i haven't talked to my dad in about 2 months becasue of this fight. its a really long story and id appreciate it if u'd help me. my dad used to be all jokey and stuff....didn't care about thing where they were..one night...i was sitting in the couch blowing bubbles for my baby bro when dad asked me who put this plate on the floor, i was just wondering and then i said you becasue he is the one who usually puts things anywhere because he is the "DAD". and then i had NO IDEA if he was joking or not when he told me to put it in the kitchen becasue sometimes when he yells, he jokes.. so i was waiting until he began hitting me or beating me.. so i just put the plate away while crying(it was actually my big bro.) my dad said to my mom that he hit cuz i was rolling my eyes when he was talking to me but i wasn't , iwas just staring at him hysterically becasue i wanted to know if he was serious about the plate.. so after that i was sooooo scared i went in my bedroom , i was scared cuz i thougt something is gonna happen to me,…. When my granma came over from Pakistan she said it was haram not to speak to xomeoneESPECIALLY your dad…. I still couldn’t talked to him because verything was going fine.. but the prob was tht my mom kept yelling at me and forcing me to say SALam, ofcourse its haram if you don’t then she tells me and forces me to talk to him but I JUST CAN”T IS NOT EASY.. sometimes my mom puts so much pressure on me….. is it haram if you don’t talk to someone… I just really don’t know what to do I can’t speak to my dad and say sorry because I don’t have the confidence…
please help
thanks you and salam
2007-12-27
12:10:20
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