then your a lesbian.
2007-01-20 17:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just told me that you were a lesbian...and now you ask?
2007-01-20 17:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're basically saying that you are... Is that what you want to hear?
Yes, you are a lesbian.
2007-01-20 17:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋