... that when you go to a gay club, it seems as if everyone there is already in a relationship. I mean, I went to a local gay club tonight, and wouldn't ya know... most everyone there was already involved in a relationship. How are we singles to come into a relationship if we have no where to meet other singles like us?????
2007-01-20 18:28:53 · 8 answers · asked by spotted_moofers 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I see all this talk about "silly boy" and HIV.... may I add that I'm a girl...
2007-01-20 18:42:00 · update #1
I think they go there for the scene. I agree with you 100%. It's hard to find other gay singles
2007-01-20 18:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's an excellent question!
Especially when 1/2 the people write, "When I go to a Gay Club none of the guys are LOOKING for a relationship and only want sex." So, it does seem like single gay men are caught between a rock and a hard spot (so to speak). On one side, gay couples are out visiting with friends and on the other, single gay men are just out cruising, so there really is slim pickings for a seriou relationship. However, DON'T GIVE UP HOPE. There are guys out there looking for you! Just keep looking!
Also, please consider asking your friends for help, as in blind dates and etc. These people generally know you better in some ways than your parents and have a circle of friends and acquaintances that we don't know of besides ourselves. Also, with the Internet, you can browse Yahoo! Personals, as well as 100 other Personals sites that list people near you. Just be careful and make sure they are also looking for a relationship.
Then there is volunteer work and other places you can go to meet people with the same interests. Just "get out" and meet people to widen your choices and chances!
2007-01-20 19:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the discovery of HIV-AIDS,gay people are very cautious,and will ask around about a person before they will approach and be friends.Give it some time.Not everyone is in a relationship,most are just hanging out in groups.But a gay bar,as stated,may not be the best place to meet someone.Explore your options.PEACE!!
2007-01-20 18:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what you should do? Go up to a few couples and ask them where would be a nice clean place for singles to meet. Be straight forward. That is don't act like you're hitting up on them, just ask them what you just posted sincerely. I think they would be happy to steer you in the right direction.
2007-01-20 18:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by stray cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet someone online that is single
Or go to a gay bar which is smaller
2007-01-20 18:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meetsingles
2015-02-02 10:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silly boy, you went on Couples night!
2007-01-20 18:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were probably in the wrong club. There must be one where the singles gather to gossip and cruise ! LOL...
Good luck in finding the person who will have your heart beat...
Baboom... Baboom... Baboom! LOL.
2007-01-20 18:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋