I feel sometimes that I'm alone. I have many friends and we meet and talk on internet or physically. I'm not married and I don't have intensive intimacy with anyone. I live with my famliy, I study and I work but I feel as if the life is withered. I think making intimacy with a good girl might solve my problem but I don't really have enough time and actually a good choice to do so. I'm asking if there is an alternative or any possible solution for my sadness.
2006-12-01 11:48:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Thank you all for answers. They were all helpful.
2006-12-02 04:37:10 · update #1
It would be nice if you could get yourself involved in some activity (a club, a hobby) that you love. You will have shared experiences with the group and a common goal. I know it probably sounds lame but you'd be surprised at how much you'd love it if you tried something that you've always wanted to do. Ever think of joining an art class?
Also.. help the homeless! Volunteer at a shelter. You'll have a whole new perspective on life.
You'll have a relationship when fate deals you one. It'll come when you least expect it.. it always happens that way.
Good luck! We all feel extremely lonely at times (whether in a relationship or not)
2006-12-01 11:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you are going through is the feeling of "the need to be loved"... you feel lonely coz you dont have anyone who loves you or atleast tells you that he/she loves you a lot... parents generally dont do it (they think they have proven it all along)... you want to feel "WANTED"... the best thing is to get into a relationship (a close one)... the feeling of sadness can be reduced by spending your spare time reading... but there is no substitute for a serious and close relationship or marriage....
but understanding your limited options, i agree with daniel... get a DOG.... they can really make you feel wanted and loved... and you will definitely get what you will offer to them... so thats your best bet for now...
2006-12-01 11:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by HavingFun!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is called get a life you study an work all the time get out an find you a woman an get some an party some it is called haveing fun
2006-12-01 11:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by bigdogrex 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take time out of ur busy schedule to mingle and find a girl. But sometimes girls can add on to ur problem it sounds like i need a one night stand. Go to a bar or club, you'll find one. Good luck
2006-12-01 11:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loneliness is another version of the grass is greener on the other side. Loneliness is feeling a loss at not being on the greener pasture. Those of us on the other side know it is not worth the fuss.
2006-12-01 11:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you into sport? Join a club of some type or attend church?
2006-12-01 11:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read watch movies make a myspace
2006-12-01 11:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you try intimacy with God, he will always be there for you.
2006-12-01 13:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
read books , log on to yahoo answers
2006-12-01 12:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by mane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a dog
2006-12-01 11:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋