I am male ,age 20.I have a serious problem that ruins my life.i have social phobia.I cannot deal with people.when ever i talk my face colour become red , my voice changes and heart beating become rapid.All my friends laugh at me .this problem is being from childhood.I am 24 hour in tention.when ever i go to the place where people gather i fear if my face again become red ? i think this is because of the following cause " In our society boys starts loving with other (usually with )small boys and try to to do bad work with him.i was also a handsome boy .because of this i did not met to the other people i was fear if they start loveing to me than what will be my friends , parents and other people will thought thats way i leave meeting with people .when ever in assemble of people i went and some one see me because of shy my colour was changed and this problem is not yet finished . what i do ? this world is hell for me and i dont want to live more in this hell.
2006-10-29 15:37:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Please don't give up or want to die. I have social anxiety disorder among other things due to things from childhood. You just have to make yourself face the situations gradually that make you uncomfortable. A doctor and a therapist could help you too, there are many medications to help with anxiety. Please don't be scared to ask for help, lots of people have problems with anxiety, don't give up, get some help. Best wishes If you need someone to talk to that you don't have to meet, just reply to this and I will get an e-mail with your contact info ok? I am sorry you feel bad, I know it hurts.
2006-10-29 15:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by newstudent06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember you are not alone, this is not an uncommon condition. I would strongly advise seeking a professional. Because this is not uncommon you should also be able to find a support group with others that have social phobias. I think you would find this helpful.
2006-10-29 23:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by nicky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might try talking to a psychiatrist. Therapy can help and so can medication. Many people have social phobias, but they can be overcome with help from a professional.
2006-10-29 23:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by TeacherLady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should see a dr. they may be able to give you some medicine
2006-10-29 23:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by justcurious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋