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Psychology - September 2006

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When i was a kid. I know under 10, my mom babysat these 2 kids and there was a baby or a little older but under 5 if not a baby ( i can't remember clearly) and i think he was sleeping. Well, i got on top and don't know if i humped. Then when i was still young. I don't know how young maybe 8-11, I put my breasts in my cousins face when she was sleeping and she was really young too. but thats all i did and with the kid i got on top of, i am like 98% sure i had clothes on but see, it makes me feel like a bad person because i would never do this now well obviously but knowing i did it now makes me feel HORRIBLE! i obsess over it and people even tell me it's normal when you're young but you hear all these people talk about rape and i can't tell myself enough it wasn't rape. Then my mom said if i go to a councellor, they will have to tell the parents of the kid even though i was a kid myself. and i was like thanks alot, now it will make it seem like i am a bad person when i was a kid! I wish there was other people who did this exact thing and tell me how they deal with it and know they arn't a bad person. Sometimes people wonder what happened to me when i was younger because of certain things and what if people wonder or the kid wonders what happened to him. I mean i am pretty sure i had clothes on but i was a kid too but knowing they would have to tell the parents makes me feel 100x worse. I feel like i shouldn't be living!! or be able to be happy.

2006-09-25 16:36:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Doesn't expecting the unexpected make the unexpected the expected? I'm sure this has been asked a billion times by other people, but not like this... OK,

So if you expect the unexpected, then that makes the unexpected the expected. So doesn't that mean you're expecting the expected, which is redundant, because that is the same thing as expecting something. So people who live in a world where they supposedly "Expect the unexpected", don't they, in fact, live in a world where there is no such thing as the unexpected? I just came up with this a few moments ago. If you still don't get what I'm saying after reading it a couple of times then contact me and I will try my best to explain what I mean via email.

Thank you in advance.

2006-09-25 16:29:09 · 8 answers · asked by Asterisk_Love♥ 4

i sure do.

2006-09-25 16:24:13 · 7 answers · asked by mighty_power7 7

Well.. my problem is SUPER hard to explain, but i'll try: I idealize everything. I idealize women, friendship, i mean.. everything and i do it automatically. In addition, this has given me several problems and desilutions. Other thing i wanna say: I do everything, i'm cool, i'm funny, i speak 3 languages, i play excelent almost any sport, i drum very well, i'm super handosome, i got a LOT of friends, and i'm an excelent family, and i'm a very good, excelent person. i got almost everything, but i feel that i don't recieve the recognition and admiration i diserve, and that makes me sad. But deep inside me I think that by doing all that i SHOULD be admired by everyone like some sort of "god" :S. and since i don't recieve the grade of admiration i think i diserve i'm not happy. Lately NOTHING satisfies me. I'm always wanting more and more of wish i have. I'm not studing in school. I just wanna love what i have in life and live it. How can i stop this irrational thoughts?

2006-09-25 16:22:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i can eat in a restaraunt, ok, but to eat at home,with my family, is annoying.I prefer to eat alone,and my dad was the same way. I can eat with my family, but we all eat at different places. Hubby eats at the puter, I eat in the bedroom, and the kids eat in their rooms,and so we don't all eat together. We eat dinner,like turkey day and x-mas at the table, but that is it. When I eat in front of my kids, when they finish their food,and want more b4 I am finished with mine. It ruins my appetite. Plus, cooking makes me lose my appetite. i usually cook for myself and eat in the bedroom,where I can read in peace,listen to music,ect. Is it normal for me to not like eating in front of my family/friends? i can eat in a restaraunt, because ppl arent focussed on My eating,just their own...no i dont have an eating disorder.

2006-09-25 15:59:33 · 14 answers · asked by Dragonflygirl 7

I saw this on TV. Woman A is suspected of killing her abusive husband and Woman B tries to tell her that she owes a debt to society by telling the truth. How exactly does she mean by that?

2006-09-25 15:57:44 · 5 answers · asked by l2wh 4

If two men of one particular race rape a little girl of another, and then her father shoots the men as they walk to their trial case, should the shooter be found not guilty? Why or why not? Is it just? Would it be any less just if the shooter waited to kill them after the trial? Should USA have a detailed code book on revenge like Albania does? This all comes from the movie "A Time to Kill"

2006-09-25 15:55:45 · 20 answers · asked by Ximomila 2

I guess this is a question as old as time? Seems like everytime I need advice on what to do at the current moment, people do give an answer, yet tend to bring up my past actions, tend to assume my state of mind, and critise things that no longer exist. Is it as simple as they want to spread their pain to me so they don't feel lonely???

2006-09-25 15:54:17 · 14 answers · asked by nirvana19791979 2

Psychologist or Psychiatrist? I'm thinking of majoring in Psychology and I was wondering which of the 2 makes more money and why.

2006-09-25 15:52:35 · 6 answers · asked by Darunik 3

Don't say genetically; untrue. Nobody else in even my extended family comes close; isn't that funny? I believe it is a healthy thing to laugh, or at least smile when it's appropriate, many people apparently don't (or can't?). Now don't say they're pessimists, either, 'cause pessimists think all you optimists are pessimists, so forget it.

2006-09-25 15:48:01 · 15 answers · asked by Raptor 3

Just need the name of the phobia...

2006-09-25 15:39:18 · 14 answers · asked by faanderson07 1

In the past few weeks, a friend of mine has commited suicide, I've been blackmailed for a large amount of money, my dad strongly dislikes me, and I'm in a fight with my friends. I am tired constantly, never feel like doing hobbies I used to enjoy, and can barely sleep. I am always crying when I'm alone or at home, sometimes screaming or close to vomiting. I've been losing weight, and constantly thinking of blood and death. I heard my parents having a fight about me when I couldn't do my schoolwork, and they think I should see a psychiatrist.

2006-09-25 15:16:17 · 18 answers · asked by Snow White Queen 3

I know it's dumb to ask a guy what he thinks of your looks... but he's more of a friend anyway...
Somehow the subject shifted to if we thought we were ugly or not. I said I didn't think I was worth looking at, and he looked straight at me and said he's not going to tell me what he thinks, then kinda smiled and looked down.

What does that mean? I'm not pretty, I know, but, judging by his response, am I really that ugly? His friends already rated me as "so-so". But they were the ones who wanted to talk to me in the first place...

2006-09-25 14:56:04 · 10 answers · asked by SalesGirl 4

I cry when I go to other people funeral's even if i don't know them, and I cry when others are suffering and people often tell me to get over it you are more worried about being charitable than studying as studying is more important. people don't wannah talk to me for this reason and I talk to them and they ask me why i don't love them and they don't wan't me to help them.

2006-09-25 14:40:12 · 22 answers · asked by Jessica C 2

For college, I need to read a book to present on. I REALLY want a book about children and disability and counseling them, or a perspective of a child growing up with a physical disability. If anyone knows any books please tell me. I've looked and looked and cant find anything. ANY SUGGESTIONS WILL BE SOOO HELPFUL!!!!

2006-09-25 14:40:11 · 4 answers · asked by nik 1

I had legitimate questions... But i took the piss with em hahahah!!
Anyway... There is no real answer to this question but the person who puts the most or littlest effort into it will get 10 points :)
Any question I ask won't get the answer i want... Make me laugh with a crap answer or make me cry with a good answer... I need to laugh and i need to cry... Who get's me first gets the 10 points!

2006-09-25 14:28:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Allright,allright!! Sure, it was easy enough for these Psycologists and thier cronies to put me ON it , ( I had a little problem with paranoia 12 years ago), but I've been waiting all this time for a letter or at least a phone call or e-mail notifying me that I'm off. (or am I)? Maybe those people following me all the time are really psycologists dressed up as normal people.That's It! See?, They're still watching. I knew it!! Please help me, this waiting is killing me. (No, wait!--I didn"t mean 'killing me--I take it back. HELP! Rat

2006-09-25 14:28:13 · 2 answers · asked by Raptor 3

Ever since I was a child, I've had a paralyzing fear of the dark. I literally get so scared I cannot move. I sense a presence always in the dark. I wouldn't call it a ghost or anything silly like that but I definitely feel something is with me in the darkness. For the past few years though, I have not had a problem wi this fear at all. Though I still feel the presence I was no longer paralyzed in terror. Then about 5 months ago, there was an incident where I awoke with the same fear but this time heard footsteps when I tried to get up, I could not move, as if I was being held down. After several moments I was able to move frrely and left feeling hysterical. I have not had even the sense of fear of the dark since that night until last night. Though I wasn't paralyzed this time I did once again hear footsteps and now I am experiencing this unhealthy fear even in daylight. Does anyone have any information on what this could be or how to treat it?

2006-09-25 14:24:51 · 9 answers · asked by Celestian Vega 6

Which would be worse being physically tortured or raped in a way which is not physically painful?

2006-09-25 13:49:49 · 15 answers · asked by K 2

I was. Did you have to leave a light on? Did you think there were monsters under the bed or in the closet? How did you "protect" yourself and get to sleep?

2006-09-25 13:20:21 · 15 answers · asked by Isis 7

Horse for me... he stands pain a everything, it's hard a brave, loyal friend, serious and intelligent

2006-09-25 13:03:03 · 23 answers · asked by Mauricio P 2

god talk about leaving yourself open

2006-09-25 12:55:42 · 2 answers · asked by kevin d 4

2006-09-25 12:51:04 · 20 answers · asked by Bianca c 1

Are there any things you can do really awful, like kill your own children or start a terrorist attack, that psychologists say no person has the ability to forgive? It's amazing the f***ed up things people can forgive, really, is there a limit to it?

Actually I find most people to be quite unforgiving (I'm quite a cynic on human beings in general, LOL), understandably for things like murder, but you have people that think Hitler had redeeming qualities, even though his regime killed millions, including children for Christ's sake.

2006-09-25 12:44:42 · 18 answers · asked by Katie Girl 1

Is it that highly intelligent people are more likely to question things and be less dogmatic, and therefore are less likely to believe in literal translations of texts such as the Bible? Is it because logical and analytical thinking leads (with an open mind free from religious brain-washing/emotional attachment) to the rejection of the notion of omnipotent beings and heaven and hell? Whilst many religious people are undoubtedly intelligent, I believe that perhaps strong emotion/attachment can override or affect certain cognitive functions and so therefore the emotional significance of religion becomes the dominant force, not reason. For example when people are really angry or completely in love, they are more prone to loss of reasoning ability. Experience working within mental health has exposed me to the link between extreme religiosity and psychosis, which I think is an interesting one. Does anyone know of any research into this?

2006-09-25 12:33:08 · 15 answers · asked by emma s 1

One of my friends asked me one day if ANY types of drugs (illegal or legal) can age or get old over a certain period of time... so i was just wanting to find out if any types of drugs can age or grow old? (Drugs include: illegal pills, medications, herbs, illegal and legal drugs of any types)

2006-09-25 12:33:03 · 6 answers · asked by Julz 1

Christian profess faith in God. Therefore, heaven is something you have to believe in. Yet, why is heaven something we cannot get excited about? The promise of heaven is something that should commit us to really work for God. And in the process, like what Jesus did for example, if we should die in a couple of months doing the will of God, then it's great . . . we'll be with Him for eternity. Isn't that awesome ! Ah, well, hmm . . . why can't we get excited about heaven?

2006-09-25 12:31:38 · 9 answers · asked by DAX 2

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