Psychology - December 2006

Every night this week this same guy has been in my dreams. He is a friend, and my friends all think he likes me. He's been with me in several dreams. The first time I really took notice was when I dreamt he asked me to a Valentine's dance and we were slow-dancing. A few days after, I dreamed he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I said yes. two nights after, I dreamed we were iceskating holding hands, then out on a 'romantic picnic'. And last night I dreamed he proposed!

Is my heart telling me what my brain doesn't realize? Do I subconsciously want him to go out with me, or realize he wants me? HUH?

2006-12-01 13:45:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can age affect maturity and the intelligence of a person?

2006-12-01 13:37:57 · 7 answers · asked by Plasticplane 1

I had an elaborate dream the other night involving a musical number and very detailed setpieces. And I remember in the dream thinking: this isn't how it was done before, before they did it like - Oh! now they're doing it right. This has happened before, where during the dream I can recall having had the dream in the past, or upon waking I recall having had the dream in the past.

It doesn't happen often, but is it unusual? Have any others experienced this? The dreams don't recur on successive nights, so it isn't related stress causing them to repeat. Often there are months or years in between recurrences.

2006-12-01 13:20:01 · 5 answers · asked by dougeebear 7

What would cause someone to do this?

2006-12-01 12:50:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the difference (if any) between pretending and lying?

2006-12-01 12:49:06 · 10 answers · asked by BeeFree 5

good enough to get my poems published??
i dont want to fail and feel like an idiot but i really love to write i dont know what to do can someone please help me? how do i tell my parents this is how i really feel? i just dont want them to think that i am a nutty woman or something...but i really do need some advice and i dont know what to do or where to go.... hey.. thats one one my lines in my poems.. hahaha

2006-12-01 12:42:23 · 6 answers · asked by Brittany 2

It's usually understood that LOVE is sacred thing and LUST is bad behaviour or trait while both had the same utimately goal. That is, to get someone. To be with someone. Regardless of different wide spread and generally accepted and published definations of love, it still has the same hidden desire or longing as does lust. It's universal slang that " All Is Fair In Love And War". So it means that anything can be done , right or wrong, fair or unfair, just or unjust,moral or immoral to get somebody. Why?
LOVE IS A DESIRE TO BE LOVED. One very philosophical explanation of deep seeted desires of being someone , to be caring and be cared, sharing and being shared. So is it pure or sincere thoughts or set of thinking? If both have common goal and longings then why is one thougt to be sacred and the other non-sacred?

2006-12-01 12:40:03 · 16 answers · asked by Dr. Hashmi 2

How much of it is from their own life experiences?

2006-12-01 12:36:29 · 4 answers · asked by getnabargain 2

It is an absolute disgrace how they permit people to spend hundreds of pounds in vain

2006-12-01 12:28:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanted to see what kind of responses I could get from this.

2006-12-01 12:19:15 · 11 answers · asked by Socrates 3

I have a manager that will not leave me alone and has me upset most of the time which is making everyone around me uncomfortable

2006-12-01 12:07:53 · 12 answers · asked by jmrrms 1

I live in a home where my mom smokes and her BF smokes. I hate it. I can't stand smoke and I always smell it and breath it in. I'm working my bum off so I can move out as fast as I can. I always start fights becuase they are killing me and I hate it. what can I do? What Can I say that will have an effect on them about not smoking?

2006-12-01 11:59:44 · 16 answers · asked by Jenna 1

Can anyone tell me.

2006-12-01 11:57:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend is mentally unstable and has a record that she had mental illness was filing a case against her ex bf about she was used and made her a prostitute which it really didnt happened, does the authority will gonna believe her?

2006-12-01 11:51:01 · 4 answers · asked by shen_edwards06 1

I lost my brother and fiance in a car accident. Has anyone been thru this and have any advice for me? They were drinking and driving. Does anyone know of any support groups for this? Not the drinking part, the grief.

2006-12-01 11:50:34 · 6 answers · asked by lil_southern_pecan 2

I feel sometimes that I'm alone. I have many friends and we meet and talk on internet or physically. I'm not married and I don't have intensive intimacy with anyone. I live with my famliy, I study and I work but I feel as if the life is withered. I think making intimacy with a good girl might solve my problem but I don't really have enough time and actually a good choice to do so. I'm asking if there is an alternative or any possible solution for my sadness.

2006-12-01 11:48:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dreamed that my sister was drowning in a huge pool, and I couldn't swim deep enough to save her. She was shouting instructions on how to help her. She is 4 years younger than I am. She was recently divorced and has 3 teenagers. I am single, and I live 2,200 miles from her. We are among 10 siblings. Anyone got any ideas?

2006-12-01 11:43:11 · 9 answers · asked by flip4it 4

“The Three Essentials of Life”






There were times when you looked at me
When you were all I could see.
What happened to the times when nothing else mattered?
Now I am in a thousand pieces with my heart shattered.

The friends I thought I had are now gone.
I sit in my room away from everyone, withdrawn.
Gone from the world, departed from my soul, shun from everyone I know.
Now that it is all over, you no longer have to put on a show.

Family, the ones I thought I knew the best.
Each night, I lay my head down, thinking I am blessed.
Even they can slip right though your hands, gone forever, never to be seen again.
Just thinking what you would do to see them again is such an emotional strain.

As I sit by the window sill, watching the rain fall,
I realize that in this huge world, I feel incredibly small.
Knowing that you are gone it kills me inside.
In all actuality I am alive, but really, my soul has died.

There are only a few people in this world you can trust.
Just a second is all it takes for them to disappear like dust.
When that bond breaks, and your soul has been deprived,
Sometimes, it’s a wonder I have survived.

Although there are times when you don’t get along,
No matter what happens, families shall always stay strong.
When you think of home, a sense of warmth should come to mind.
A place where you can sit by your window sill, watching the rain fall, and unwind.

2006-12-01 11:35:04 · 6 answers · asked by Brittany 2

i used to watch porn all the time and really enjoy it - ever since i was a teenager. now i'm 26 and porn just doesn't have the same effect. what does this mean?

2006-12-01 11:19:07 · 27 answers · asked by P 1

I have been home for the past month (long story), and I am just so down I can hardly stand it. What do you do when you get this way?

2006-12-01 11:09:25 · 15 answers · asked by Karla R 5

this may sound stupid but i kinda want to know

2006-12-01 11:06:13 · 9 answers · asked by lex 1

If that is true, then why is it so ? Is there also some girls who likes sex as much as guys do ?

2006-12-01 11:05:51 · 14 answers · asked by dotab 4

ive been sitting online all day, listening to the same 5 songs over and over. i havent had anything to eat all day. i feel like im going to start crying but i never do. its because i admitted to my bestfriend yesterday that i loved him but he didnt feel the same. i told him im not going to contact him for awhile because i need to get over him. he agrees with me becuase he's getting over his ex too. i feel like im dreaming right now. am im in a depressed state?

2006-12-01 10:51:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bro is filing for divorce from his wife of 6yrs.He is leaving her for an old gf from college.We just found out(from his wife)he also cheated on her(wife) with a coworker a few yrs ago.We(his family) always knew she wore the pants in the family and could be very nasty to him at times but cheat on her 2x?I asked him if he was so unhappy why did he not leave her sooner and he said he made a commitment to god and her to make it work.We are a very religious family and look down on divorce but isn't cheating worce?He also has a 1yr old child with her that is his world and wanted his son to have a perfect family life so he tryed to make it work for his sons sake.i do know hes very upset over this and is in therapy for it he said he feels like he has failed his son.My question is do you men by this?Can a man be so in love with his child and values to do whats right that he stays in a relalationship that makes him want to commit suicide and make him have to cheat multible times on his wife

2006-12-01 10:40:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How is adjustment related to internalizing and externalizing?

2006-12-01 10:37:11 · 2 answers · asked by shyangel40_devlish60 1

to answer this question, you must have an experience of this.

2006-12-01 10:28:36 · 3 answers · asked by Riccardo 2

I had this funny lucid dream where I woke up from bed and knew I was dreaming, walked through my closed door, turned on the light in the living room and tried to turn on my webcam to record myelf as if it was an out of body experience, but then I woke up like "Drat!" LOL

2006-12-01 10:28:26 · 9 answers · asked by Cyber 6

2006-12-01 10:27:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel fine during the day but not when the night falls. i so miss having a partner then and I want to get over it.

i want to get over the desire to have anyone because I know love either comes or doesn't come your way.

and most importantly, i do not believe that being happy with yourself has anything to do with it. you can't romance yourself. i was just reading a preface of a famous linguist and he said that everything would be meaningless without his wife and kid. that's how I feel about it too but I'd like to come up with a way to stop missing this because there is no guarantee it will happen.

thanx

2006-12-01 10:26:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-01 10:21:29 · 19 answers · asked by LizziFishie 3