please help me!!
2006-09-05 05:17:14 · 26 answers · asked by Jessica_27 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
don't bother to hide as eventually she will finds out.
2006-09-05 05:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by prawn_headed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the fascinating thing about women. They can hug and kiss and play and preen together and no one thinks a thing about it, something the guys can't do. You said, "bi" so make sure that mom knows you like guys, the girls you like get a pass--unless they look like lesbians, then you are under suspicion. Keep your girl friends friends, at least when around your mother. Watch your talk. Don't talk about girlfriends the way you talk about boyfriends.
2006-09-05 07:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you trying to keep it from her? Sexual orientation is a tricky subject. But if you suspect you are gay, bi or lesbian, it's best to get it out in the open . You should talk to your Mother about it. Sometimes being attracted to the same sex, doesn't always mean your gay. How react to that attraction may determine that. I believe that it is a chosen perversion. No one is born gay. They have yet to find a gay gene. And I doubt they ever will. Ask yourself do you want to be gay. The answer will usually be no. That comes with to much baggage. Will I fit in. Talk to your parents !.
2006-09-05 05:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weeelll - this part of you is entirely your business and has nothing to do with her or anyone else. You are the best judge of if/when you can tell her this part of you. The fact that you are desperate to hide it now does not speak well for her. Would she understand more than you give her credit for. Can you tell another family member and have them break it to her gently so she has time to adapt to it before confronting you. (Gives her time to understand and think before she speaks). Take you time and do this your way. Your sexuality is your business and no one has a right to intrude.
2006-09-05 05:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of good, educated and well thought out answeres here.
tough question to call.
None of us know your exact situation so none of us can really say for sure.
Keep in mind alot of what people have already said....she's your mom and mom's know alot more than what you give them credit for.
Also, she is your mother and there is a good chance she may be shocked initially but, if she is truely a good mom, then she will love you regardless of your sexual orientation.
2006-09-05 05:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Wayne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By not letting u know your not bi and she finds something that is bi hide it or destroy it. Really tell her she could understand
2006-09-05 05:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by erivaldosweetboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand you do not prefer to harm your mom, yet you won't be able to administration what's going to worry her or won't. you have yo stay your person existence and take a inspect to be as satisfied as possible. through fact you have already considered your mom's reaction, it fairly is effective to to attend somewhat in the previous telling her. How's your relationship with your sister? If it fairly is stable, be certain she is with you once you tell your mom. plenty has to do with how plenty time has exceeded through fact she informed your mom. mom continues to be processing the information. Has she or the relatives long previous to PFLAG? they are going to be very supportive to the full relatives. i've got met various families in PFLAG, with extra advantageous than one gay newborn interior the relatives. precise now communicate being stable interior. discover orgs that help youthful human beings cope with their homosexuality. .dangle out with different gays/lesbians your age so which you will sense rather stable approximately who you're. THEN, you would be in a extra suited place to tell mom. How is your dad dealing with it? something of the relatives? i'm hoping you will get tghe assist you may desire to be the happiest guy or woman interior the worldwide. and that i'm hoping your mom is going to pflag for the help she seems to wish.HUGS to you and your sister. I promise it gets much less complicated. it constantly impressive me whilst somebody 'is time-honored with of' whilst he/she is so youthful. i became approximately 26 and married already whilst i ultimately 'have been given it'. I had to end a marriage (rather dramatic) and start up my existence yet returned. WOW! My very terrific to you.
2016-11-24 22:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jlovesm,
WHOA! This is just the opposite question to "I want to tell my parents that I'm Gay," or "How do I come out to my parents?"
Just don't bring it up! What's the problem? Are you that close? It's possiblr that she knows already if you are, she might be holding back in case you "straighten out."
You gave us no information or background, so that's the best I can do.
2006-09-05 05:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you and your girlfriends do not fool around in front of your mom, she might think that was just your bestfriend...Take the fooling around in your room and lock the door...Or just simply tell your mom.
2006-09-05 05:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by shycat99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just becareful! Most Moms know these things about their kids!
2006-09-05 05:20:19 · answer #10 · answered by SVW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just live life normally I'm bi myself and my mum still doesn't know my uncle kind of guessed and my dad was just shocked when i told him if she asks then tell her the truth if she doesn't like it then tough it's your life not hers
2006-09-05 05:32:33 · answer #11 · answered by charlie! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋