Well, I am just wondering what I am supposed to do in this situation.
-My teacher is a little too comfortable on sexuality, he compliments a few of the girls in the class, like, in the middle of I test he all of a sudden said to me, "Lookin good Maddi." And, I was terribly embarrased and didn't know how to react, he had done the same thing to other girls too.
-He once said that we had to do an assignment that involved watching the TV, then he said to one of my friends Cody, "That doesn't mean you can watch the playboy channel Cody."
-Then, when we were studying the reproduction of cells, I said sexual reproduction, or binary fission, and he said "Yeah, you like that."
I have no idea what to do, because he keeps victimizing people and saying compliments that are actrually insulting people.
Help!
2006-11-29 15:34:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It sounds like it's time to alert someone about your teacher's conduct. The "Yeah, you like that" comment is especially uncalled for and sounds like sexual harassment. You should first talk about this with your parents and have your parents talk to the school. If nothing is done and his sexual remarks continue, you and your parents may want to get advice from a lawyer.
2006-11-29 15:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
was 'Lookin good Maddi' a comment about how you were doing on the test so far or your appearance?
the comment to Cody was no big deal...just an attempt at humour
'Yeah, you like that' was not a smart comment for him to make, but not terrible either.
next time he makes a comment to you that you find offensive, just say to him in front of the whole class 'i find that type of comment really offensive and inappropriate'
2006-11-29 20:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Spyder 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is actually that serious, get proof and say something to a higher authority figure. You need a few witnesses though and...possibly proof of the offense somehow, other than witnesses. It takes a lot, but if what he's been doing is actually as bad as you make it sound then you're going to have to prove it, otherwise, there's not any other way I can help you.
2006-11-29 15:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by xxcoco_chickxx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty- i do no longer imagine it really is a come-on. i imagine she is attempting to make your son imagine. You, despite the indisputable fact that, are better than welcome as a worried figure to frivolously and devoid of putting blame, ask her the intentions of the remark. She might want to have not realized the way it would want to come off to somebody else. If it truly is the in straight forward words evidence of her "harassment" i does no longer be too speedy to throw the e book at her. you are able to element out that it would want to be better perfect to apply the thrid human being at the same time as giving examples, lest the impressionable little ones get the incorrect idea. yet I dont imagine it had any incorrect intentions.
2016-10-07 23:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your guidance counselor or principal. Try to get one or two of the other girls to go with you to back you up and it might not be a bad idea to talk to your parents about all of this before you even do go to see the other school staff for help! Just my thoughts on it. Good luck! *hugs* JAC<
2006-11-29 15:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by jackaboo007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would first say to him that it makes you uncomfortable or a group of you approach him and tell him that he is making you all uncomfortable at least give him the opportunity to change before you cost him his career .He may have been brought open to have been very open about his feelings and just continues to do it out of habit.
If it still continiues after this you don't have much other option but reporting him
2006-11-29 15:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by harro_06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Naw hes jus funny I have a teacher like that too
2006-11-29 18:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely crossing a line that shouldn't be crossed. Tell someone about this. Maybe the school nurse?
2006-11-29 16:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your teacher's remarks make you feel uncomfortable, you could inform a guidance counselor or a parent.
2006-11-29 16:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to your school counselor or Principal. He needs to be made aware that he is making offensive comments
2006-11-29 16:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋