Am I gay.....?

Question

I have recently found myself looking at my own gender (men) sexually, it really scares me! Am i gay and in denial?

Answer 1

Everyone goes through a stage of bisexuality... My cousin did and he was scared too but now he's as straight as a ruler.

I went through that but never really came out of it... Lols =P

Give it a month or 2 and see how you feel after that, if you still feel the same you might be bi... If not then, obviously you'll be straight!

Hope this helps...
Joeh =]

Answer 2

you really didn't give us enough info to give you an intelligent response. for example, how old are you? what are your feelings towards girls? do you actually feel attracted to these guys or is it more of a "i'm curious to know what he looks like naked or what it would be like to have sex with a guy?"

now, if you do like girls, as in if you were "straight" until recently, then you are either bisexual or bicurious. if you didn't like girls to begin with and just started noticing you were somewhat interested in guys, then you might be gay.

if you're young, like 13, 14, this could just be a phase you're going through, almost every boy goes through a phase like this where they question their sexuality, whether they admit it or not. i questioned my own for a while, then i realized i was gay.

if you're older, like 17, 18, or up, most likely this is a part of you that has just started surfacing, then it is probably something more than just a phase.

but, since you didn't give us any real information from which to base our advice, we can't tell you anything much really.

you really shouldn't be scared of liking guys. there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

if you ever want to chat with a happy w/ himself gay guy, hit me up w/ an email. i'll be happy to assisst any way i can.

Answer 3

I don't understand how you struggle with the concept as if you weren't. We all were at one time just plain out for the orgasm because it felt good. Then came rules and evolution and societies etc etc and now we are supposed to deny and negate the fact that at one time and even now we can at any moment satisfy the sexual urge with or without someone else. In this day and age we have elaborated many forms of avenues that provide stimulation of the central nodes in the pleasure centers of the brain and there you have it... Out of control sexual urges that for social reasons we maintain in the closet but most humans at one time or other do experiment and stay with whatever gets them off. In the process every now and then out of the hundreds of billions of orgasms experimented daily some manage to fulfill the genetic demand of transference and promulgation. Out of all the orgasms every day how many manage to make their mark and move on to life? Less than 1%?

Answer 4

You could be bisexual, you didn't state how you feel about women. But if you like guys sexually, then you are bi or gay...
You can accept the feelings, and just go with them, or you can come out when you're comfortable, or never come out at all. I wouldn't do the latter, but you should begin trying to recognize and accepting who you are.

Answer 5

well, probably, if you are looking at guys and having sexual feelings for them you are either bi or gay. nothing wrong with it though.

Answer 6

You might be. Take more time on your feelings. Plus we might need more information...

Answer 7

Maybe you should give turn your life over to Jesus Christ.

Answer 8

A test is .......... Who do you fantasise about when you jerk off, guys or girls?

Answer 9

Are you very young? as in teens. then no.

Answer 10

Well. Jus wait for awhile and see wat happens. you may be gay, bi or jus curious :] best of luck.


and dont be afraid my dear!