Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - September 2006

I understand that people before they become a Christian maybe. And maybe even someone who is struggling with it can be a Christian. But what about those who simply deny what they are doing is wrong. God did say he would allow their hearts to be hardened to their sins in Romans 1 but.......If someone really loved Jesus Christ would they not feel the pull. It is said that someone who truly knows Jesus Christ knows his truths when they hear it. If he is your Father you will know his words of course. Then how when some are presented with the truth do not hear. "Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God. BE NOT DECEIVED:(he's actually warning u there) neither fornicators nor idolators nor adulterers nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind"1Corinthians 6;9. That is the New Testament which Christians are only bound by the laws of the New Testament so no silly comparisons from Leviticus please Lev is Old Testament.

2006-09-05 07:07:43 · 24 answers · asked by mmmk92 2

2006-09-05 06:21:49 · 13 answers · asked by Swordfish 6

I've fallen really hard for this guy. Ever dreamt about that perfect someone to walk into your life? He is it. We have the best times together - there have been moments when he's come on to me but nothing got to far. We hang out all the time and when I see him I get those butterflies in my stomach like the first day I ever met him.
Here's the catch though - he is gay/bi. I am a woman.
Should I tell him how I feel? Either way we will still be friends but is there a possiblity for more than just friends?

2006-09-05 06:19:48 · 18 answers · asked by icreateidesign 1

My husband's cousin (female, VERY married, has a kid...) has been making comments about how she thinks I'm sexy, sex dreams she's had about me, and has admitted to me that she had an extramarital affair with one other girl already. She hasn't said whether she's lesbian or bi, and i don't really care, but her comments seem to come out of nowhere. I love her and she's a great friend, but I'm very committed to my marriage and i love my husband, faults and all, and i'll be honest, i'm just not into girls. I've told her this and she laughed like it didn't matter and she keeps on making her comments, etc... How do I get her to back off without losing her as a friend or causing controversy in my husband's family?

2006-09-05 06:08:32 · 20 answers · asked by Vol_Fan 3

usually only date musicians or sports types.should i go out with a plain woman with kids and she lives with her ex or should i stay with the fiery unpredictable types i usuually date

2006-09-05 06:05:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

He asked to a nude picture of myself. I told him I would humor him. He has made other comments and advnaces. When he does so and I display a little discomfort he calls me a homophob. How do I tell him that I do not like his advances without being a homophob?

2006-09-05 05:58:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been married for 3 years and me and my husband rarley even fight well now we have a child togeather and while I was pregnate he thinks that I didnt want to be and he even says I said to him I never wanted this child I am having it for him. I never said that and I love my child and I would do anything for him but my husband said that he hasnt been able to see me the same anymore and he is only still here because of the baby. I know that is not true I know he loves me what do I do.

2006-09-05 05:57:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Given my history people have been telling her that I am hornball and that all I care about is sex. Basically everyone seems to think that I can't commit. The other day she and I were talking and she suddenly said that she was ready for sex and not even a week before that we had decided on waiting or what not. I don't want her to be pressured into having sex with me because I have an image. In fact I want to wait!!! I want her to know that she is special to me....... I dunno what to do because all my friends keep telling her things like that she is just another notch on my belt and what not. WHICH IS SO NOT TRUE. I love her! Anyway what do I do? I've tried talking to her and she just thinks that I am not sexually attracted to her. WHICH IS SO NOT TRUE as well. Help you guys..... you know what to do.

2006-09-05 05:36:38 · 28 answers · asked by Leelee 2

Is it on your 20's,30's,40's,50's,60,70, or even 80"s years of your age and wouldn't mind to tell me,why? Thanks.

2006-09-05 05:29:59 · 12 answers · asked by javo 3

What is the major difference between having sex with a man and a woman, not at the same time of course. Since i started dating a woman, my friends have been questioning me about this. The only explanation i can come up with is i find sex with men more physical and sex with a woman more emotional which incidently gives me more pleasure as the satisfaction of sex that is emotional lasts longer than the physical kind. Thats just my personal take on it and wondered what other opinions were.

2006-09-05 05:23:09 · 10 answers · asked by beepbeep 2

I keep reading questions like "How do I get my bf to swallow" or "How do I tell my bf that I want to tie him up" or "How can I tell if this guys is a bottom or a top?". I just don't understand how people are having sexual realtions with people that they are not comfortable TALKING with...to me sexual realtions are very much about communication. I fully understand that men can come to the agreement to have sex pretty quickly - that is our nature - but it just seems if you can be that comfortable about sex you should be able to TALK to the guy!!!

2006-09-05 05:20:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

please help me!!

2006-09-05 05:17:14 · 26 answers · asked by Jessica_27 1

Is there a certain preference as to whom you like better? Males over females or females over males?
So, for example, say you are a guy and you like guys more than girls, but if an awesome girl came along you would date her and be happy?

2006-09-05 05:05:38 · 14 answers · asked by love earth 2

Ever since I was a little girl, I've been attracted to women. However, I've always dated men. During the time I've dated men, I never felt attracted to them or felt emotionally attatched to them. I never dated women, but some women that were close friends of mine, I felt all that emotional stuff and attraction. Anyway, I know it's wrong to be a homosexual because it says so in the Bible, but I can't stop thinking about women. I really want God to help me sort out my feelings. I would like to get married and have a family, but I also want to feel emotinally connected and attracted to my husband. It's not fair for him to feel it for me and I don't love him hypothetically speaking. Perhaps I need to have more faith and belief in God in helping me find a man to love and be attracted to. I'm 28 years old by the way. What do you think? Do you think I should seek counseling for this? I know most people would say "be gay, it's ok," but I want a honest opinion. Thank you!

2006-09-05 04:29:56 · 26 answers · asked by sugarbear 1

i need to know if im still strait bc there's a girl i know tht has a serious crush on me every since last year.whenever she sees me in school or out she always give me a hug and kisses me on my cheek.last year i told her tht i wasnt gay or bi and tht she needed 2 leave me alone bc she makes uncomfortable.but durining the summer me and her went to the same camp and when we were there i let her touch and kiss me bc i had started to like it but only for the moment.can i be strait if i let tht happen?

2006-09-05 04:23:25 · 29 answers · asked by Simply Me 5

I have a gay friend who asked me to set him up with a date. Not with a particular person, just a general date. "I trust you, Elphie, you know me well." Well, he's a "bottom" looking for a "top". Does a top have certain personality traits? I've known a lot of gay men who were sort of tough and surprised me by claiming to be bottom. I find it kinda rude to just flat out ask an acquaintance if he's a top. That sort of sounds like I'm trying to make an equation without thinking of the personalities. How do you feel if someone asks you if you're a top or bottom? How do you find a "top"? I want to make my friend's first blind date to be pleasant and have room to grow into a relationship.

2006-09-05 04:12:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

wha does anal sex feel like?

2006-09-05 03:56:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've had a few very *nice* ones about some people I've met here and they're hard to get out of my head. I just don't know if they're just crushes or perhaps something I should pursue. Has anyone had any experience with this?

2006-09-05 02:56:58 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

Because it does exist in the animal kingdom as well and always has. Read below if you dont beleive ......
http://www.bidstrup.com/sodomy.htm

2006-09-05 02:53:17 · 18 answers · asked by david s 4

This question is mostly for gay/bi guys, bi women, and straight women. Guys though, what condom feels the best when YOU wear it??? What condom feels the best when HE wears it??

2006-09-05 01:51:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-04 23:53:41 · 43 answers · asked by zoomraker 1

2006-09-04 23:37:09 · 7 answers · asked by KodiakStud 2

I am engaged to a man - he's what alot of women would call the "Perfect One" - good looks, stable career, kind, caring, family-oriented, loving etc. Recently we had some issues, so I took a month holiday and went overseas to visit my cousin. Due to space contraint, I shared room with her housemate, who happened to be a lesbian (boyish dressing, but still girly).

Every night, we would lie down on her bed and have deep conversations.. and when it was time for me to leave, I realised I was attracted to her, and on the last night, I kissed her and we made out. The next morning before I left, I kissed her for so long and didn't wanna leave...

I'm very lost right now, I am back with my fiance, and I felt like I cheated on him. Then again, I'm still very much infatuated with her, and I text and call her everyday. I never thought I would be attracted to women, but look what i've done. I'm so screwed. Any advice?

2006-09-04 23:01:33 · 25 answers · asked by Janny 1

I watched 60mins last night, there was a segment on twin boys, one was gay the other wasnt.
One of the things an 'expert' said was that they have discovered that the more older male siblings a boy has the greater his chance of being gay, and the odds increased with the number of siblings.
I was wondering if you guys had ever noticed any such thing?

2006-09-04 22:13:04 · 21 answers · asked by livachic2005 4

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2006-09-04 21:34:12 · 40 answers · asked by zoomraker 1

Scriptures say exactly why the wrath of God abides on the homosexuals:
"For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men who withhold the truth in unrighteousness.... because when they knew God they glorified Him not as God,.... Professing themselves to wise, they became fools, ..... Wherefore God gave them up to uncleaness...to dishonor their bodies among themselves...Who exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worship and served the creature more than the Creator... FOR THIS CAUSE God gave them up to vile affections....and likewise the men also, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust toward one another, men with men,... receiving in themselves THE JUST RECOMPENSE FOR THEIR ERROR,... God gave then over to a reprobate mind,.... filled with all unrighteousness, ...full of envy, murder, deceit,....haters of God,...proud,...without understanding,...who, KNOWING THE JUDGMENT OF GOD, that they which commit such things ARE WORTHY OF (ETERNAL) DEATH..." (Romans 1: 18-32)
Not a pretty picture for the sodomites.

2006-09-04 20:29:56 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

what the bible says about homosexual acts?

" Do not be deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, NOR HOMOSEXUALS.....shall inherit the kingdom of God" ...... And such were some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God". (I Corin. 6:9-11)
You can be set free from this demonic sin through the power of Jesus Christ. Many homosexuals have been completely set free to live a holy life through the power of Jesus Christ.

2006-09-04 20:18:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-04 20:11:50 · 27 answers · asked by Annmaree 5

You know how the bible says that heteros(str8 ppl) shouldn't have sex with heteros of the same sex? I am as you might say "gay" but I'm a girl stuck in a boy's body(wierd right?) but I can't help myself, it's inborn and not a choice. Many homophobes think it's a choice and it's so retarded.
Anyway if I have sex with a female, wouldn't it be against the bible? because I'm actually a female in a male's body.
Then if I do male sex(which I'm not planning to do for the rest of my life) is it against the bible too or what?

Please give serious answers as this is a serious question. Nothing like gays deserve to die or something.

Appreciate your answers! Thx!

2006-09-04 20:07:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-04 20:00:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous