Am I strange?

Question

I cry when I go to other people funeral's even if i don't know them, and I cry when others are suffering and people often tell me to get over it you are more worried about being charitable than studying as studying is more important. people don't wannah talk to me for this reason and I talk to them and they ask me why i don't love them and they don't wan't me to help them.

I have people come and ask me who's going to look after you when your Mum and Dad Die

when I am talking people keep talking to other people and not let me talk to that person. wot i mean is that they start talking to that person who talking to then me talking to that person when i didn't finish the conversation with that person.

Answer 1

Crying is just a manifestation of the emotion that is already in the 'air' around that place where sadness is predominating. More than being just receptive to it, you seem to have less control on holding it back. A little bit of awareness of self would help.
It is a normal and valid question about who would take care when parents are no more. Look at it practically, and answer them if warranted, else just say that when it comes to it , you will face it.
And the third one, people get distracted often and very few are capable of focusing on any speaker more than few moments, in the normal course, and in casual talks. So, nothing more to do about it... just wait till their attention returns, or else drop the subject, since they do not seem to me much concerned.

Answer 2

This is beautiful sign of a beautiful humanbeeing.

But crying only will not serve the purpose of your life.Try to do something for the person you cry for.

You are very emotional person who is often taken for granted.

Try to find out the purpose of your life. Unless you find it you will always be emotionally stressed.

Develope some habit /hobby to inculcate confidence in you.

Look at the world as it is. Look at the brighter side of every thing.

I know there are people who love to interrupt in the middle of a conversation. Whenever it happens dont just continue.Try to controle your emotion and wear a smile on your face.

Just try it and you will be heared again.

Answer 3

You are certainly NOT strange.In fact the world needs more humans like you to empathise with the sufferers.But, what is more important is that you should NOT allow such feelings to paralyse you into total inaction. Whenever you have such feelings take small steps , one by one , to express what you feel.May be write a nice letter consoling. May be , visit them if you know them.May be , just pray for them.... anything to give you the feeling that you are not just stopping at crying or feeling. ...That you are doing something about it. That will give you a good feeling and slowly you will come out of it and certainly one day you will be miniature Mother teresa

Answer 4

NO love you are not strange. Just because you care you have a real and genuine heart people are afraid of you. You see this nation has taught people to be heartless if you want to succeed in the world. America has taught us that even if it is your family, if you must step on people you love to rise to the top, well do it. Since crime has become big entertainment, seeing someone who has been victimized, brutalized and demoralized is something that you see everyday, all day. After all it is not you, right? You have enough to deal with on a day to day basis trying to make sense of this cold world. Not to mention that someone in your family is in jail or prison, you are in a relationship and unhappy, you hate your boss, you don't have enough money, a family member just died, you just found out that a family member is gay, and your best friend slept with someone you know. You see with all of this we don't have time to care. We have been dehumanized. We no longer care that kids are being raped in public restaurant restrooms, people are dying because the government head needed federal funding for his own purpose, or the person that slashed his wrist because child support was taking all of his money and he could not afford to pay his bills. Look around you, if you are not European decent and you have some color, you look like a terrorist. We live in a world that says that if you don't believe in what I believe in then you must die. And all of it is damnation. What do you do? You have to become heartless to survive. SO you are like a modern day phenomenon. You are amazing in your unique and loving beauty. You really do believe in "love." But can you blame them for thinking and feeling that way. If you know that you stand out because of this then you just hold you head up high. Because you are love, and they are afraid of it. You represent to this hypocrites what all of the prophets that came unto us. You represent hope. No one believes in that and to find someone that represents that is scary. I only know because I feel what you feel too. But we have to stop crying and do what we can to change it. And when you do then you will know that this is your purpose. Then you will feel love and serenity. It'll will be no more feeling alone. You will have more friends then you know. But you really only need God and your family. You'll see

Answer 5

It is but natural for people at a younger age to want to be full adult - the only way this can happen is by the appropriate lapse of time.

Meanwhile, it is advisable not to think about yourself - try to keep your mind occupied with whatever you are doing and make sure you are more involved in working than talking.

Answer 6

I cry when I see other people suffer, too...whether I know them or not, whether they're part of my community or not, whether they're on my side of the world or not.

People tell me to get over it too. They ask me, "Why worry yourself over it? You can't do anything to help."

I don't think this makes us strange. I think it makes us more compassionate. It's not us who has the problem. It's everyone else. If other people were a little more compassionate, maybe there would be more ways to help those who need it.

Answer 7

You're just a sensitive person. There's nothing wrong or unusual about that.

If people treat you that way in a conversation, turn around and walk away. You're more imoprtant than those sorts of people. Not being able to walk away from such ill-mannered fools is the problem, not your sensitivity to them.

Answer 8

Yes, probably strange. I would say strange in a good way though as we all are a little different than each other. You sound sensitive and caring. Those are two good characteristics. I suggest not becoming like a police officer or something. Maybe stick with doctor or teacher professions.

Answer 9

Ms. Jessica C. dear you are not a strange person however you do have a condition known as Highly Sensitive Person ( HSP ), please visit this website www.hsperson.com. Darling you will be amazed at how many other people have HSP. Good luck to you sweety oh I'm an HSP also.

Answer 10

you are not all strange. it is very natural to cry in those places. you should not worry about it. being sensitive has been lost somewhere. nowadays it is rare we find people like you. this society needs you and people like you. you never ever try to change yourself. because you are the best in whatever you are. ALWAYS REMEMBER IT!!!!!!!!!