2007-06-26 12:58:27 · 10 answers · asked by kkkk 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You will only give in to peer pressure when you think others are smarter than you. Make up your mind what you believe in and what you want before you are around others. Stick to the decisions you make in private. Then when someone wants to do something against your values, you won't have to think. Your mind was made up before you left home.
Also, play "what's the worst thing that could happen?"
Example: What's the worst thing that can happen if I don't get drunk with my friends?
1. They'll quit hanging out with me. (So, find more friends with like values)
2. They'll make fun of me. (If your like most - it won't be the first time)
3. They'll leave me here. (Call someone to pick you up)
You get the picture. If you don't value yourself you can't expect others too.
Good Luck! It will get easier with practice (promise)
2007-06-26 13:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by tambos67camaro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up, be your own man, and do what is right, irregardless of what others may want you to do.
When I was in the Army, some of the guys would become so angry with me because I refused to smoke or drink. A few even went to fisticuffs, trying to get me to do things their way. I have never caved into peer pressure. You, too, can stand up to it.
2007-06-26 13:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by Nothingusefullearnedinschool 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont deal with it- just give in!!
No I'm just kidding, just dont be stupid- because kids are stupid and why do want to be pressured to be stupid- thats stupid! Yeah I know i said stupid alot, but its because bottome line thats what it comes down to: stupidity!! Kids dont know what they are talking about-
You need to develop a strong conscience that can guide you in making the right decsion: How to do that? I dont know I am still figuring that out!! I am in highschool- and even when it would be easier to give in I dont because in the long run its really not worth it!!
2007-06-26 13:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by Nemo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick a sharp pin in their peer pressure balloon.
2007-06-26 13:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them yes or no or what ever. If they insist on being a deutsc$ bag. Shove it up their Rear end. If they have a prob with that tell them them to go tickle them selves in a corner. Don't take **** from people. But don't give **** to people who don't ask for it or don't deserve it. Good luck.
I know you won't back down.
2007-06-26 18:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have experienced this before, so I know what I am talking about. This issue is rought to deal with, but you can't let people intimidate you. Stand up for yourself, and let them know someway, that they woun't control you. Ignor it if possible. You could get advice from people, who you trust.
2007-06-26 13:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't because I could care a less what others really think. It is what God thinks and I live by this
2007-06-30 11:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i dont really believe in peer pressure...but i guess that IF it comes down to it, you just have to initiate your own decisions.
2007-06-26 13:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by Quinn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always Live ABOVE the influence :)
2007-06-26 13:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by ~~~Tara~~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop caring about what other people think of you. If you do this you will be invulnerable.
2007-06-26 13:06:16 · answer #10 · answered by plasmajosh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋