Psychology - February 2007

Alcohol/relationship question?
i dated a guy who was a drinker he kept telling me that he didn't have a problem because it was just beer. i couldn't take trying to compete with beer it seemed like he just wanted me to do everything he needed done.when we broke up within 2 weeks he had someone new- i'm guessing maybe i really never loved anyone like i love you was all just crap. why didn't i use my head to think

2007-02-23 10:05:32 · 13 answers · asked by elliepenelly 3

2007-02-23 10:03:10 · 2 answers · asked by mama_papadog 1

He hurt me very badly. I was there for him through all his hard times and he ended things nicley with me but I find out the real reason why.
He left me to pursue a relationship with a one night stand he was with before we met. She had gotten pregnant. He was even suicidal over this because he couldnt stand to have a child with this girl. Anyhow, I helped him come to terms with it and he met his child but began to want to get to know the mother as well. I can let things go, if he were honest, but he put me through much mentally, with his contstant dperession and suicidal feelings. When I found out I was in the hospital and all he told me never to call him again. After all I did for him, we never even fought..ever. Now, he is not with her and does not want to talk to me either. He told me that if I need help to seek help from a pychologist. That hurt me more then anything, considering I helped him thru so much. I stopped calling him, I dont sign online, I dont care to ever talk to him

2007-02-23 10:01:14 · 4 answers · asked by maria s 2

I was in a mans(unknown man who I almost did the thing but for some reason didnot happen) shower room whn i notices worms in the floor, I tried to hose it down but it juts kept coming, I stood in the toillet with the seat ?cover down when I noticed huge snakes coming out of it. I run outside the bathroom , sat outside the door and when a snake was ready to bite me, someone (did not see face)grab me and saved me. I then noticed my husband(my hsband has complicated medical problems , stroke as one of them) lying on the the same bathroon floor(like he was going to sleep) with pillows around him and snakes coming out of it. I told him to hold still while I try to save him. Then the phone rang.

2007-02-23 09:57:03 · 7 answers · asked by mims 1

I seem to become *very* shy and introverted when meeting too people. I am afraid of how people perceive me and judge me. And as a guy, I hate how I am thinking like this.

I wish I could turn "turn off" these qualities and become the person I want to be. I see that I am limiting my opportunities because of these qualities now. How do I start become more spontaneous and outgoing with people?

2007-02-23 09:55:55 · 7 answers · asked by Sclaven Smith 2

Do you have anyone that you still have anger towards from the past or now? Is your life hard because of others who did this to you and why?

2007-02-23 09:47:04 · 6 answers · asked by Believe me 3

2007-02-23 09:36:00 · 6 answers · asked by Chelsea 2

ok, here you have a normal girl, who has all the frndz she could want and above average scores. she aint poor and her family isnt messed up either? everythings almost perfect! then why does she feel like perishing, dying almost! she can do what she wants but she does nothing, she just sits there, trying not to cry, or be depressed. what the heck is wrong wid me??!!!!!!!

2007-02-23 09:34:48 · 12 answers · asked by pwincez for life! 1

the law or the truth?

2007-02-23 09:31:24 · 13 answers · asked by nicequestion 2

Asked a simlair question earlier. I currently am seeing a pychiatrist, and my father has a girlfriend who is very loving. Its so hard to forgive her. She lives in Techan,Alaska with her boyfriend.I tell my friends my mother is dead. She recently sent a letter apologizing for what she did. I don't forgive her.

2007-02-23 09:26:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats the best way to address this problem? where does it come from?. i constantly haveing feelings of loneliness and abandonment, im 29 and live on my own, in a small flat, i feel a horrible emptiness within my soul all the time, of hopelessness and despair, i have vey low self esteem, everyone i meet especially girls , they end up leaving me, which reinforces the idea, im going to end up lonely and desperate..i feel so very insecure about alot of things, how im going to achieve my dreams in life...of hapiness, warmth, security, stabilty, attaining friendships and relashionships, living in my own house/home, working in a good job,emmegration, to build a life somewhere else....i havent got a clue how i will achieve all this..i dont no how to get their.im speaking to a girl in canada whove ive known for two years speaking on the net,i chat through msn, weve really developed a loving relashionship with each other. but im afraid im spoiling it, with my,needyness,clingness,& possessiveness

2007-02-23 09:13:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-23 09:12:36 · 12 answers · asked by mikey 3

Whenever I get to an open high place, I'm not necessarily scared of being up there. the view is great! However I do fear silly things like my glasses being blown off my face, or me dropping an item I'm carrying.

Is this a fear of heights, or something different?

2007-02-23 09:11:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

To visit a psychologist do you need to be an abnormal person ? . This question may sound weird to you guys . I am dyslexic but i don't have my documents in here so i have to go to a psychologist for that purpose to get my new documents which prove me dyslexic and my friend she just made fun of me. I think she needs to grow up .

2007-02-23 09:10:22 · 10 answers · asked by dishakr 1

Why?

2007-02-23 09:05:29 · 15 answers · asked by erics.life 1

How do I stop doing this, how can I learn to just be happy with me, and get along with everybody, as if we are all equals.

2007-02-23 09:02:54 · 11 answers · asked by maneone22 2

he told me again today that ive had 8 different assessments from different psychiatrists and their of the opinion like he is that i have, borderline personality disorder traits, ive heard bad stuff about this diagnosis..im 29 now and have struggled in hell for so long, with my life, im just wanting to know, can their be any hope for me? can i get well? live a normal life? it is of thee opinion of alot of websites that peoples with border line personality disorder, and the severe personality disorders are impossible to treat....my symptoms about how i feel i talk about alot in my past, recent questions, what does any one think? can anyone offer me hope?> please only answer this if you have knowledge of what i talk about..thankyou

2007-02-23 08:56:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-23 08:56:02 · 6 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5

enhance your essence,,

2007-02-23 08:52:58 · 10 answers · asked by erics.life 1

I am lead to believe that Oscar Wilde said words to the effect of : 'The only thing to do with good advice is to pass it on, as it is never of any use to oneself' .... (please excuse any corruption ...)

2007-02-23 08:51:34 · 18 answers · asked by didactosaur 2

A lot of people on this site seem to believe asking a question is some kind of attack.

Don't they know it's all just a ride?

2007-02-23 08:47:18 · 4 answers · asked by D.F 6

In the last few years I've been through a lot. I've had two abusive relationships and even though I've moved on physically, a lot of that emotional baggage has remained with me. When I'm meeting a new guy and he wants to take me to a certain diner/restaurant, and if I've been there with one of my exes before and it brings up bad memories, I tell him I don't really like the place and reccommend another. Also, because my exes all live close by me and frequent hang out places in my area, when I'm with a new guy, I make sure that we don't go to any place that either I have a bad association with cause I used to go there with an ex, or if it's a place that I know my ex goes to alot, I won't go there because I don't want to run into him. I don't even hang out in my own neighborhood because of this, I always go somewhere where I know my exes would never go. I know it shouldn't be this way, but I'm not sure how I should go about dealing with this. I would really appreciate constructive advice.

2007-02-23 08:39:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This may be funny too some people, but I have had a recurring dream for the past year and a half. As it normally starts it is WWII and Adolf Hitler has seized control of the world. And I am the leader of a large resistance movement to stop him, i grow my armies for about a year, and then launch a major attack on the stronghold he is in.
There are two variations in the dream, the first variation is that my plan for attack is ALWAYS different. The second variation is that my attacks have one of two outcomes, the first outcome is that my attack works, my armies seize the stronghold and im announced king of the world, the other outcome is that my army is that I fail and that my army is destroyed and i am executed. What does this dream mean? I used to think that dreams didnt really have to mean anything... but because i continue having this dream and because i saw questions similar to this I am wondering if it is my sub conscious trying to tell me something.
Thank you for your answers.

2007-02-23 08:31:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

you just wanted to cry? if so, whom?

2007-02-23 08:29:51 · 18 answers · asked by practicalwizard 6

2007-02-23 08:29:04 · 8 answers · asked by oladzaid 1

who has decieved you? Ignoring them? I am not a vengeful person, but this person really outdid himself and hurt me badly. And I want him to feel hurt emotionally, like he did to me.

2007-02-23 08:28:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i get really freaked out when a sharp object is close to mine or someone elses eye!even a finger....is this even a phobia?i don't know any1 who reacts the same way...but it's really serious in my case!the other day a friean was puting contact lances and i freaked out big time...i thought she's going to poke her eye out...and yester day my mom was suposed to put eye drops in my eye and i ran away .....what is wrong with me?

2007-02-23 08:23:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-23 08:22:21 · 5 answers · asked by h2_117 2

2007-02-23 08:22:03 · 1 answers · asked by Em 2

i was dreaming that my husband was with another girl but i coulnt see her face and i would cry and wake up and as soon as i fell back to sleep i dream the same thing. what does that mean anyone. we have been married for 8 years

2007-02-23 08:17:12 · 7 answers · asked by sandy s 2