usually only date musicians or sports types.should i go out with a plain woman with kids and she lives with her ex
2006-09-05 06:05:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
musicians are sexy... everytime my girlfriend picks up her quitar i want to pounce on her.
artists are cool too, very changable moods but interesting people.
2006-09-05 06:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by lan f 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends. What do you feel for the "plain woman with kids" who still lives with her ex? Sounds like (no offense) you're just attracted to drama! Whether it's her, and her ex and her kids....or someone fiery and unpredictable, how do you get anything done in a relationship? I'm all for fire and passion, and I'm all for the motherly type....but it sounds like you might be a bit happier if you could find a middle ground.
2006-09-05 09:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear dear ...here am I, a plain otter.....(not with kids, but the old married type...) The only thing that bothers me is that she lives with her ex. It's possible they could be just keeping house for the childrens' sake...but then you do have the potential there for a threesome...erg..forget I said that...those don't work well. Your standards aren't mine. Mine are a bit slower-paced, so do what you think is best. (I know, Mom just copped out...) I would however, get the entire scoop on what's going on at the house before getting into a relationship. Blesings, my dear.
2006-09-05 07:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Standards.... Love doesn't come with standards.... If you have a check list you go by Musician, sporty, etc.... That's why you probably are having challenges with love..... It so hard to find someone you click with and can communicate with.. If you are limiting yourself to only certain people it might be 10 times harder... If you find your self attracted to this other woman you need to just take it slow... Ex(male) and children might not be the way to go either... More baggage... I'm with a woman who has three kids from a previous ex- male relationship... It hard.. but then again I'm totally in love and have my perfect mate.... She was different that what I had in my head.. older, makes me crazy, etc... But she is the one for me...
2006-09-05 06:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by mylife 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this "plain woman with kids and she lives with her ex
2006-09-05 08:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by Steph 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your standards say a lot about you. People with low or no standards obviously don't think very much of themselves. People with really high standards are obviously willing to be alone rather than settle.
If you're thinking about changing your standards, I would suggest instead re-framing your question. Ask yourself what you dream for, and also what you deserve. You should never take less than you deserve. And if you give up on your dreams, what is there left to strive for?
2006-09-05 06:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by Doctor Why 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends, are you happy having flings or do you want to settle down? The more you limit your choices, the less likely it is that you will find "the One".
2006-09-05 06:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say give her a chance if you have feelings for her. You never know she could be the love of your life.
2006-09-05 06:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by Q~T 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you cant choose who you fall in love with but you can choose who not to so if she lives with her male partner and got kids i would stay well clear
2006-09-05 06:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A change is as good as a rest.
Do you need a rest?
2006-09-05 06:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by itsbadlucknotto 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋