my gf says she treats me badly and wants to breakup cause i deserve better, i come home, shes drunk, she tells me her roomate told her i compared her to roomates x and that he is a user and horrible company, her roomate says it was a misunderstanding, it was, being drunk she takes it the wrong way and tells me i better leave cause shes about to take a bottle of aspirin, upon hearing this i break down to tears and tell her im not leaving knowing you are going to do something, but what do i do, she has had many addictions lately, and is miserable, she won't go to a therapist cause they might put her on meds, she won't have that, a.a is not even an option, she is refusing help, but she admitted she has a problem, i'm scared she will do something when no one is around, she can get alcohol and pills when she wants, please help, i love her, but i can't help her if she pushes me away. she might not remember this tomorrow but i need advice i know the obvious, doctor, phone line tips seem best
2006-11-29 19:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You need to get professional help involved here.
Whether calling the police to do a "well being" check or calling a crisis hotline yourself.
Get her some help! NOW!!
1-800-SUICIDE
It's the National Suicide hotline! Call now!
2006-11-29 20:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gf does not want treatment now. Your choices is very simple, stay around and be manipulated all the time. Always saving her from suicide attempt and drama. She will continue to be her safety net, but it will not make her use/drink any less. You will just have to work harder.
The best thing to do is to walk away. She might really kill herself (NOT that she really wants to, simply that she is SO used that someone always stops her from teh final deed.) If she is alive in a few months, and wants treatment; then you can help her.
At this stage, you can just be used by her; your choice.
2006-11-29 20:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs help real undesirable.according to probability a intervention w/family individuals and significant different and childrens. i understand from experiance,I spent countless years hooked on drugs. I had to lose each thing two times even my existence!! it has to provide up previously something serious then returned it may all be a cry for interest interior the worst way. Dont enable her use her threats as the thank you to push you around,yet do hear to her. interior the top she only would desire to be wanting interest. She's deffinately no longer nicely. attempt to get her help ,consult from her mothers and fathers wether she says she hates you or no longer. in case you care in any respect do this quickly!!! dont enable a cry circulate unheard existence is only too short and exquisite to enable slip by using help HER!!
2016-10-13 10:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there...sorry to hear about your problem...but really I don't think this forum is the place to seek help....as you said Professional help is needed and no matter how your g/f feels about it that's what she really needs.....try and talk her into seeing some one...and I hope you succeed and things work out for you both....take care
2006-11-29 19:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by PCee 49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the person under me. She really does need PROFESSIONAL HELP.
2006-11-30 08:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋