2006-09-25 14:45:51 · 7 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
My children were planned. It was for me the next stage of life. I was in my late 30's and still had more fun with kids then adults. My wife and I were married 3 years so we went for it. The first was a Boy. A lot of work but a lot of joy. I get to watch cartoons every day and blame him. As he grows I blame my need to play sports on him and video games and go to Disney movies. I'm still a big kid and I have a little one to play with.
Warning it is a lot of fun but is a lot of work. Time and money needed.
2006-09-25 14:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not want to have children, but ended up having two, a girl and then a boy. And I am soooooo very glad that I did. Yes, both were unplanned, as is probably 90% of the children in this world, I would guess. My children are grown now, and I look forward to the day when they have an "Oops", or two of their own. It is, after all, what we were made to do (among other things), to live life, give life, and go on to the next life.
2006-09-25 16:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most parents would admit that their children were not planned, and a few might even admit that they were not prepared for the challenge of parenting, but I've met only one parent honest enough to admit that he wanted nothing to do with the child after it was born. My experience demonstrates to me that most parents are unfit and undeserving of children. Thus, so many screwed-up, obnoxious, and downright dangerous kids.
2006-09-25 14:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by lidlolady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If children were planned, they would never be born.
I wanted to have children, and someone to share life's experiences with. I have 3 boys, though I hope to someday adopt other children and foster some too, to help them understand life better since they don't have any one else to turn to.
2006-09-25 14:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of mine (3) we unplanned and I couldn't love them more. =) Sometimes I look back and wonder what I ever did without them.
2006-09-25 15:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by Kerri H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the dignity of having a family and raising my kids to become good christians !!!
2006-09-25 14:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by eltivo0210 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Failing to plan , is planning to fail" ... seems to be not applicable in this case !
2006-09-25 14:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋