What is the major difference between having sex with a man and a woman, not at the same time of course. Since i started dating a woman, my friends have been questioning me about this. The only explanation i can come up with is i find sex with men more physical and sex with a woman more emotional which incidently gives me more pleasure as the satisfaction of sex that is emotional lasts longer than the physical kind. Thats just my personal take on it and wondered what other opinions were.
2006-09-05 05:23:09 · 10 answers · asked by beepbeep 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Havent found the right man??? Well i been around the block and sex + men = a physical act, almost like a satisfying meal when you are hungry. I am not saying that men are not emotional of course they are, just in my experience (which is pretty vast) that when it comes to the actual act of sex that for men it is more of a case of physical gratification and not emotional. I am not talking about the other aspects of relationships here i am talking about sex.
2006-09-05 05:44:29 · update #1
beepbeep,
At least you understand that part of what makes you tick. I think that you have it figured out.
2006-09-05 05:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I happen to agree with you 100%.
My sexual relations with men usually fade on the satisfaction scale, rather quickly.
But my relations with women have always had a much more profoundly emotional side which satifies to a degree of which men cannot achieve.
I love men, don't get me wrong. But I've happily been with my lovely partner for over nine years now and if it ever came to the point where I was "in the market" again, I think I'd be looking more at other women than for a man...at least as far as long-term relationships go.
Men are their penis, while women are a heart and soul with the optional strap -on or hand-held toy.
2006-09-05 05:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your totally right. I don't really enjoy sex with a man. I does not turn me on in any way, and it feels like a chore. Like you said with a woman it's more emotional. A woman is more passionate and genuine. She knows just what to do and how to do it just right because she understands. Who could help but to love a woman. They are so soft and beautiful not just physically, but mentally & emotionally as well.
2006-09-05 07:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sound to me like you already know what to tell them and if they keep asking just tell them, ones you try it, you'll pay it...Lol But i do agree with you, man are more ruff, and sometimes you don't even need to make a connection with them to have sex but woman a lot of time since you make that emotional connection with them it more intense and intriguing, when am with a woman all i care about is pleasing her and i know that she wants to do the same. Just a woman's touch is soft, exciting and sensual it's completely different.
2006-09-05 08:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by sour_apple809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with you.
I just love the softness, the closeness and all the intimacy of being with a woman.
With men, (such as my husband) It is more lust and just straight rough nastiness. (I love that too!)
When i am a woman I feel as though she knows what I want even if we do not know each other well but with my husband it is more what he wants even if he is acting like it is all about me I know better.
2006-09-05 06:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i tend to agree with what you said i would also say that sex with a woman lasts longer and is more enjoyable as you tend to know what turns another woman on that's just my opinion others may not agree
2006-09-05 05:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by charlie! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been there and done that both ways. Being tru to what u say about your girl, my man does it all. He makes me feel great and I enjoy girls. Maybe u just haven't found the right man to give it to you yet.
2006-09-05 05:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by menyauna s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
people ask me this to. i can't explan it in words but my emotions know the difference. i feel exactly as you said, its physical for both for me, but its more senual with my woman. its just her. something about her makes me feel beautiful and so great. its like she's touching my soul. that's how i know she's ment for me
2006-09-05 15:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only u can tell the difference in your life... different people will say different answers...
2006-09-05 09:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by sexylilles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you anwered your own question
2006-09-05 11:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋