Psychology - June 2007

I need to choose a majorrrrrrr. i just cant make up my mind! nothing interests me. the only thing i like is being a cop but everyone i know is against it. they dont want me to join the force.

2007-06-26 15:31:32 · 2 answers · asked by ramin k 1

who is to blame?

2007-06-26 15:30:46 · 6 answers · asked by hoodlum 1

I've never had a good relationship w/ my father. I don't know why. He's not a bad guy and he always proved for my family. But, it seems like he's getting worse. Even after battling cancer and recovering, I still feel this way.

I don't have an authority problem either. I respect my mother, even if I don't always agree with her. But I do not feel the same way about my father.

My parents divorced 2 years ago, and honestly I could not be happier. I just do get along with my father. We have no relationship. Tonight we had a huge blow out over nothing. I didn't overreact to something he said, but I feel a huge amount of anger and tension when he enters a room. I don't know why. I can't pinpoint when I started feeling this way or why.

It's even to the point that, when I get married. I could careless if my father walks me down the aisle. I don't understand girls that get all teary eyed at their weddings when they dance w/ their father. I don't even want that.

2007-06-26 14:46:19 · 11 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5

I think I always feel like this a couple of times a year ever since I can remember. I feel like nobody loves me and that the world woudl be a better place without me. I keep thinking about words that people have said to me:

"Ugly face, ugly heart. At least have something good." - Mom
"She's not my child. She's too dark skin to be my child." - my dad when I was born
"My parents doesn't want to pay for our wedding. She doesn't think you're worth it." - my ex
"You're like a village bycycle. Everyone wants to ride you, but nobody wants to take you home." - my ex
"Your ugly sister here (me) should be the bad one." - my uncle lecturing my sisters after running away, instead mocking me for just being born the way I am
"You're ugly." - my 6 year old niece
"You have an ugly face." my husband, a few months after we got married

At first I thought it was the way I looked, but even when I go online I can't make friends. Even if I disappeared, nobody would notice anyway.

2007-06-26 13:59:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 13:51:39 · 12 answers · asked by panndora 4

2007-06-26 12:58:27 · 10 answers · asked by kkkk 2

and Why?

2007-06-26 12:53:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Suggestions or medical back-up would be great. If you don't have any of these, then your experiences would be very much appreciated. Thank you. Have fun answering.

2007-06-26 12:42:36 · 10 answers · asked by Skyline 4

i was talking to her for two years, and i feel i developed something with her, she was going to come stay in england to be with me, she was the one for me, the one i wanted and im gutted she broke up with me.....her interest in me seem to dwindle once i told her about my disorder, i have borderline personality disorder...
im just struggling to get her out of my mind right now, im so lonely, and ilive alone, i feel like begging her to be in my life and love me....im 29 she is 20 and i no theres an age difference...but she used to say loving things to me, she was gonna move here to be with me.....and then all those feelings seemed to evaporate...ive never had a girlfriend throughout my life, and this was the first girl, that i fancied, that showed interest in me....im finding it very difficult to get over this, to get over her, even after all this time..
im so depressed, ill never meet anyone like her again in my life, she was from hamilton, canada

2007-06-26 12:36:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

You know, when no one's looking?

2007-06-26 12:32:45 · 6 answers · asked by wrongnumber 1

What do you do in this case ?

2007-06-26 12:30:17 · 23 answers · asked by Ismaily Rules 4

2007-06-26 11:54:35 · 10 answers · asked by lifeformykids 1

2007-06-26 11:52:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 11:36:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i couldnt finish my school this summer cuz i failed in accounting, therefore i wont get my degree this year.

itz a big defeat for me, i am a retarded, a looser. now i should have to find a job at home but before this result i planned to go to spain n find it there. now i have to stay at home, maybe i can go there for a week this july...

i never thought, it can happen this to me. it hurts me a lot, my parentz r also angry... d boy who i loved im afraid i loose him, too cuz he lives in spain.

why happens this to me? what is d meaning of this? what to do to forget???????? help me plz.

thanx.

2007-06-26 11:20:28 · 22 answers · asked by xxx 2

I am too careful about making decisions. One time, I had to make a choice to chose Algebra III or Pre-Calculus. First, I compared the teacher and their approach to each subject. Then I research the two classes in other high school coarse descriptions. After that I gather information from about 11 pre-cal students who also went through Algebra about every aspect you can imagined.

Thats not the only problem. I tend to change my mind a lot. At morning, I wanted Pre-cal and then I switched back to Algebra III. Its off and on like that every single day. When the moment comes where I sit in the chair with the school counselor. I freak out sweating and over viewing my options for the five minutes I have. At that instance I chose pre-cal and I could not sleep the next night because I thought I made a stupid choice. I woke up proud of myself that I finally took an advanced coarse

Now, I have asked the question of what college major I want to study. How do I handle this without going insane?

2007-06-26 11:08:35 · 4 answers · asked by sameperson247 2

2007-06-26 09:53:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do people learn to not be co-depenent? I would love to feel good on my own. I always need a significant other to feel good and then when I am with someone I always tend to give too much of myself to satisfy the other. How do you cure this problem?

2007-06-26 09:26:05 · 4 answers · asked by fedup 1

2007-06-26 08:48:04 · 21 answers · asked by Imran G 1

i don't think so.
every person is made for a specific purpose and he can perform that task better than anybody else

2007-06-26 08:41:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 08:26:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Actually i am sick of my life.I want to be again a cool girl, tension free mind and always happy. Due to my current condition i really get frustrated from anybody. I want to be changed. Please help me!

2007-06-26 07:16:40 · 30 answers · asked by vineet kaur virk 1

2007-06-26 07:09:48 · 3 answers · asked by geyamala 7

i have this problem. im scared that if i look too long at them they will think im staring at them(or intimidating). and if i dont look enough they would think im not interested or not listening to them(or angry with them).
i always think about this when talkin to someone and usually end up looking at them at awkward moments..sometimes staring or sometimes not looking at all. and they get the wrong impression of me!!
it doesnt come to me NATURALLY..so how the hell do i deal with this! any tips of when to actually look at someone when talking to them?

2007-06-26 06:49:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately, I've been trying to do my part in making plans with a new friend. We've only gone out and done something together once (which I initiated) but we had classes together for a long time and now talk daily.

The problem is that my friend would like to do stuff together, but she won't make the plans. When I talked to her about it, she said doesn't have a preference for what we do and is open to doing almost anything, so she rather defer to me making all the plans and she'll go along with whatever I pick.

Is this a bad sign?

Have you ever been, or know someone who has been, in this position? How did it work out in the long-run? Did one or both people end up resentful?

Also, is this kind of behavior on my friend's part indicative of indifference about spending time together...or could it be that she is so willing to see me that she's up for anything?

And why would someone want YOU to make all the plans?

Please share your own experiences/insights.

2007-06-26 06:34:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i do. i am 25 and work f/t and still feel like people judge one another way too severely. it seems as if even adults glance over people to see the way they simply appear. i really try not to, because i feel it's horribly judgemental but know it's impssible to completely avoid.

2007-06-26 06:13:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not.

2007-06-26 05:57:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

No matter what, I always find it so hard to express myself, whenever I talk to people, or even through actions. My mind always freezes and I always get so anxious and I restrict myself, and I always get jealous of other girls, who just can say anything to any person, especially guys, and make them laugh and smile. I want to join in, but I can't get over this feeling, and I hate it. How do you just feel free to say or do whatever you want, and feel comfortable doing it?

2007-06-26 05:55:07 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

My father was violently, sexually & psychologically abusive.
I married a man (&later left) who abused me pschcologically, telling me I was stupid, fat, embarrassing and trying to control who I was with etc, and isolating me from my family. I didn't see him as abusive, until my sis highlighted his behaviour (& he cheated on me too).
My ex b/f, displayed behaviour which I shall list. I never saw it as abusive until a Y! answerer suggested it.

He hit things when angry, shouted & swore at me, overly sensitive, jekyll/hyde, road rage, drove dangerously to scare me, made me feel guilty if I didn't spend enough time with him in group situ's, told me what to think, say & feel, discounted my feelings, didn't listen, finished my sentences & argued back at something I hadn't said, pushed me to do things I didn't want to, 'always right', made me question myself, alpha-male.
How can I avoid attracting / falling for men like this in future? I'm just falling for my dad over & over again :-(

2007-06-26 05:51:40 · 15 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3

2007-06-26 05:41:12 · 7 answers · asked by geyamala 7