ive been sitting online all day, listening to the same 5 songs over and over. i havent had anything to eat all day. i feel like im going to start crying but i never do. its because i admitted to my bestfriend yesterday that i loved him but he didnt feel the same. i told him im not going to contact him for awhile because i need to get over him. he agrees with me becuase he's getting over his ex too. i feel like im dreaming right now. am im in a depressed state?
2006-12-01 10:51:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You aren't depressed, you are disappointed and hurt. This will pass over some good warm tea and a funny comedy movie with popcorn. Laugh and get your mind off it! Its not worth the agony and pain. Remember if it isn't meant to be, there is a good reason for it. Besides your price charming is waiting for you, and if you were to be consumed with you friend, you may never meet him. Everything happens for a good reason. He is not a part of your destiny.
2006-12-01 11:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by 112 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not depressed you are just going through a heartache but do not worry at all it will pass you just need time. Start doing stuff you used to, like going out with your friends to the movies, jogging, surfing the net, reading a good book, going to the mall. By doing little things you used to do you'll take baby steps towards getting better and getting your heart cured. Some days you might feel really bad and not wanting to do anything for yourself, do not worry about it it happens to all and if one day is bad then the next day you have a great chance to make it the best day ever just be patient and don't get desperate. Remember no matter what the sun still shines and the moon still goes out every single night! cheer up!!
2006-12-01 19:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by anairisramirezmtz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not, as least from what I have learned about depression. Depression is when you are in the state you are in, but for a very long time, i.e. weeks, months, etc. You are simply having a very bad day. You should be able to get over this in less than a week. If it goes on longer, then maybe you should talk to someone. Just try to get a good night's sleep and see how you are in the morning. I bet you will feel a lot better :)
2006-12-01 18:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you just feel really down right now. If this lasts for more than 2 weeks, then you would be depressed. Let yourself grieve over this, and then try one day at a time to move on. You should try to do something else - maybe even journal.
Don't forget that you have wonderful qualities and talents and that there is no one like you!
2006-12-01 19:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by what's up? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just had your heart broken..of course you are. It's normal and natural to feel the way you do after being heart broken. Thankfully these types of heartbreaks pass with time. I know it doesnt seem that way now, but it should. Everyone gets depressed from time to time, it depends on how long and how severe it is when the question of "Am clinically depressed..do I need help". This should pass. If it doesnt..talk to a friend, counsler etc...
2006-12-01 18:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by tata_bigs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a little bit depressed--but more disillussioned I think that your best-friend hasn't got the same feelings for you. Just stay best-friends and you may have a friend for life. This too shall pass--it is okay to cry--it helps--so cry!!! Give it time and may work out--just don't push it or may lose a friend too.
2006-12-01 20:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in love and in a state where u have recently been rejected..you are depressed of your rejection for love....
its good that you told him...now the descision is on him...
dont cry, and dont abuse yourself by not eating....
in life you will come accross many people who will make you feel special and in love...one rejection does not mean life ends there...
its good you are taking your time..but dont avoid your friend or try to run away what you feel at this moment....face it and you will come out clean....
dear...take care of yourself dont go in a negative loop about yourself...good luck....and go eat something...if nothing a full stomach will help you feel better...
go out with your girlfriends ...go shopping watch a movie dont sit by your self alone....unless you feel the need to take some time to balance yourself..
take care
2006-12-01 19:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by prakamyaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are and it only seems to be light depression cause there is always someone else for you. He does not want to get serious it seems and it leaves nothing for you to do but move on. Brightened up yourself and get started toward a better life with possible exciting avenues.
2006-12-01 19:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would recommend that you get yourself a nice bucket of your fav Ben N Jerry's watch Moulin Rouge (or any other Tragic Love Film that you might like) cry your eyes out and raise shinny and better tomorrow, it will pass it's natural!
2006-12-01 19:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by Lil' Gay Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. you are. Start eating, talk to your other friends, call someone close to you besides him, go to the mall, whatever it takes so that you can get over him. I know it hurts to be rejected. but lets stop centering our lives around one person, and move on.
2006-12-01 19:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by lillian w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋