I got married this past August and invited all of my family. I know some of them (several cousins in particular) didn't come because they are too poor. When I had my bridal shower, only one of those cousins came (with her mom), and they gave me a gift, which I appreciated and sent a thank-you note for.
I knew they couldn't come and are pretty poor so I didn't expect a gift, but did expect at least a $1 "congratulations" card in the mail shortly after. Nothing came. The only thing that did was from the cousin who attended the bridal shower, she sent me $30 which I greatly appreciated and thanked her for. My other cousin, who was also invited, never sent a card, or even an email telling me congratulations. Neither did her mom, sister, or aunt (whom are all my second cousins but we are close). Anyway, she wrote my mom an email the other day outlining how great her life is with her boyfriend, how she moved to Ohio, and never asked about the wedding, or anything... should I be mad?
2007-10-15
08:41:23
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