Psychology - October 2006

I am male ,age 20.I have a serious problem that ruins my life.i have social phobia.I cannot deal with people.when ever i talk my face colour become red , my voice changes and heart beating become rapid.All my friends laugh at me .this problem is being from childhood.I am 24 hour in tention.when ever i go to the place where people gather i fear if my face again become red ? i think this is because of the following cause " In our society boys starts loving with other (usually with )small boys and try to to do bad work with him.i was also a handsome boy .because of this i did not met to the other people i was fear if they start loveing to me than what will be my friends , parents and other people will thought thats way i leave meeting with people .when ever in assemble of people i went and some one see me because of shy my colour was changed and this problem is not yet finished . what i do ? this world is hell for me and i dont want to live more in this hell.

2006-10-29 15:37:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 15:36:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am trying to promote my book, its about all the old caracters from londonin the 50s up until the present day, i have put a few chapters on my web page so people can get a taster of what a life in london through the eyes of the crooks like ronny @ reggy kray the guvner street fighter lenny mcliane pretty boy roy shaw can uyou tell me any of you ideas orf how too promote it more ,o and if you dont mind checking it out and leiving a comment if you think its ok ,,,,thanks

2006-10-29 15:35:11 · 2 answers · asked by chris m 1

The last part of Maslow's heirarchy of needs is self-actualization. What does this mean exactly?

2006-10-29 15:27:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 15:09:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i went for depression, maybe its me, maybe its my particular situation (actually it was a lot more than depression) but i still feel sh*tty excuse my language.. all the time.

anything i can do?

2006-10-29 15:02:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example: for me, I'd hate to have to experience the female reproductive cycle: menstruation, giving birth don't appeal at all...

2006-10-29 15:00:53 · 9 answers · asked by  4

I know the big thing is about confidence these days and everyone has to be really confident but I've just never wanted to be that way. I mean i don't want to hate myself but I don't want to be too confident or extroverted. I feel like people like me better the way I am, quiet and introverted and un opinionated and that makes me feel good about myself. I also feel like if I'm too confident I say stupid things without thinking, where as if I am se;f-conscious I avoid it. Does anyone else feel this way?

2006-10-29 14:34:23 · 11 answers · asked by leena 4

2006-10-29 14:33:28 · 17 answers · asked by Linda P 1

Financial records, perhaps? From where?

2006-10-29 14:33:06 · 4 answers · asked by fresh2 4

I know that I drink on a regular basis, and sometimes get drunk on the weekends like a fool like everyone else. I am an avid cook, and love to have wine tastings at my house and explore that part of the whole culinary experience (pairing wine with foods), but I think because I cook every night practically or have friends over, that I end up drinking like, 3 glasses of wine 4 nights a week and then have a blowout weekend just for fun. I told myself I would stop for a while, and I did, but then I'd cut into my celibacy against wine a few days early because i thought "oh who gives a ****"... etc etc. So I am thinking, maybe I am excusing myself from having a real drinking problem because I am hiding it behind the mask of it being a "culinary thing". I've been thinking about going to AA a lot but I am not sure if I want to pledge complete abstinence from alcohol, just control. Serious control. And perspective too.. Is this making sense? I would love serious thoughts only pls.

2006-10-29 14:25:27 · 20 answers · asked by eands10 2

2006-10-29 14:23:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 13:59:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I was younger, I had such a bright and outgoing personality. I was cheerful, sweet, ready to take on just about anything. Now (a few years later), I have changed for the worst. I am shy, very very low in confidence, like to keep to myself and don't even communicate with my friends that often anymore. The more I am pressured by my boyfriend to do something, the more I shy myself away from everything. I feel pressured so much, I don't even know what to do in my life anymore (I don't know what I want to become anymore as far as profession). I do not like the person I have become and I don't know how to get back that person I used to be. It hurts me a lot, I don't even know what to do with my life anymore. What am I suppose to do?

2006-10-29 13:57:23 · 9 answers · asked by criee 1

...the government have been spying you all your life and you want it to stop?

2006-10-29 13:43:18 · 9 answers · asked by Raul B 4

What should I conclude? Should I ask him more questions? I think maybe he's addicted to sex. He said he would never go through with anything he fantasizes about. If he's just curious, but thinking about dating me, then shouldn't he reconsider what he's doing looking at porn and in chat rooms? He asked me if I wanted to look at 'male porn' with him, and I just didn't know what to say. I really like him, and I don't want to judge him, but how is this going to affect me? I don't want to get burnt or put on the backburner due to his possible 'addiction'/curiosity.

2006-10-29 13:37:11 · 6 answers · asked by Arf 4

It feels as if everyone knows I'm a bad person and did bad things in the past (which I have done), I think it effects the way certain people act around me and the way I act towards them.
How do I deal with this?
Do people really care years after the fact?

2006-10-29 13:33:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Which is not a component of intelligence:

a. the ability to use resources effectively when faced with challenges
b. the ability to understand the world
c. the ability to think rationally
d. the ability to use a written and spoken language

only answer if you know

2006-10-29 13:06:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

if someone tells you there's wet paint somewhere, you have to touch it to make sure?

2006-10-29 12:59:29 · 18 answers · asked by Nicky 4

Am too much of a perfectionist & can't stop thinking about how freaking expensive college is/ how bad things will be if I don't finally graduate this semester/ how stupid I am/ etc.

2006-10-29 12:58:10 · 4 answers · asked by sisofphil 2

2006-10-29 12:54:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

so why... i'm have to believe in you?

2006-10-29 12:48:28 · 12 answers · asked by gusano 4

Why do little kids have to flush and run?

2006-10-29 12:48:13 · 14 answers · asked by v stupid 2

I know my question is really stupid probably, but like i've been pretty depressed lately. I don't really have self-confidence issues, thats not a big issue with me lol.

2006-10-29 12:42:34 · 12 answers · asked by Kaleigh 1

I know a lot of people struggle with this disorder, what I am wanting to do is just find out some habits that I could pick up that may help me be more organized, compulsive, whatever you want to call it...I don't really know how to word this question so I know this may sound off the wall and you may not even understand what I'm asking...But if you do please shed some light on the subject...

2006-10-29 12:41:51 · 9 answers · asked by snuggles24_04 3

Such as with insecurities, safety.... For example, I feel insecure about some things in my future. I always panic, feel overwhelmed, and sometimes become controlling. But in the end....everything works out ok. So the feelings and stress were a waste of time....So would it be better with peace of mind to feel secure and not be? What do you think?...And this can go for physical things too.

2006-10-29 12:20:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 12:20:33 · 24 answers · asked by anonymous 2

IF remember "IF" time travel was possible would it be possible for someone to go back in time and kill their past self? for example "back to the future" the movie, if morty was to kill himself. i dont want an answers like "time travel is not possible" remember in this situation time travel is possible. if you can give me a decent answer as to why it would be possible or not possible you may consider yourself a genius or a freak which ever i choose. and in conclution i would like to say......"burst your head off thinking about this hahahahahaha!!!"

2006-10-29 12:13:54 · 9 answers · asked by i_need_help_fast 1

I was screaming and then i was shook awake and was still screaming. I felt like some strange figure was trying to wake me but it was my mum. I can't remember the dream but it has really stressed me out.

2006-10-29 12:05:41 · 11 answers · asked by marzena_1990 1

Am I just a trophy?
Something to show off?
Do you think you can control me?
Well if you do
Then you have got a surprise coming.
I am a person, not a thing.
I live by MY rules, not by anyone else’s
I can think for myself
I can Speak for myself.
And I can live without you
So if you really love me
You will realize
I am a living, breathing person
And I am NOT owned.

2006-10-29 12:03:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous