So awhile ago, I'm out with my friends and Court TV is playing in the background at the bar. We all watch when this smoking hot blonde is shown at a press conference. It's a woman named Debra Lafave out of Florida who's 25 years old and was arrested for having sex with a 14 year old male student (link to a picture of her and the story below).
We'd been drinking, so of course, so we joke about how this kid must be the luckiest SOB to walk the planet, etc. But I digress.
The question: why is the female teacher off the hook for "having sex with" a 9th grade male student, but if the genders were reversed, it would be "molesting"? How damaged is the boy really (I'm trying to remember being 14...seriously, I think I'd be OK...)? Or is a double-standard OK in instances like these (and if so, why?)? I think of a 14 year old girl and a 25 year old man and I get queasy and want to kick the guy's @$$, but why don't we have that same reaction when it's hot teacherette/boy student?
2007-03-20
13:57:52
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