Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - November 2006

my gf says she treats me badly and wants to breakup cause i deserve better, i come home, shes drunk, she tells me her roomate told her i compared her to roomates x and that he is a user and horrible company, her roomate says it was a misunderstanding, it was, being drunk she takes it the wrong way and tells me i better leave cause shes about to take a bottle of aspirin, upon hearing this i break down to tears and tell her im not leaving knowing you are going to do something, but what do i do, she has had many addictions lately, and is miserable, she won't go to a therapist cause they might put her on meds, she won't have that, a.a is not even an option, she is refusing help, but she admitted she has a problem, i'm scared she will do something when no one is around, she can get alcohol and pills when she wants, please help, i love her, but i can't help her if she pushes me away. she might not remember this tomorrow but i need advice i know the obvious, doctor, phone line tips seem best

2006-11-29 19:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom doesn't have a problem with me having a girlfriend, yet she stiffens up at the mention of GLBT matters. I'm so confused, I don't know what to think of it.

2006-11-29 19:18:46 · 8 answers · asked by Parks H 2

in my opinion useful , because girl are free from their needs,
and dangerous becasue they carry some deasese and they take a chance from girl to marry with a boy( if that boy be good one off course).

2006-11-29 18:33:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-11-29 18:29:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I don't know how to ask this, but here i go...

Me and my bf have been trying to have anal sex for some time (2 years) and we haven't really done it. He trys but after a while i just pulled him away and we just do something else... the thing is that I would really like to do it, but i have some issues...

1.- Is there any way to clean the inside of my anus before doing this ?? ( i know... ) HOW ?

2.- How can we do it without pain, we have used some lub but when we use it, sometimes it hurts a little ( not the action, but the lube itself even before we do anything... ) what lube should we use ?

Please, serious answers only...

Thank You !

2006-11-29 17:30:43 · 15 answers · asked by cucara-macara-titere-fue 1

Do you think if there wasn't such an emphasis on masculinity and femininity, there wouldn't be homosexuality"?
Or such a stress on gender roles their would be gay?
Or boys mocking the effemint boys?

2006-11-29 17:05:05 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do i fix this? Tonight in about 30 mins. my gf is going to tell me that i need to walk away from her. that it is in my best interest if we are not together. SHe is an alcoholic, has gained a little wait and has a very addictive personality, but lately she has been saying that she treats me badly and that I don't deserve her and that I could find better. SOme of this may be true but I have put up with so much already and honestly i just can't be w/o her. Ok so she is my 1st gf and 1st everything ever. i know lame. but I can't live w/o her i can't. i am thinking of asking her if she wants to be with me in at all or never. cause honestly if she said she could get herself better in six months, i would wait for her. thats just how much i love her. i need her, i want her, can anyone give me advise asap. please help my heart is about to be broken and i need a way to avoid it. please, i'm begging and praying that someone has some good advice soon. She is my heart. Help PLEASE help

2006-11-29 16:35:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 16:34:05 · 8 answers · asked by ICEMAN 1

If you know any reliable websites or books on the topic, I would love to know about them.

2006-11-29 16:31:04 · 3 answers · asked by Battle Royale Fan 1

i'm a guy and hope to be a girl some day. what do you love most about being a girl.

2006-11-29 16:12:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a 14 year old boy. i have had crushes on girls in the past but i feel like sometimes i like guys, or i think that they are kinda attractive, but im not sure if Im gay or not. I really like hanging out with girls and i feel more comfortable around them for some reason, and i have most of my life. I do like talking to guys but it seems like most of them are assholes to me sometimes or are just not very friendly. People have asked me before if i was gay and i say no because i really dont think i am but i am really confused. Is this just a phase/curiosity thing? Do i like hanging out with girls because they are more mature for me or because of some other reason? Sometimes girls flirt with me but i am nervous to flirt back and get uncomfortable. I dont feel like having a girlfriend at the moment and i dont know if its because im just not ready to have one, or if because i actually dont like girls. please help me, tell me what you think!

2006-11-29 16:11:52 · 36 answers · asked by anonymous 1

Okay, I have a boyfriend, and we also have lesbian friends that we hang out with often... The thing is that my boyfriend doesn't mind seeing two guys kiss, it turns him on, however, when two of my girlfriends kiss... it makes him gag and he told me "Ewwwww, gross.". I looked at them and I didn't mind it, but I'm not turned on by it drooling all over the place yelling "Oh! Hell Yea... Wooo hooo! Yea"

I don't know, does this make him homophobic? I mean he's still friends with them.

2006-11-29 16:09:47 · 30 answers · asked by Randy S 3

I hear women curse alot of times,but they get offended when a man does it in front of them.Talk about hypocritical.

2006-11-29 15:56:04 · 18 answers · asked by marvin w 1

Do girls like it when men or gay men kiss?

2006-11-29 15:51:29 · 29 answers · asked by Spencer 2

OK, my gf is Catholic, but she's a lesbian. (And spare me of the "then she's not really catholic" speech, she loves God more than anything) She loves me, she believes that people fall in love with people for a reason, but she was raised that homosexuality was wrong. She's really confused because she's sort of questioning her feelings and her religion. What should I say to ease her mind? She's very loving, and she knows she wants to be with me, she's just confused. HELP!!!

2006-11-29 15:50:36 · 18 answers · asked by Phedre D 3

My son came home from school today and said this lil girl told him that he had the wrong ear pierced and it made him look gay . Well natuarally as most children it bothered him and he asked if he had the right ear pierced (he has the left ear done). So am I right or is she right?

2006-11-29 15:34:33 · 25 answers · asked by Rae Rae 1

Well, I am just wondering what I am supposed to do in this situation.

-My teacher is a little too comfortable on sexuality, he compliments a few of the girls in the class, like, in the middle of I test he all of a sudden said to me, "Lookin good Maddi." And, I was terribly embarrased and didn't know how to react, he had done the same thing to other girls too.

-He once said that we had to do an assignment that involved watching the TV, then he said to one of my friends Cody, "That doesn't mean you can watch the playboy channel Cody."

-Then, when we were studying the reproduction of cells, I said sexual reproduction, or binary fission, and he said "Yeah, you like that."

I have no idea what to do, because he keeps victimizing people and saying compliments that are actrually insulting people.

Help!

2006-11-29 15:34:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

but i think he was cheating on me.. but he says he wasnt .... but i feel that he did.. HELP>......

2006-11-29 15:23:58 · 11 answers · asked by Lee 1

Im a female and I tried anal three times...twice it hurt really bad right when they put it in, the third time it felt really really uncomfortable. I just do fingering right now, but it still feels nasty like bowel movement...are there any tips to not make it hurt? Numbing sprays..lol but seriously

2006-11-29 15:04:51 · 18 answers · asked by Curious Q 1

Or inside?

I always feel like gay people distance themselves from bi's and consider them closer to straight.

2006-11-29 15:03:21 · 13 answers · asked by BiyGuy 2

Will she ever switch? I have been doing her housework for her, buying her outfits, cooking her dinner for the last 9 months but so far she only lets me kiss her below her ankles. Her girlfriend thinks its really funny but I just can't stop loving her. Is there anything else I should do for her so that she might accept me as something more?

2006-11-29 14:57:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi i want your help to learn more phrases to express him how i fell i dont wanna always be telling the same phrases, but sometimes i have troubles so i owuld like you to help me for phrases to wish him good day at work and when saying good bye just your sweetes and best phrases :) thanks i really aprecciate it

2006-11-29 14:46:05 · 5 answers · asked by sabin_f5 3

2006-11-29 14:43:30 · 4 answers · asked by honey h 1

I live with and around people that think it's wrong and terrible to be gay. And I'm just wondering if that's what most people think, or if it's just the people that I'm around.

2006-11-29 14:35:57 · 24 answers · asked by Mike 1

sorry but how could some people be Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual ..etc
I just think it's not right !!!! even animals >> which is animals!!! don't do it ????

2006-11-29 14:34:23 · 21 answers · asked by HoZaN 1

I think I have an idea, but i'm not 100%. Serious answers only please.

2006-11-29 14:33:54 · 12 answers · asked by Thumbs Down 1

how do i get someone to call me names about liking d***

2006-11-29 14:24:56 · 6 answers · asked by crapweasel 1

Would you disown your own child if they were a seriel killer and ONE of their victims was another of your own children........

2006-11-29 14:21:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

And bisexual girls are welcome to answer to respond to someone that answered the question earlier.

Would you date a guy that had been with another guy?
Take aids out of the question. Pretend neither man had been with anyone else for 6 months and they were both tested and free of aids...u people really need an education on aids.

What if no penetration was involved. In other words, only oral. Does that make a difference?

Also, consider that the guy didn't like the experience and has no desire to do it again. Does this make a difference.

Thanks for all of you for taking the time to answer. Please, think and don't just throw out your impulsive close-minded answer.

2006-11-29 14:19:00 · 8 answers · asked by Straight but not narrow 1

oh yes i do it intentionally...

why because it cracks me up that the system is just plain wrong

2006-11-29 14:16:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous