I need to reask this question because some of you are lost.?

Question

And bisexual girls are welcome to answer to respond to someone that answered the question earlier.

Would you date a guy that had been with another guy?
Take aids out of the question. Pretend neither man had been with anyone else for 6 months and they were both tested and free of aids...u people really need an education on aids.

What if no penetration was involved. In other words, only oral. Does that make a difference?

Also, consider that the guy didn't like the experience and has no desire to do it again. Does this make a difference.

Thanks for all of you for taking the time to answer. Please, think and don't just throw out your impulsive close-minded answer.

Answer 1

As long as we're having safe sex, I wouldn't mind a bit! I think it's stupid how we think of bi men as being more likely to have STDs. They may be, but the important thing is behavior, NOT sexual orientation. I would have safe sex with ANY guy to avoid pregnancy and STDs, not just a bi guy. I think they'd be more open minded and progressive than a lot of straight men.

Answer 2

I think you've hit on something. The stigma against male-male sex is much stronger than the stigma against female-female sex.

Heterosexual women put forth an image of being more open-minded than heterosexual men, but I'm not really convinced that it's true. Heterosexual men don't seem to be put off by a girl who's had a sexual experience with another female.

Yet I think most heterosexual women would be bothered if a guy had previously had sex with another guy.

Answer 3

what do you mean by lost? i know exactly where i am. (most of the time)

if i liked the guy enough to have sex with him (i would have to like him an awful lot) then i doubt that i would care.

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in response to other answers. men don't mind the thought of two women, because for most men it's a fantasy thing. i did say most not all.

Answer 4

I think any sexual relationship would need testing as for your question i wouldnt care its amazing how people are able to accept bisexualty between females far better than males I think if you can accept one only the hypocritical cant except both

Answer 5

God did not intend the same sex to be together in a monogmus relationship! Anyone out there that acts this way is well in doubt in deep trouble with the Devil. The devil makes people believe that this is o.k behavior because they are only pleasing themselves, and have much deeper issues beyond Homosexuality. God made Man in his image, and as the bible clearly states the first couple was in face MAN and WIFE! I am not saying that there wasn't homosexuality in the bible, and I am not saying that God was OK with it then. FOR THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH. And everyone is a SINNER. But God sent his son for all the sin of the World, and even Homosexuals can change, but if they think that They are acting out of GOD's will for their life, they are headed down a very dark road of deception. The only Way is to Stop doing homosexual acts, because God cannot look upon Sin, and the same goes for EVERYONE! God says to love the person, not what they do. I personally, cannot see myself dating a guy that had been with another guy, but God does Forgive, and believe you me, just because the guy tried it once, and is now dating a woman, doesn't mean that it won't happen again unless He completely rebukes the demon of Homosexuality. Again I am not judging anyone, that is not my place, because to God all SIN is EQUAL in his eyes. God Bless I hope this helps. A Woman named Nancy Heche was married to A Homosexual, and he was in the closet the entire time, until he croaked in 1983 of Aids. How is this OK? God loves everyone, and has a plan for everyone, and even works through people who commit this sin. Read the Bible about it. Talk to your local pastor. Just because someone thinks they were born that way doesn't make it right! DECEPTION!

Answer 6

since we're not talking about hygiene or disease... and we're only talking about the character of the guy, i think the only reason a girl would not date a guy who has been with another guy (for whatever reason the guy has for being in that situation) is because she is insecure with herself and is strung up on gender roles... she lets doubts and fears and her inability to understand get in the way of whatever the guy has to offer (spiritually, emotionally, etc)...

of course though.. there's nothing wrong with that... that's just how they are...

P.S. the girl below me is dumb.... hahahaha

Answer 7

I am a gay male...I would date a man who had been with anybody in any way...whether he was HIV +ve or -ve.....dating isn't all about sex and certainly not about unsafe sex.....would I date a man who had been with a woman...of course I would....I in the past have been with women.

Answer 8

do whats right for you and stop worring about what other people think!