How do I stop doing this, how can I learn to just be happy with me, and get along with everybody, as if we are all equals.
2007-02-23 09:02:54 · 11 answers · asked by maneone22 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are really insecure. It's ok to be insecure about our bodies once in a while, but to feel other people are better than you because they are taller is not healthy. You have to love yourself the way you are and remember, there is nothing you can do about it anyway. One day you will find someone who appreciates you and doesn't care how tall or short you are, then you will be singing a different tune.
2007-02-23 09:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by CC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just to let you know I am a 5' 3" woman (who has shrunk an inch since last year) and my husband is 6' 5". One of his best buddies is 5' 4", but my husband is the one who has an issue over his height not us. He said he has never felt superior to anyone because of his height only self conscious.(My over 6' 6" nephews say the same thing). No matter where he is he stands out in a crowd. He's been stared at, insulted, asked to move so the people behind him could see etc.. So no matter what your height, weight, color, occupation etc. your going to deal with people making you feel awkward. I think you need to take a good look at yourself and see what wonderful qualities you possess and let those work for you. And realize every time you see someone a little taller (or shorter than you) they may be dealing with the same issues. Just be friendly and realize we were all created as equals by the perfect one who loves us no matter what. Be your self.
2007-02-23 09:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by becki 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol its humorous interpreting this cuz i'm 5'2 and my boyfriend is 6'2 easily alot of fellows dont care about genuine i advise if he's like wayyy shorter than the female hes relationship ,he will sense insecure positive, yet when your nevertheless in kissing variety he's satisfied :) and im positive tall adult men are conscious that taller females are having a confusing time looking a tall guy, yet in the journey that they dont comprehend them they dont care, they care about the ladies their with no longer some tall female waling down the hall way in college. and also you would wanna think again genuine being a deal breaker?
2016-12-04 20:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by sobczak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you just said it we are all equal . What counts most in anyone's life is the way they behave and the way they work. Having height isn't superiority . Have you ever thought that those people must have less knowledge than you or they lack in somewhere. You should feel proud of what you have may be you won't have that someday. You have your family who is there for you when you are in trouble , they love you. I hope my answer will help you in someway.
2007-02-23 09:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by dishakr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the height. As humans we are all equal (as long as we feel equal). You are suffering because you are shorter than average and worry about that. Tall is not necessarily better - they are not necessarily more intelligent, smarter, or good looking than you. Most women are attracted to men around the same height as them. Height == nothing. Just be yourself. Good luck!!!!
2007-02-23 09:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by coffee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 23 and 5'6, I have two friends who are older and they are about 5'4. the ironic thing is that they project such an image of self confidence that I honestly sometimes feel physically smaller than them. its wierd , But they have never ever had an issue with their height. what you have to understand is that 5'6 is shorter than average but thats all 5'6 means you are still taller than a minority of men and a lot of woman.
2007-02-23 09:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by triumphant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their height doesn't make them superior, just taller. Concentrate on your assets and improve on them.
2007-02-23 09:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great deal of Hollywood's leading men have been shorter than you are--and they did quite well for themselves. Not everyone is 6' plus--there are many men of your height.
If it's girls you're worried about, many girls date guys shorter than they are. Also, there are many girls who are shorter than 5'0"--in addition to those who are between 5'0" and 5'6".
2007-02-23 09:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just wondering where the tall people got their ego boost from, it's you shortie!. just kidding, but really it's not the height, it's what's inside the package.
2007-02-23 09:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 16 and im an inch taller than you...but just focus on something else that you like/admire about yourself
2007-02-23 09:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by cognition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋